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grats
United States184 Posts
1- You are lazy 2- You play video games (and i am assuming you do this more than anything making it wrong) 3- You don't pay rent Just this alone blows my mind, you are an adult act like one. Stop blaming your father for the way he is and stop making excuses for the way you are. Its blatantly clear you know your flaws yet you do nothing to fix it. You are 21!!! its time to be a big boy and put down the mouse... I swear sometimes reading things like this I rage. | ||
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kidleader
Korea (South)233 Posts
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DND_Enkil
Sweden598 Posts
On March 15 2011 00:04 kidleader wrote: Does make me laugh how much anti-video game/video games are for children talk we get in the blog section of this dedicated Starcraft community. Who would know better than us?  And at 21 i am not sure i would class anyone as a child... | ||
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Kralic
Canada2628 Posts
It sucks your dad hit you, but you have to move on from that. The best thing you can do now is do the little things, like do the dishes and throw out the garbage. Maybe get a job PT or FT it doesn't matter just as long as you have a job and are getting some life experience. Video games are a big part of life for most of us here, but most of us here also are either students or people who work to make money and use video games as a way to relax after a tough day. I take it to the extreme, I am sitting at my computer for a big chunk of the evening after work. I have to cut back on it, but that is my own story and the thing I can only fix myself. So basically what I am saying is work on the little things and try to improve yourself. He will be happy if you are trying. Getting a job and some responsibility will be a good thing for you. | ||
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-Frog-
United States514 Posts
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adso
718 Posts
long ass thread to read  i would like to apologize to you for all the "men" who've told you to "just do it"... "man up".. "leave".. because i can. blogs are often troll material (hence the mass "dude talk" replies).. i will go on the assumption that you are not... most blogs like yours are a genuine cry for help... 1/ as too many posters pointed out already: it is time for you to start out in the world... by yourself! Again sorry if the previous posters' (most of them) typing is so harsh, this is an underestimated raw issue with everyone : they have or just have started to get their lives in order (suffered from it already), you have not... So they somehow childishly forget that they were in your seat not so long ago...  2/don't go and fight your dad... (ignore these moronic comments)... don't let him hurt you either ...but don't add to the awful cycle... YES, hitting your kid is wrong... (anyone saying contrary is a douche) a strike is always easily recognizable from a slap, it happens and it shouldn't.. we are, after all is said and done, only mammals... Whatever comes out of your future (you leaving and never seeing him/her again or something else less drastic..., your relationship never is quite good but it improves), embrace the constructive... YOU doing it... not waiting for it to happen. 3/don't talk about your dad/mom/... close relatives (YOU CARE ABOUT) like that.. i know you need to get it out and it comes out.. but one should not talk to total strangers about his/her relatives like that... indeed, try to picture yourself in your fathers shoes... 4/family is like genetics... you are suppose to "go from there"... 5/i'm going n the assumption that you're all hard and aggro outside and all alone/feeling fu.. for life... inside... STOP it, cheer up you've got a lot of shit coming and a lot of good things (providing YOU try to do something of yourself)! It won't always be like it is now, if YOU take control of your life... good luck ... life is short, you have to take chances, get going... not wait for stuff to happen (it will  most likely never come)Finally, everyone knows that "getting your shite together" is one of the hardest thing to do... only old farts like me would tell you though... | ||
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GreatFall
United States1061 Posts
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TOloseGT
United States1145 Posts
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judochopaction
United States533 Posts
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KhAmun
United States1005 Posts
Grow the fuck up. Still can't get over your its never okay to hit your (21yrold) child anywhere, but raping is fine so long as you don't get in trouble. | ||
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Gatsbi
United States1134 Posts
On March 15 2011 01:16 -Frog- wrote: Why do you have so much cutlery if all you're eating is pizza? Do you cut your pizza up and eat it with a fork? You sound like you have a laundry list of problems but let's start with pizza etiquette: eat that shit with your hands. best advice in this thread, that'll clear up that problem ezpz | ||
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Noxie
United States2227 Posts
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Essentia
1150 Posts
You also seem to blame your father for the way you act even though you consciously seems to understand what it is you do wrong or the bad habits you have....so why don;t you change the way you behave instead of blaming your father. The fact is you are an adult now and it's time for you to take responsibilities for your own actions and life. | ||
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yellowmoe
Canada59 Posts
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Thrill
2599 Posts
On March 15 2011 04:28 HornSnHaloS wrote: Still can't get over your its never okay to hit your (21yrold) child anywhere, but raping is fine so long as you don't get in trouble. Yeah, nice find in the post history... Forget my advice, this guy is beyond help. | ||
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JeeJee
Canada5652 Posts
i feel bad for your dad, he's too nice to kick you out who you are at the age of 21 has little to do with your parents. if there are aspects of you that you don't like, the reason they're not changed is because of you, not them. | ||
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krzych113
United Kingdom547 Posts
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SgtRock
Canada93 Posts
On March 14 2011 17:32 red4ce wrote: Dude, you're 21 and complaining about your parents? Just move out if it's so bad at home. QFT Man, you a legal adult in every(?) country int he world. You'll do ok in life... | ||
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Enki
United States2548 Posts
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Spidinko
Slovakia1174 Posts
PS: Damn...now back to LR and other random threads. | ||
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