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Linx_101
Canada166 Posts
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nayumi
Australia6499 Posts
1. Find a girl you like. 2. Walk up to her and slap the shit out of her consciousness and go "THAT'S FOR RATTING ME OUT U LITTLE BITCH!!!!!111 U JUST DON'T MESS WITH [insert ur name]" 3. Apologize and say you thought she was someone else who ratted you out to the teacher 4. Tell her that you told your other friends about this too and they are waiting for her on her way home so it'd be safer if you walk her home for today. While walking the lady home you can try to work your magic and talk her into sex, or ice-cream but i guess it's up to you. | ||
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MapleFractal
Canada307 Posts
So whens the time to start dating? Whenever, those awkward moments are going to happen, Its just part of being new to dating and the opposite sex. Just gotta nut up ask a girl you like out and the absolute worst thing she can do is say no. As far as being Asian goes, I have a friend that only dates Asian guys. The fact you seem uncomfortable with it will cause you more problems them the opposite sex. It just stems back to being confident. Be confident, and genuine, acting cooler or differently then you are will never work. There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance, god knows I've crossed that line before, just remember that. Arrogance generally never gets the girl. | ||
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Lightningbullet
United States507 Posts
On February 04 2011 12:20 Linx_101 wrote: Is no one else doubting that this guy's in gr. 7? How old do you think I am? | ||
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Lightningbullet
United States507 Posts
On February 04 2011 12:29 MapleFractal wrote: There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance, god knows I've crossed that line before, just remember that. Arrogance generally never gets the girl. I've bypassed the line a million times. It seems really thin to me. I somehow do it unconciously and notice to late. I think the main reasons girls don't really like me is because I kind of arrogant, so I might be viewed as a show-off. And because I can be VERY loud. :/ | ||
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
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hacklebeast
United States5090 Posts
On February 04 2011 12:22 nayumi wrote: Here's how you do it 1. Find a girl you like. 2. Walk up to her and slap the shit out of her consciousness and go "THAT'S FOR RATTING ME OUT U LITTLE BITCH!!!!!111 U JUST DON'T MESS WITH [insert ur name]" 3. Apologize and say you thought she was someone else who ratted you out to the teacher 4. Tell her that you told your other friends about this too and they are waiting for her on her way home so it'd be safer if you walk her home for today. While walking the lady home you can try to work your magic and talk her into sex, or ice-cream but i guess it's up to you. Hell, if the rest of that works, go for sex AND ice cream. | ||
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Loser777
1931 Posts
Man this thread makes me feel like a loser. Oh, wait | ||
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Lightningbullet
United States507 Posts
On February 04 2011 12:49 hacklebeast wrote: Hell, if the rest of that works, go for sex AND ice cream. I did mention that I was a 7th grader, right.... | ||
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
On February 04 2011 13:07 Lightningbullet wrote: I did mention that I was a 7th grader, right.... On February 04 2011 13:10 lixlix wrote: what, 7th graders don't like ice cream? LOLS | ||
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funnybananaman
United States830 Posts
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On February 04 2011 08:44 Lightningbullet wrote: AS you know, a lot of gaming and Starcraft nerds are Asian. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. Just to give some info, I am in 7th grade and I a semi-nerd. I like math , chess, and gaming. And while some of my friends, aren't into girls, I totally am. (but with homework, math and games, I don't have too much time) When do you think the starting age for dating is? A lot of popular kids at my school started dating in 6th grade. And so far, the people in the Asian group have not started dating yet. Do you have any advice/tips for me? When I was in 7th grade (age 13) I was 6 months into my first crush. She liked me too, but I didn't really know what to do about it. Thinking I knew things about girls I slow-played myself right into watching her date another classmate the next year. But was it really dating? In high school I saw people date. They would go out, do something, cuddle, and make out. People who dated had these exclusive privileges. Thinking I knew things about girls I tried to date my best friend for most of high school and it just never happened. In college I saw people date. There was less going out and more staying in. Not having to worry about parents they didn't have to go very far for privacy. They would also get to know the person on a very deep level, have sex, and maybe get engaged. Thinking I knew things about girls, I dated a few and had some nice relationships. They didn't last, but I learned something about myself and what I really want. So, when is a good starting age for dating? It's different for everyone, but I wholeheartedly believe that you're ready to date when you're ready to learn and grow from the experience. You're ready to date when you can selflessly give yourself to someone in return for their heart. You're ready to date when you realize that the most important thing isn't finding the girl you want to bone 24/7, but a great partner who you love and who will push you to be your best (perhaps without even trying!). Essentially, you're ready to date when you're grown-up. It's hard to give an exact time. Even my relationships with girls in their early 20's ended because they were too immature to handle them. Still, it's all part of the experience and I have learned a great deal from them. On the other hand, dating is what you make of it. Your definition will evolve over time as your experiences shape you. In that case, start "dating" when you're ready to find out. Oh, and drop the whole "girls don't find Asians attractive" crap. Embrace your asian-ness (and semi-nerdiness); confidence is the first step and you won't gain any by immediately writing yourself off. Besides, I doubt any 13 year old girl knows anything about attractive qualities, rather, what they think is hot based on pop culture and hormones. | ||
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Lightningbullet
United States507 Posts
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leejas
United States440 Posts
But in all real honesty wait and don't sell yourself short. Find a girl who sees you for whom you are. | ||
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HeadhunteR
Argentina1258 Posts
be calm as fuck that is the key man don't let her know you have any kind of feelings for her. remember women are bitches you will soon find out that. You aren't the problem the girls you are talking to are. You have to look for girls that are easy and that don't give you so much trouble. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32148 Posts
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Earll
Norway847 Posts
I'll leave you with 1 word of advice though and if you truly take this to heart your life with girls\dating in the future will probably be alotttttt smoother. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. This is not at allllll true under any circumstances whatsoever ever in this dimension or any paralelle dimesions. You as an Asian homeboy have the excact same capabilities and opportunities to get the superfly honies as any whitey(or african\latino\indian or whatever other race\nationality you would like to pull into the mix) . As people have already said, Confidence = good, (Arrogance = not so good) although I personaly dont think there is that thin of a line between the 2. Confidence is more just about trusting yourself and believeing that you are enough no matter what the scenario is. it is not about comparing yourself to others. Whereas Arrogance is more about believing you are better than others. Dont take yourself (too) seriously and you being confident will rarely come off as arrogant imo n_n Although I guess it is easier said than done to tell a boy just about to enter his teens to be confident but hey, it is what it is. | ||
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palanq
United States761 Posts
also please ignore any stereotypes you may feel about unattractive nerdy asian kids. you won't convince any girls that the stereotypes are bad if you believe them yourself. | ||
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