Dating isn't really the right word to use for a 7th grader. It's more like... private play time. Well, actually, that doesn't really sound much better either.

Megaliskuu

United States5123 Posts

February 04 2011 00:59 GMT

#22

On February 04 2011 09:59 tonight wrote:
Dating isn't really the right word to use for a 7th grader. It's more like... private play time. Well, actually, that doesn't really sound much better either.

Talking alot and holding hands basically

Never.Die

Japan189 Posts

February 04 2011 01:01 GMT

#23

Need to grow confidence and approach those girls bro. And WORK OUT! It totally helps. For one, it boosts your confidence and it makes you grow a body that women will get turned on by. Good luck and don't ever be shy and never apologize to other people for what you want.

lixlix

United States482 Posts

February 04 2011 01:04 GMT

#24

Just stop worrying about girls, when to start dating, how girls aren't in to Asian guys, and try to be the most badass Asian alive.

You think Genghis Khan worried about this shit? No he was too busy killing dudes at 10 years old and taking over his tribe as a teenager.

"White girls don't like Asians? I'll take over Europe "

Jlab

United States217 Posts

February 04 2011 01:08 GMT

#25

I dated some girl in 7th grade, that shit was a joke. Honestly most girls r gonna be dating the douche bags until the last year or so of college, so you've got till then to have fun, and get really fucking good at SC2, cause honestly theres no point until then anyway, you're not gonna marry your 7th grade gf. middle/high school relationships are a hobby, like Starcraft, not love. hahaha

Grobyc

Canada18410 Posts

February 04 2011 01:28 GMT

#26

It's a good start to being learning things and picking up confidence, but truthfully, the relationships won't end up lasting or going anywhere special at that age. I hate to break it to you, but that's the truth. It's not completely useless though because of the experience you gain and the things you learn.

I completely disregarded that until gr.12 or so when I began "open" to dating, mostly because I felt I was too busy with other things to find time to do it. I feel I've learned from relationships of my close friends though, so personally I didn't really feel behind in the learning process.

edit: ignore the whole asian thing. that should have no effect on your decisions.

Chairman Ray

United States11903 Posts

February 04 2011 01:30 GMT

#27

Asian? No dating until you finish University!

The_LiNk

Canada863 Posts

February 04 2011 01:39 GMT

#28

On February 04 2011 10:30 Chairman Ray wrote:
Asian? No dating until you finish University!

For practical reasons too might I add.

SpoR

United States1542 Posts

February 04 2011 01:42 GMT

#29

Any asians I've known who have dated outside their race have been with semi unattractive short blonde girls. They try with all kinds of girls but usually just end up having a lot of girl friends who friend zoned them for life.

iamho

United States3345 Posts

February 04 2011 01:44 GMT

#30

Wait till your balls drop bro. Until then its kinda pointless

Roe

Canada6002 Posts

February 04 2011 01:45 GMT

#31

it won't be "dating" in the adult sense until you're, well, an adult. but Maybe suggest doing homework together after school at her place, grabbing pizza for lunch, play some chess with her etc. At your age it doesn't really have to be something huge, but I'd suggest you get some practice getting used to being in a relationship with a girl. It won't be a huge deal when you look back at it, so just relax and have fun, and don't worry if everyone else is doing it and you aren't. Most of the people that dated in grade 7/8 were very socially pressured and had no idea what they were doing, and also had no idea who they were.

Lightningbullet

United States507 Posts

February 04 2011 01:47 GMT

#32

On February 04 2011 10:42 SpoR wrote:
Any asians I've known who have dated outside their race have been with semi unattractive short blonde girls. They try with all kinds of girls but usually just end up having a lot of girl friends who friend zoned them for life.

DArn...well I guess she is a bit more brunette than blonde...

Lightningbullet

United States507 Posts

February 04 2011 01:50 GMT

#33

On February 04 2011 10:45 Roe wrote:
it won't be "dating" in the adult sense until you're, well, an adult. but Maybe suggest doing homework together after school at her place, grabbing pizza for lunch, play some chess with her etc.

NO good at playing chess with my school
s people. I pwn every single one of 'em who wants to play in about 15/20 moves. Thats the equivalent of making a few banelings and taking down their wall. make more units, and kill their workers. And then just snooze to victory. In fact those kids don't even have a chess rating.

blahman3344

United States2015 Posts

February 04 2011 01:55 GMT

#34

I wouldn't worry about dating during middle school, it really isn't worth the trouble that it seems. Those relationships are mostly "trends" that popular kids do to make themselves seem cool and whatnot.
High school is where majority of kids start dating. I would probly suggest waiting until then.

edit: well if you're more worried about academics over dating, wait until college, imo.

whojohnisgalt

93 Posts

February 04 2011 02:03 GMT

#35

in 6th grade i asked some girl out. we lasted for 3 days. i got a kiss though. damn i was such a baller kid

Elegance

Canada917 Posts

February 04 2011 02:12 GMT

#36

Girls at that age are usually a little unstable and unsure of themselves. Hell even guys are like that. Up until the last year of high school, people have too much juices flowing so it's best to stay put. Hell I'm in a female infested program in university and im still single, and I like it that way

AyeH

United States534 Posts

February 04 2011 02:40 GMT

#37

On February 04 2011 08:44 Lightningbullet wrote:
AS you know, a lot of gaming and Starcraft nerds are Asian. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. Just to give some info, I am in 7th grade and I a semi-nerd. I like math , chess, and gaming. And while some of my friends, aren't into girls, I totally am. (but with homework, math and games, I don't have too much time)
When do you think the starting age for dating is? A lot of popular kids at my school started dating in 6th grade. And so far, the people in the Asian group have not started dating yet. Do you have any advice/tips for me?

WTF? White girls don't care if you are Asian most of the time. I've dated ALL white girls and all of them were attractive/fit individuals. It doesn't matter what your race is, it matters more who you are as a person. Don't blame it on your race. Only stuck up whores and sluts who think Asian men don't have big penises don't like Asian men.

Cambium

United States16368 Posts

February 04 2011 03:00 GMT

#38

How do you not have time in the 7th grade?

Just wait until high school, it's not like you are missing out on anything...

Cambium

United States16368 Posts

February 04 2011 03:01 GMT

#39

On February 04 2011 10:01 Never.Die wrote:
Need to grow confidence and approach those girls bro. And WORK OUT! It totally helps. For one, it boosts your confidence and it makes you grow a body that women will get turned on by. Good luck and don't ever be shy and never apologize to other people for what you want.

I agree with this. Check out the TL fitness thread, totally do SS bro. Start early, lift heavy, use those hormones.

Or just play sc...

Rinrun

Canada3509 Posts

February 04 2011 03:09 GMT

#40

7th grade? Asian crew not dating? It's the parents.

I got a confession in the 6th grade and "went out" with her. In other words we said we liked each other and talked on MSN a crap-ton; the regular elementary stuff. It really isn't a relationship.

Don't worry, your time will come, why rush a great thing that you will enjoy (and hate- see: many girl blogs on TL) for the rest of your life. Plus enjoy what you got right now- cause you will never go back to your carefree days. Oh how I miss those... but I digress.