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Well, yo TL! First blog post here but alas been a TLer a long time.. And well.. I've read alot of good content and peaople helping others out so here I'am.. In a "bad" situation and well should describe it.
So it's a girlproblem as most? ;; But ok so there is this girl I've known for a few months and well alredy from start I've been intrested in her.
We've been with eachother quite abit aswell as partying, dinners etc. Even once made out( at a really early stage of it all..) so like after that we spent alot of time getting to know eachother.. But then I never broke the ice...
I never like "broke through" that barrier about.. Like or not.. Hmmm.. That weird part... So by fear I rushed into another relationship that was so easy to get due to the chick. Shortlived due to some huge problems meanwhile the girl I was intrested in did like "the same"... And they got problems same time as.. Mine..
They're not certain but it probably it's break up.. But ya. Last weekend we where partying together again.. And like again it just felt right as befoee that got me into her in the first place. She still had trouble with the "bf" so untouchable.. But realizations came how close and good we actually know eachother. Alot of time spent beween us..
Well now here it goes so... What to do if it's broke up? Really just confess my crush..? Or wait with it.. But then again... How would I really "break the ice"?
It's something i wish for a future with so cha TL help out a fellow! 
 
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tough sitch o.O
depends on how her break up goes, I guess. If it's a short and easy one with no emotional strings...you can maybe just plunge right in and ask her to do something with you then confess your crush and go for an epic win kiss.
If it doesn't go so well, then maybe you should just give her some emotional space, give her attention though but try to avoid getting friendzoned too hard...I mean you have already made out with her which sort of puts you on the verge of friendzone and datable guy, I reckon...
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The Nash Equilibrium is to NEVER CONFESS.
Actually, confessing first when she does like you puts her in a better position than you, so that trivial value might be arbitrarily lower. Also, not confessing when she doesn't like you might put you in a better position for later or make you sad/frustrated that you didn't get it off your chest, but I'll assume you'll figure out her true feelings later on, so 0!
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Schrodingers Cat
in 1935 Erwin Schrödinger in a attempt to explain the Copenhagen interpretation of mechanics, he proposed an experiment where a cat is placed in a box with a sealed vial of poison that will break open at a random time. now since no one knows when of if the vial of poison has been released until the box is open the cat can be thought of both dead and alive.
your potential relationship can be thought of both good and bad, it is only by opening the box where you will find out which it is
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You already made out and have known each other forever?
What ice is there to break?
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
women are like monkeys swinging from vine to vine, they don't let go of an old one until they've grabbed onto a new one
present your vine to her
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United Arab Emirates5090 Posts
just make it clear that you like her and if she says no then don't talk to her ever again. move on and continue bullshitting with your friends and shit, and maybe one day she'll see that hey this guy is pretty cool about us and didn't go into a slump, maybe i'll take up his offer... some shit like that. talk to more girls. girls want a guy that's taken. if she sees you with other girls she'll want you so much more.
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United Arab Emirates5090 Posts
On February 03 2011 20:57 Rekrul wrote:
women are like monkeys swinging from vine to vine, they don't let go of an old one until they've grabbed onto a new one
present your vine to her
holy shit rek havent seen you post in a while. how u been?
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On February 03 2011 20:21 paper wrote:
Actually, confessing first when she does like you puts her in a better position than you, so that trivial value might be arbitrarily lower. Also, not confessing when she doesn't like you might put you in a better position for later or make you sad/frustrated that you didn't get it off your chest, but I'll assume you'll figure out her true feelings later on, so 0!
The values assigned here could be wrong. What if he doesn't confess and she friendzones him? That's like -100 right there.
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On February 03 2011 20:57 Rekrul wrote:
women are like monkeys swinging from vine to vine, they don't let go of an old one until they've grabbed onto a new one
present your vine to her
define "vine"
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On February 03 2011 21:43 Whole wrote:Show nested quote +On February 03 2011 20:57 Rekrul wrote:
women are like monkeys swinging from vine to vine, they don't let go of an old one until they've grabbed onto a new one
present your vine to her define "vine"
— n
1. any of various plants, esp the grapevine, having long flexible stems that creep along the ground or climb by clinging to a support by means of tendrils, leafstalks, etc
2. the stem of such a plant
Chicks love em
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lol rekruls comment is funny...
You just need to man up and tell her how you feel... if you knew what you were doing (which you don't) you could be subtle about it and gauge her interest by flirting and leaving the ball in her court to see what she does with it... or you can just tell her you've liked her for x amount of time and you think shes absolutely amazing and blah blah blah.,.. most girls fall for that stuff even if its not true, cuz they're DUMMIES!!!
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"How much does a polar bear weigh?"
"I don't know, how much?"
"Enough to break the ice. Hi I'm _____."
That's gotten pretty good reception from girls. But why not just spend time with her and chat it up? Isn't that ice-breaking material?
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Why bother telling her how you feel? Just go out and show her. Take her out and have fun, try to make out with her, just do whatever the hell comes naturally.
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On February 04 2011 00:10 dudeman001 wrote:
"How much does a polar bear weigh?"
"I don't know, how much?"
"Enough to break the ice. Hi I'm _____."
That's gotten pretty good reception from girls. But why not just spend time with her and chat it up? Isn't that ice-breaking material?
I don't think that's something you say to a girl you have already made out with, especially when it wasn't too recent lol
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On February 03 2011 20:57 Rekrul wrote:
women are like monkeys swinging from vine to vine, they don't let go of an old one until they've grabbed onto a new one
present your vine to her
That sounds disturbingly kinky, especially if you're into like... Tarzan roleplay or something.
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Okay just read it again more thoroughly, I don't think there's any ice to break. Just man up and tell her you like her?
On February 03 2011 20:21 paper wrote:The Nash Equilibrium is to NEVER CONFESS. Actually, confessing first when she does like you puts her in a better position than you, so that trivial value might be arbitrarily lower. Also, not confessing when she doesn't like you might put you in a better position for later or make you sad/frustrated that you didn't get it off your chest, but I'll assume you'll figure out her true feelings later on, so 0!
actually, that picture is really flawed, as the state space should always be independent from the outcome (not the case in the picture).
a simple counter example: the girl might <3 you because you summoned enough courage to confess your love
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thx for all the answers.. So yea... just do it ^^.. get some balls and man up
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On February 03 2011 20:01 RoSe. wrote:
We've been with eachother quite abit aswell as partying, dinners etc. Even once made out( at a really early stage of it all..) so like after that we spent alot of time getting to know eachother.. But then I never broke the ice...
I consider the ice 'broken' if you've made out with her.
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hate to be terribly crass, but make her cum harder than her bf can and shes yours. if you can make out with her you can escalate it where you want to go.
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