On January 23 2011 13:39 news wrote: tell me about it. I never knew why people were raving so much about female logic and its absurdity before I started living with one
One woman can make you fly like an eagle another can give you the strenghth of a lion but only one in the cycle of life can fill your heart with wonder and the wisdom that you have known a singular joy
I've been with my current GF for 8 months and yeah her logic makes my head explode sometimes, but she is highly tolerable to be around for me.
Whenever I feel like I'm right, but she wants to argue with me about something I just say fuck it and agree with her even though I don't believe her haha. >,< Can't beat women at their game.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
On January 23 2011 18:01 Z3kk wrote: ...I'm scared ._.
Single for now, but having a girlfriend sounds like torture or something...
Na, it isn't torture. You just have to realize that a relationship needs work - constant, hard work - from both partners. Or else you'll quickly not be living with a partner, but just with someone you're sharing your flat with, and that can get annoying as hell very fast.
And sometimes, even work won't help because some people just aren't made for each other. The problem with that is to realize it early enough to avoid uneccessary drama.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
ur gonna be single too son if she finds this post
That's hilariously fucking funny. I'm crying in tears of laughter right now. Why? Because this actually happened to me on a different forum (Shoryuken.com) I posted bad shit about my GF and she found out and broke up with me after being together for almost 2 years. FAIL... lolz
It's a street fighter forum, but it's a long story as to how she found my posts... on a fighting game forum. Anyways comedy soon prevailed as she read every SINGLE post. I didn't even bother to try and keep the relationship because I said some really bad shit on there in a relationship thread.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
See, it's simple. What the woman wants, but can't say, is for you to be so interested in her all of the time that you would rather watch her sleep than play games or watch TV. She's just logical enough to keep herself from actually saying it out loud in so many words.
She also wants you to supply unlimited amounts of money. And completion of chores. And presents. Did I mention your complete attention as well?
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
It's really not that hard.
That sounds like some pretty simple advice for a situation that is never simple. I mean, how do you cuddle wrong? What, did you have your elbows in your eyes or something? I mean, fuck she should be happy that you're just there together and not nitpick the small stuff.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
It's really not that hard.
what?
wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING.
On January 23 2011 17:44 emc wrote: ya women logic can be fail, but remember, we're on TL, that means we sacrificed time with them to play SC at one point, just giving some perspective.
calling it logic is an insult to logic. Just accept they're insane and you'll live life happy.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
It's really not that hard.
what?
wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING.
I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
It's really not that hard.
what?
wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING.
I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense.
ITT: Nerds who are clueless about women rage about how insane women are while ignoring their own inability to maintain a relationship/not choose a psychobitch.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
It's really not that hard.
what?
wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING.
I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense.
ITT: Nerds who are clueless about women rage about how insane women are while ignoring their own inability to maintain a relationship/not choose a psychobitch.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
Lol. This is actually a fail on your part for not figuring out what she wants.
As someone who's actually a good boyfriend: wut she wants isn't to 'cuddle', but love and affection.
It's really not that hard.
what?
wow mr.women understander, brilliant conclusion. And what about respecting his motherfucking life and space? If he hasn't played really for 2 months, he owes her NOTHING.
I don't feel like the dude was against giving her what she wants lol, just that he executed the build poorly due to bad scouting and weak starsense.
ITT: Nerds who are clueless about women rage about how insane women are while ignoring their own inability to maintain a relationship/not choose a psychobitch.
Don't troll bro, psychos are the most fun.
Psychos are good fuckbuddies. Psychos are NOT good girlfriends. At some point the sex won't be worth it.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
This conversation is pretty painful to read man. You really got to man up there and not acquiesce to her.
Should really go like this
'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'ok, how about this? ' then either slap her ass or touch her inappropriately or pick her up and throw her on a bed/couch.
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'ok, don't really want to hold you'
after she bitches you out, don't go and tuck her in and lay by her side for 30minutes man. You think this will make her feel better but sadly it won't. It just rewards her for being a bitch to you which only guarantees you more attitude in the future.
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'yeah, I'm pretty busy with a lot of other stuff'
and if she really said to you 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
Your reply should really be
'yeah I think you are right' then walk out the door.
Heh. I assumed exodus's account was slightly exaggerated, but if your girlfriend actually says "fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!" then I'd agree with lixlix: she doesn't value your relationship any more.
On January 24 2011 12:51 BottleAbuser wrote: Heh. I assumed exodus's account was slightly exaggerated, but if your girlfriend actually says "fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!" then I'd agree with lixlix: she doesn't value your relationship any more.
I also sort of figured the OP was a bit of an exaggeration. Sounds like she's trying to sort of get you to be more assertive.
If she did say that stuff word for word, then... yeah, that sucks. You're doing both of you a disservice by bending over backwards for those shenanigans though.
He's not talking about the OP, but about eu.exodus. He is 100% wrong there but he would most likely be right about the OP. lixlix just doesn't know wtf he's talking about, it's ok. He will learn one day.
On January 24 2011 13:19 news wrote: He's not talking about the OP, but about eu.exodus. He is 100% wrong there but he would most likely be right about the OP. lixlix just doesn't know wtf he's talking about, it's ok. He will learn one day.
ok man. thats super enlightening.
Unless if you know eu.exodus personally, not sure how you know the 2 situations are different.
Its fine to disagree with my advice but to not say why and just shoot off a one liner like that is pretty damn condescending.
because one situation is all the little things girlfriends to to sparkle some emotion when they feel lonely or bored and second situation is some serious problem that is about to end the relationship
you should be able to tell the difference between playing around while cuddling and giving her man shit about his work/suggesting they need to see other people
The only difference is that in the first case, the relationship is already over, and in the second case its on the path to that eventuality, assuming there is no embelishment from eu.exodus.
Assuming the 2nd conversation is to the letter, I don't see how anybody can read that as 'playing around while cuddling'. By all accounts, eu.exodus seems like he was trying his best to be accommodating and getting nothing but shit back.
that's why i said that eventually you will understand. Things like this can happen randomly even with a loving girlfriend. She wants him to care for her even though she finds absurd reasons to get his attention. I assume you never lived with anyone
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
This conversation is pretty painful to read man. You really got to man up there and not acquiesce to her.
Should really go like this
'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'ok, how about this? ' then either slap her ass or touch her inappropriately or pick her up and throw her on a bed/couch.
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'ok, don't really want to hold you'
after she bitches you out, don't go and tuck her in and lay by her side for 30minutes man. You think this will make her feel better but sadly it won't. It just rewards her for being a bitch to you which only guarantees you more attitude in the future.
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'yeah, I'm pretty busy with a lot of other stuff'
and if she really said to you 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
Your reply should really be
'yeah I think you are right' then walk out the door.
This guy kinda has it right. But this shit just stopped working for me after 4 years and she just bailed out now saying she needs space. Which doesn't even make sense at all because I gave her nothing but space and freedom and even allowed her to hook up with other chicks.
On January 23 2011 17:41 eu.exodus wrote: i feel your anguish.
'i wish you would give me as much attention as you give that game!' 'i havent played in 2 months'
_to guy on ladder, 'enjoy the free win dude, the devil calls'
then i lie next to her and play with her hair. 'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'okay sorry. How then?' 'like this' 'okay'
a minute later...
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'say what?' 'you dont want to hold me properly' 'but this is how you said i should hold you' 'no i didnt' 'i give up, what exactly do you want so i can give it to you?' 'nothing, im going to bed'
so i tuck her in and lay by her until she falls asleep. Then go back to play cos i cant sleep. 30 mins later,
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'but you were asleep. I was with you the whole time' 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!' 'rofl! Where did you get that idea?' 'im just a joke to you. Dont bother coming to bed!' 'sigh okay'
_she rage quits to go sleep. I end up watching tv on the couch.
And that was last night. And ive been with her for 3 years. T.T
enjoy being single buddy. I seriously envy you.
This conversation is pretty painful to read man. You really got to man up there and not acquiesce to her.
Should really go like this
'hold me!' 'okay' 'not like that!' 'ok, how about this? ' then either slap her ass or touch her inappropriately or pick her up and throw her on a bed/couch.
'if you dont want to hold me just say so!' 'ok, don't really want to hold you'
after she bitches you out, don't go and tuck her in and lay by her side for 30minutes man. You think this will make her feel better but sadly it won't. It just rewards her for being a bitch to you which only guarantees you more attitude in the future.
'you never want to spend any time with me!' 'yeah, I'm pretty busy with a lot of other stuff'
and if she really said to you 'fuck you! If you want someone else go get her!'
Your reply should really be
'yeah I think you are right' then walk out the door.
This guy kinda has it right. But this shit just stopped working for me after 4 years and she just bailed out now saying she needs space. Which doesn't even make sense at all because I gave her nothing but space and freedom and even allowed her to hook up with other chicks.
I 100% encouraged my ex's (GFs at the time) to hook up with other chicks. As far as I'm aware, that's one step closer to a threesome...
On January 24 2011 14:12 news wrote: that's why i said that eventually you will understand. Things like this can happen randomly even with a loving girlfriend. She wants him to care for her even though she finds absurd reasons to get his attention. I assume you never lived with anyone
1. Its not as if he didn't give her his attention. He immediately shut down what I assume to be starcraft, taking a loss, and then going over to do what his GF wanted. He then continued to give her his full attention while she complained every step of the way. Even after doing this, she is still pissed and asks to go to bed alone. Despite her terrible attitude, he goes and tucks her in and lies next to her for 30 minutes until she is asleep. Then she has the gall to bitch some more?
2. Even if he wasn't on his best behavior, that is no excuse to say something like "fuck you! if you want someone else, go get her".
3. Despite disagreeing with me, you seem to not offer any alternative advice because by all accounts eu.exodus has already tried the "being nice and good boyfriend" route so I'm not sure what you would suggest.
4. I find it amusing that you keep wanting to make this about me and presume to know me from a few lines I've posted. Must be from that amazing reading ability of human behavior you have. I feel no need to post about my life experiences to justify my advice as I believe the advice should stand alone.
he is fine with what he has, girls do this shit all the time and it doesn't mean anything about the relationship. Some of them are more mature and understanding, some - less. You make assumptions based on some imaginary rules that don't apply to real life situations. You cant always reason your gf no matter how right you are, she will be unhappy and will make you unhappy. If you like being constantly unhappy and mad - sure, keep sassing. But once you break up with one or two you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring. Of course he can finish his game and he can ignore w/e she asks, they are not breaking up over that. He was just giving an example of female logic and how absurd it can be
at no point did I advise for him to reason with his girl. In fact my advice is based upon playing with her emotions. what eu.exodus tried is reasoning with her, which never works. And despite his logic trying its hardest to come up with a way to supplicate his girlfriend, she remained unhappy.
You are right about the "if he had finished his game...they aren't breaking up over it". he should realize this. In fact, if he had half jokingly said "ok if I win this game, you give me a blowjob and if I lose, I'll eat you out" he would have a much better result than the one he ended up with.
I find the statement of "once you break up with one or two, you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring" fairly pointless.
You break up because you aren't happy in a relationship. If the benefits of the relationship out weighs the shit you have to put up with then you stay in it. If it doesn't then you leave. Its pretty simple.
I think its kind of sad that you feel that this sort of behavior from the female side is to be not only expected but should be accepted in a relationship. I assure you this is not the case and there are lots of great girls who won't pull this kind of shit assuming the guy is actually being a man in the relationship.
On January 24 2011 14:53 lixlix wrote: at no point did I advise for him to reason with his girl. In fact my advice is based upon playing with her emotions. what eu.exodus tried is reasoning with her, which never works. And despite his logic trying its hardest to come up with a way to supplicate his girlfriend, she remained unhappy.
You are right about the "if he had finished his game...they aren't breaking up over it". he should realize this. In fact, if he had half jokingly said "ok if I win this game, you give me a blowjob and if I lose, I'll eat you out" he would have a much better result than the one he ended up with.
I find the statement of "once you break up with one or two, you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring" fairly pointless.
You break up because you aren't happy in a relationship. If the benefits of the relationship out weighs the shit you have to put up with then you stay in it. If it doesn't then you leave. Its pretty simple.
I think its kind of sad that you feel that this sort of behavior from the female side is to be not only expected but should be accepted in a relationship. I assure you this is not the case and there are lots of great girls who won't pull this kind of shit assuming the guy is actually being a man in the relationship.
this. a man should never put up with crazy shit from his GF/girls in general. if she ain't right, she ain't right. simple as that.
then at least have the courtesy to quote me, so everybody understands who you mean. I don't think anything i said, though douchy written, is like a " neanderthal ". Also, why are you insulting me in the first place? I think that Integrity comes first and not the relationship. So, if OP(or the guy we refer to) thinks his GF is wrong, he shouldn't just do what she says for the sake of her. Living like that will make you hate yourself.
More concrete on the matter, if she wants to get held, there is no way she has any right to criticize him. It's like asking "please cook me something" then complaining about how it is tasting wrong/bad/whatever. He is not a cook, nor does he get paid for. He does not have to do anything at all, basically. A relationship exists purely on voluntary grounds. The insult from her at the end of the day is just the icing on the top. At that point dumping her is the right thing to do, also for the sake of her as she clearly needs some kind of reality check.
I feel yeah... anyone have tips on figuring out if your gf's cheating on you? I believe i need some right nowz. My feelings are kinda weird lol i feel like "oh well why the fuck do i give a shit" o_O Anyways anyones haz tips? = )
Well usually when your girlfriend is cheating on you, you pick up signals like she wants to spend less time with you, she's mean to you for no reason at all, or she starts accusing you of infidelity.
Maybe you should post some of the things that lead you to suspect she is cheating on you.
Well in my case she thinks i don't know her twitter account so she's twittering some other guy "X Your the guy here, you should be coming to me" (down scaled the retardedness) and 'X i need a lunch date for tuesday.....LMFAO" stuff like that
On January 25 2011 09:58 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Well in my case she thinks i don't know her twitter account so she's twittering some other guy "X Your the guy here, you should be coming to me" (down scaled the retardedness) and 'X i need a lunch date for tuesday.....LMFAO" stuff like that
On January 25 2011 09:58 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Well in my case she thinks i don't know her twitter account so she's twittering some other guy "X Your the guy here, you should be coming to me" (down scaled the retardedness) and 'X i need a lunch date for tuesday.....LMFAO" stuff like that
call her out on it yo
I don't know man, if i do those kind of things i'd like to go over board just for the heck of it. But if i'm wrong... dayuum
Not sure any good can come of calling her out on it.
She'll put the blame back on you about how you're snooping around her account and you end up looking like the insecure guy always checking on what she is doing which makes you even less attractive in her eyes.
She'll also say something to the effect of she didn't do anything and that you shouldn't be so possessive. So in the end, you don't really resolve anything and you find out little extra.
I would just take some time off away from her. Calmly consider whether you want to be with this girl before doing anything. The time away could also help her realize that she misses you and then she might lesson contact with other dude. And if during your time away from her, she ends up with other dude, well then there is your answer.
Funny thing is, she met this guy on a website. And i can't really secretly follow her around since I'm half way across the country right now = (
Edit: Aww FML seems like there's 2 guys hitting on her now. I had a feeling "X" was hitting on her, so everytime he said something on her facebook i tried to make him look stupid or question him... now another douche-bag shows up.... FML
Reading about this makes me so happy I found a girl who won't do any of that shit. No using me for money, cheating on me, dating me for my looks, or stupid fucking complaining about stupid shit. Just genuine love.
On February 16 2011 02:53 vOdToasT wrote: Reading about this makes me so happy I found a girl who won't do any of that shit. No using me for money, cheating on me, dating me for my looks, or stupid fucking complaining about stupid shit. Just genuine love.
People like her should be more common.
Are you sure you are safe? I recently ended a 7-year relationship that to me seemed perfect. "that shit" can start at any time. Like someone said in this thread: when she gets tired of the relationship she will start behaving irrationally.
On February 16 2011 02:53 vOdToasT wrote: Reading about this makes me so happy I found a girl who won't do any of that shit. No using me for money, cheating on me, dating me for my looks, or stupid fucking complaining about stupid shit. Just genuine love.
People like her should be more common.
Nearly every relationship is like that until she actually starts doing those things. Best you learn now that the only certainty in life is death and taxes. Women, on the other hand, are nothing but the opposite of certain.
On January 24 2011 14:53 lixlix wrote: at no point did I advise for him to reason with his girl. In fact my advice is based upon playing with her emotions. what eu.exodus tried is reasoning with her, which never works. And despite his logic trying its hardest to come up with a way to supplicate his girlfriend, she remained unhappy.
You are right about the "if he had finished his game...they aren't breaking up over it". he should realize this. In fact, if he had half jokingly said "ok if I win this game, you give me a blowjob and if I lose, I'll eat you out" he would have a much better result than the one he ended up with.
I find the statement of "once you break up with one or two, you will start noticing that they are all alike in this regard and if you want to stay with someone you like you should start caring" fairly pointless.
You break up because you aren't happy in a relationship. If the benefits of the relationship out weighs the shit you have to put up with then you stay in it. If it doesn't then you leave. Its pretty simple.
I think its kind of sad that you feel that this sort of behavior from the female side is to be not only expected but should be accepted in a relationship. I assure you this is not the case and there are lots of great girls who won't pull this kind of shit assuming the guy is actually being a man in the relationship.
jesus christ when did Dr.Phil start posting here?
in the end, women are fuelled by emotion, whereas men are taught to be stoic and not let emotion run our lives... this is why men and women have these sort of "insane" interactions... it is perfectly normal and can happen in a loving relationship.... it obviously shouldn't happen often in a healthy relationship but hey, shit happens... nothing is perfect...
Are you sure you are safe? I recently ended a 7-year relationship that to me seemed perfect. "that shit" can start at any time. Like someone said in this thread: when she gets tired of the relationship she will start behaving irrationally.
She endured a long distance relationship for over a year, when she could have easily dumped me and gone for someone else closer to her. We couldn't even meet each other at all. So if she wasn't serious, she wouldn't endure that. (and neither would I).
She's also sick of being with shallow / lame people, like the ones I mentioned earlier. And she wouldn't even care if I turned into a girl, or any other body she doesn't find attractive.
He is safe. Our relationship is based on intellect. It is not based on emotional needs, or any of the other things that tend to change like the weather. Also, though I have my crazy moments like most people, I will always admit to them. I am very much a rational being. Reason and long term structure are things that I value greatly.
Are you sure you are safe? I recently ended a 7-year relationship that to me seemed perfect. "that shit" can start at any time. Like someone said in this thread: when she gets tired of the relationship she will start behaving irrationally.
She endured a long distance relationship for over a year, when she could have easily dumped me and gone for someone else closer to her. We couldn't even meet each other at all. So if she wasn't serious, she wouldn't endure that. (and neither would I).
She's also sick of being with shallow / lame people, like the ones I mentioned earlier. And she wouldn't even care if I turned into a girl, or any other body she doesn't find attractive.
It's awesome. :D
It's not about being serious. Plenty of couples get married, buy houses and have kids (it doesn't get more serious than that) and still one day, one of the two slowly (or quickly) starts falling out of love. 2 months ago I would have been on your side in this thread, proudly claiming that perfect ever-lasting relationships were out there and that I was a shining example of it.
I'm not trying to be a doomsayer. I'm just advising everyone to keep a potential breakup in your mind no matter how impossible it sounds. Make sure you are financially stable on your own, make sure you have hobbies/passions that do not involve your significant other (you'll need them when/if it happens) and do not co-sign mortgages.
This thread is pure gold. I almost wish everyone who give advices here reveal their relationship knowledge/ history. So many stupid comments but then again asking advices on a forum isn't the smartest thing to do in the first place. Not because everyone here is idiots or anything but nobody really knows your situation.