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it's interesting in that she looks way out of your league. Maybe the camera angle was just bad for you/good for her or something
Either way it seems that you're dealing with it pretty well compared to most of the emo 14 year olds around here. Huzzah good sir
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Sorry for you breakups sucks. I am in a similar situation been with her 4 years living together for 2.5. Quite a few of the bff evidence things from that blog was scary but luckily we have great sex
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On December 18 2010 07:29 Divinek wrote:
it's interesting in that she looks way out of your league. Maybe the camera angle was just bad for you/good for her or something
I think this is an EXTREMELY rude thing to say. :/
I think anyone can be with anyone, but if you're immediately going to assume, "she's out of my league" or you hear someone else say, "you can't get her, she's out of your league" then yeah, you're not going to get her.
Women(in my opinion), aren't only looking for looks, but have a natural instinct to find someone who can provide for them, and protect them. Of course, not all girls are like this, some women love to know who they are and don't want anyone to protect them. But, naturally, from a long time ago with cavemen to now, women will (whether it's consciously or subconsciously) look for someone to can provide for them and protect them.
So, stating this, although women love a man who is incredibly attractive and wealthy and strong, it's not just because of this. It's because these are attributes that make them feel safe. He's strong, so they'll feel protected. He's wealthy, so they'll feel provided for.
A normal woman would date someone because she finds him cute, his personality agrees with hers, and she feels good when she's with him.
Obviously, there's many exceptions, and weird circumstances, but on a general stance, that is(in my opinion) what it is. So a nerdy guy can always score the hawt babes~
The OP must have had a great personality and made her feel wonderful(I don't mean sexually =P) if she was with him for so long.
I just think that after a guy for so long, if you're still doing the same thing as before, if you're not trying new things and going new places, your relationship will switch from being romantic to platonic. It happens. -shrug- !!
Maybe it was this BFF'D thing =P ♥
In any case, good job on the OP for taking this like a man and living like a normal person still. ^__^b
Edit: Mavkar, that was OP's username. I couldn't remember. My bad. xD! ♥
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The blog you linked was kinda depressing, especially that it seemed to be awfully accurate in your case.
This is your blog, so i'm not gonna get into my stories I guess. Well, life goes on. It always does...
gl, cheers
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TL is a guy? I always assumed it was feminine... I guess this means I'm gay for TL...
How do you sleep in the same bed and have no hanky panky going on? Are you not attracted to each other like that?
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I can agree with the "out of my league" thing. She looks really good and I don't look like the typical guy you would match with her. I experienced that alot when we met new people etc, annoying maybe, but it's not bad to be underrated.
Sleeping in the same bed is kinda weird, I agree on that. But it's not hard to do, because the only thing really changed is that we are no longer in an lover-relationship and the awkardness that is going with it but our everyday-life didn't change that much. So it isn't really hard to treat her like before. I just try to avoid touching her too much. I just think thats inappropriate right now.
Thanks so far TL.
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Living together after a breakup is hard. It is awkward, but sometimes necessary unfortunately. It takes such a ridiculous long time to settle formal stuff, at least if you own an apartment together. It seems like you are handling it maturely though, and the fact that it was a mutual decision probably helps a lot. I wish you good luck, stay strong, holidays can be kind of cruel sometimes, with all the expectations of happiness.
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On December 18 2010 07:29 Divinek wrote:
it's interesting in that she looks way out of your league. Maybe the camera angle was just bad for you/good for her or something
Either way it seems that you're dealing with it pretty well compared to most of the emo 14 year olds around here. Huzzah good sir
What the hell, mate?
First, it doesn't make sense to judge such things from a photograph as personality/confidence/etc. are quite important to account for.
Second, posting that in the context of a breakup is... really poor manner.
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On December 18 2010 07:29 Divinek wrote:
it's interesting in that she looks way out of your league. Maybe the camera angle was just bad for you/good for her or something
Either way it seems that you're dealing with it pretty well compared to most of the emo 14 year olds around here. Huzzah good sir
i would pimp slap you in front of everyone for saying this. You are so low you should be ashamed of yourself, i wish your mother knew how to not raise a social retard
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