Seeking Advice - Page 2

On August 12 2010 12:05 geometryb wrote:
if he isn't passionate about what he's doing, spending the money and time to go to grad school isn't going to be worth it.

On August 12 2010 18:39 randomKo_Orean wrote:

best fuckin idea ever

On August 12 2010 09:34 Megalisk wrote:
yo how is u you gon try to change ur man dat aint right homegirl a nigga gotta do what he gotta do knowimsayin? if he wantz to watch da starcraft then let him a nigga will realize when he dun messed up and he will be sorry ya feel me? or u could just leave his ass until he promises to do wuts right ya know?

On August 12 2010 07:51 nath wrote:
It can only come from him, I'm sorry.

Wish you two the best though, and do you live together I'm assuming? (i hope you're not going out of your way to wake him up every day LOL)

I am a comp sci student interested in grad school (dunno what field he is in) and the same things apply, the passion comes within. The other undergraduates working in research labs both during hte year and in the summer are in two distinct categories: those with passion and those who fail (and/or get little out of it). There really is no in-between when it comes to academia, 'robotically doing the research' only applies to a few fields (yes im bashing bio/biochem research, i used to be in that field before lol).