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On July 30 2010 13:32 HeadhunteR wrote:
hhaa love the over confidence in the other blog and the total noobness and lack of confidence in this one...
consistency in blogs its hard to get are you sure this is not a troll?
The bolded part of the other blog was a mostly a joke. I wouldn't call it a troll, because in fact I am quite happy with my intellectual and physical endowment :p It was just a response to repeated statements in the thread that assumed I was white and that I could somehow use my nonexistent whiteness to my advantage.
This blog, I don't think, is about confidence but rather just a desire to better understand the part social protocol that has to do with courting the opposite sex. (In middle and high-school, I guess I was too busy studying to actually figure that part out.)
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On July 30 2010 13:55 love1another wrote:Show nested quote +On July 30 2010 13:32 HeadhunteR wrote:
hhaa love the over confidence in the other blog and the total noobness and lack of confidence in this one...
consistency in blogs its hard to get are you sure this is not a troll? The bolded part of the other blog was a mostly a joke. I wouldn't call it a troll, because in fact I am quite happy with my intellectual and physical endowment :p It was just a response to repeated statements in the thread that assumed I was white and that I could somehow use my nonexistent whiteness to my advantage. This blog, I don't think, is about confidence but rather just a desire to better understand the part social protocol that has to do with courting the opposite sex. (In middle and high-school, I guess I was too busy studying to actually figure that part out.)
You can tell from certain signs if a girl is on to you but its nothing like a checklist.. life isnt a formula and no single advice works all the time or in a certain situation the one time i asked for advice ,and took it, on a girl "cause i didnt know what to say" was for the first girl i had been with.... then on it was done by a lot of guessing and observation..but no one here can give you real advice not even me..
JUST Loosen up..
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Too much thinking.
This isn't calculus bro, it's just socializing.
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So in other words, I can just say things like... "Hi! You seem really nice and cute and you make me all kinds of horny ;D" And then I grab her hand and start belly dancing (which, btw, I'm pro at)?
That won't result in 100% slap?
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i love hugging :3 it feels so good ...
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On July 30 2010 17:24 love1another wrote:
So in other words, I can just say things like... "Hi! You seem really nice and cute and you make me all kinds of horny ;D" And then I grab her hand and start belly dancing (which, btw, I'm pro at)?
That won't result in 100% slap?
I don't undertand why you have to add the "make me [...] horny" bit.
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Get drunk. Stop thinking. Succeed.
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hahah this thread------ man...
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Approaching girls is a bit like playing starcraft, all you need to do is practice until it becomes natural.
The mental checklist might be a good idea when you are at a supernoob stage, but your sucess rate is going to be low, just like a beginner starcraft player have to think constantly to do the basic things. You want to be a pro where everything has been internalised and done subconciously.
The quickest way to improve at starcraft is to play a lot; the quickest way to get better at approaching girls is to approach more girls. In starcraft, thinking about the game might help you a litlle but its all means jack if you don't play enough to gain experience; you get the idea 
Like starcraft, you can join one of those social hug clubs and get a practice partner; get a Day9 type councillor who can help you; randomly hug your family members (a bit like spamming apm)
All im saaaying is you need to relax and stop thinking to much . Everyone make mistake in starcraft and everyone make mistake when approaching girls. You are not going to win every game of starcraft and not all your approach with girls is going to work well... If it helps, just think of them as one of your pals or something. The human race is still around, you have 2 million years of evolution and instinct on your side..
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"I was getting a little bored of working out my rock hard abs, and I thought it might be a good idea to do some cardio. Let's go swimming in my jacuzzi. Naked."
Bahahahah
Let me know how that one goes.
Actually I'm going to try it.
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On August 01 2010 01:36 Torenhire wrote:Show nested quote +"I was getting a little bored of working out my rock hard abs, and I thought it might be a good idea to do some cardio. Let's go swimming in my jacuzzi. Naked." Bahahahah Let me know how that one goes. Actually I'm going to try it.
I would if I had a jacuzzi 
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That would take all the fun out of it.
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This is dumb, you need to say something natural to the situation, anything planned like this is just transparent and you'll never keep it up. You're just creating things to worry about, just act natural, if no girls like you, improve yourself then go act natural again until some like you. When someone likes you, attack!
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your ancestors left you instincts that unconsciously process all social information infinitely better than you could hope to achieve with if/then statements. find your confidence, relax, and wean off of bizarre, stereotypical "gamer" blogs.
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Watch Keys to the VIP, never fails... ROFL PANEL OF PIMPS~ LMAOO
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I cant tell if this is a joke or if he is actually being serious.
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On August 01 2010 03:39 JohannesH wrote:Show nested quote +On August 01 2010 01:36 Torenhire wrote:"I was getting a little bored of working out my rock hard abs, and I thought it might be a good idea to do some cardio. Let's go swimming in my jacuzzi. Naked." Bahahahah Let me know how that one goes. Actually I'm going to try it. I would if I had a jacuzzi
My friend actually used that line minus the rock hard abs part this weekend almost word for word. and it worked.
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Ehm... Reading through this makes me feel well I dno.. Bad for you I guess...
So I'll give you some female back up for this.
Just be yourself around girls, either they like you or don't. No need to pretend you're something else.
And if she dosen't like you then she don't and don't spend more time on her.
Easiest way to get in a conversation is just like talking about intrests or fun facts and mostly about stuff she likes to. If you seems intrested in stuff she likes or if you both actually find something you have incommon, there's easier to get on with a good conversation.
And about the hugs, I doubt any girl hugs a random guy on their first meet, unless it's a date.
And srsly about the squizzyboobs thingy... How the fuck do you hug her?! Like, her boobs should be against your chest so how could you possible squize them? O.o
You dont want to hug her to death so I doubt her boobs will get hurt.
And I bet you're taller than most of the girls so just put your arms over hers, since you dont want to seem desperate for her ass by putting arms under hers.
And dude, don't go for girls outside your league. Go for girls you know you're capable to get.
And rather go for a cute,kind, smart girl than the blond big tits bitch. Unless you just want pussy.
GL with the girl hunt!
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Pro at belly dancing??? Explain...
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