Well, guys I promised an update and knew I couldn't to let you guys down so here goes. The last time of I left off, I was contemplating whenever or not if I should pursue an office relationship. I took all of your guys advice to heart, and decided to ask her out. Ultimately, since it was just temporary internship, the reward far outweigh the risk. So a couple of days ago, I had casually mentioned going somewhere for lunch and asked if she would like to join me. I was going to ask her out regardless, but I wanted to to spend a little time alone with her away from the office, to try to reaffirm her interest in starting a relationship. I am glad I had that lunch because it gave a nice boost in confidence when I finally asked her out at the end of the day.
We had decided on to catch dinner and a movie. However due to poor planning on my part the restaurant I wanted to go to, closes (as well as pretty much every other restaurant) after the movie would end . I suggest to that we could eat a little early, but when I called to change the plans, she said she had just eaten and wasn't hungry. At this point I thought to myself, “God damn My ee han timing is awful.” We decided to forgo the dinner and just watch the movie. So even before the date had started it was already looking like a bust.
I had calculated that it would take approximately twenty minutes to walk(NYC, no car-_- ) from where we would meet up to where the theater is at. The reason I bring this up is that, the one thing I absolutely hate is the dead air when nobody has anything to say, so I sort of make a mental checklist of stuff to say before hand to try to prevent this. Even though we had a rocky start as we both were kinda nervous, things were finally looking up soon after as she opened up and we had some very interesting conversations. By the time we got there, I had only gone though maybe 10% of my material. The theater was pack when we got there, we saw that the showtime we planned on going to see was sold out. I let out a “oh no, now what?” and she looked pretty disappointed. But of course like one of the rare occasions Hwaseung Oz is able to force a 5th set, I had a ace up my sleeves and like if I had a mini-Jaedong in my pocket, pulled out two ticket I had bought earlier. She was impressed =).
After the movie, I had complete disregarded my checklist and was free styling the whole way to her home with ease. Thought I was not able to get that coveted kiss at the end, she did hinted at another date. I can't wait till then =)
Thanks for reading, hopefully I didn't bore you guys.
On July 17 2010 13:42 Dandy4 wrote: I let out a “oh no, now what?” and she looked pretty disappointed. But of course like one of the rare occasions Hwaseung Oz is able to force a 5th set, I had a ace up my sleeves and like if I had a mini-Jaedong in my pocket, pulled out two ticket I had bought earlier. She was impressed =).
Rofl. Well done!!
Glad to see things went well. Glad to see my advice wasn't 100% wrong too!
On July 17 2010 13:42 Dandy4 wrote: But of course like one of the rare occasions Hwaseung Oz is able to force a 5th set, I had a ace up my sleeves and like if I had a mini-Jaedong in my pocket...
I thought you were going to ask her if she wanted to go to your place and play SC:BW.
Dinner and movies are horrible first dates. 1. Can't talk while eating/watching. 2. Must sit through meal/movie. 3. You end up paying unless you do the right thing and split the bill.
On July 17 2010 13:42 Dandy4 wrote: I let out a “oh no, now what?” and she looked pretty disappointed. But of course like one of the rare occasions Hwaseung Oz is able to force a 5th set, I had a ace up my sleeves and like Jaedong pulled out my two MSL badges. She was impressed =).
But of course like one of the rare occasions Hwaseung Oz is able to force a 5th set, I had a ace up my sleeves and like if I had a mini-Jaedong in my pocket, pulled out two ticket I had bought earlier.