EPTLove is not something you find after a few weeks/months of knowing a girl.
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youngminii
Australia7514 Posts
Love is not something you find after a few weeks/months of knowing a girl. | ||
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Masamune
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CaucasianAsian
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And you're talking about when it's looked down upon and frowned on. I lost my virginity when I was 13. It was definitely illegal considering my age, and really frowned upon. Actually just looking back on it, I was REALLY young. But that's what kids do. Your balls drop, you have immense amount of hormones running through your body, it's really all you can think about. And girls really are the same way, as much as a girl wants to say otherwise, they do want physical attention (why else would anyone try to look good for the opposite sex?) She's fourteen, she has tons of estrogen being pumped into her blood, she is craving some attention. She wants to make out with guys, she wants a guy to make her heart beat faster and faster. She wants to feel all warm and fuzzy from a guy. It's absolutely natural to want to have sex at a very young age. I'm not saying go and fuck her brains out, because I do believe people should wait a little bit longer than I did (so kids don't have sex when you're 13) but I'm saying some physical fun is healthy for both the body and the relationship. It's ok to kiss her until her tongue goes numb. It's ok to share your passion for her. IDK just my 2 cents. edit: fuck i wasted my 6k post on this. | ||
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Atlare
Australia893 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:41 youngminii wrote: Also, you have to stop throwing around the word love like that. Love is not something you find after a few weeks/months of knowing a girl. Funny you mention that, i find it hard to say anything else, saying i like her alot or something similar makes it sound (on the internet at least) that its not serious at all, or i just want her body etc. | ||
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Malgrif
Canada1095 Posts
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Atlare
Australia893 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:44 CaucasianAsian wrote: Nothing physical? Are you saying you won't kiss/make out with her? That's absolutely bullshit! If you don't want a physical relationship with her then why are you even talking about this? I mean, just be friends. If I "loved" someone (i honestly doubt you can say you are in love with her as opposed to being infatuated) I would want to make her mine. I wouldn't want her to get picked up by some other guy who is willing to take those few steps to actually kiss her. And you're talking about when it's looked down upon and frowned on. I lost my virginity when I was 13. It was definitely illegal considering my age, and really frowned upon. Actually just looking back on it, I was REALLY young. But that's what kids do. Your balls drop, you have immense amount of hormones running through your body, it's really all you can think about. And girls really are the same way, as much as a girl wants to say otherwise, they do want physical attention (why else would anyone try to look good for the opposite sex?) She's fourteen, she has tons of estrogen being pumped into her blood, she is craving some attention. She wants to make out with guys, she wants a guy to make her heart beat faster and faster. She wants to feel all warm and fuzzy from a guy. It's absolutely natural to want to have sex at a very young age. I'm not saying go and fuck her brains out, because I do believe people should wait a little bit longer than I did (so kids don't have sex when you're 13) but I'm saying some physical fun is healthy for both the body and the relationship. It's ok to kiss her until her tongue goes numb. It's ok to share your passion for her. IDK just my 2 cents. In Australia that means sex. And I had a similar situation with virginity, except I backed out when I thought about it, not because of being scared but I realised I didnt really care about the girl, and I felt it was wrong anyway, I didnt pressure her but I know it would go bad afterward. Nobody i know has an issue with making out with her, and thats okay. Its when things creep towards 3rd base is where I stop and say 'No' | ||
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Atlare
Australia893 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:46 Malgrif wrote: she's 14 LOL, don't even think that she understands the first thing about a serious relationship. it's probably a teenage crush. give it a shot but if you expect it to be a happily ever after ending, then you sir are not as mature as you wish to believe. I don't expect either a long-term or short-term relationship, because i really don't know at the moment, I think about it but i'm never sure on what happens or am able to make a good prediction. I at least cover all bases and don't avert my eyes from the options. | ||
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ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
You might be intellectual mature but you are far from emotionally or physically..... | ||
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hellokitty[hk]
United States1309 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + My names Nathan, I'm 16 (but quite mature) and even as a little kid I've always needed the comfort of a close friend thats a girl (Not really a girlfriend at the time, but a different sort of friend). When I hit high school (Which is year 7 - 10 in Australia) I started to go out with a few people, found one person of real interest that we really clicked. She is gone, we still talk but she is having issues but doesn't want to really get too close with me, since she has a boyfriend and is afraid of temptation. I'm a pretty emotional (and not very physical) sort of guy. What did that have to do with anything? | ||
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super_toast
United States269 Posts
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ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:51 hellokitty[hk] wrote: That'd actually be pretty tight if your friend was ok with it. Wrong wording. Oh god. | ||
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Atlare
Australia893 Posts
LOL. I saw it too -.- | ||
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Zhek
Canada342 Posts
A. Was an ex-girlfriend. B. Your friend specifically told you he wanted her. C. Is you're buddy's sister. But if your buddy says it's okay, the Third Rule becomes irrelevant. | ||
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Deleted User 55994
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you don't know what "love" is if you think anything in high school is love. | ||
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ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:55 Zhek wrote: III. If a girl falls into the following criteria, she is off limits forever until the end of time: A. Was an ex-girlfriend. B. Your friend specifically told you he wanted her. C. Is you're buddy's sister. But if your buddy says it's okay, the Third Rule becomes irrelevant. I can only think of bad situations that involve all three being broken : ( | ||
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Atlare
Australia893 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:56 ella_guru wrote: I can only think of bad situations that involve all three being broken : ( You're this blogs troll right? You've posted crud a few times lol | ||
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CaucasianAsian
Korea (South)11598 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:46 Mecha_cl wrote: In Australia that means sex. And I had a similar situation with virginity, except I backed out when I thought about it, not because of being scared but I realised I didnt really care about the girl, and I felt it was wrong anyway, I didnt pressure her but I know it would go bad afterward. Nobody i know has an issue with making out with her, and thats okay. Its when things creep towards 3rd base is where I stop and say 'No' Do you know how I learned how to swim? I was ten years old (yea that's right I didn't know how to swim until i was 10) and I was at the pool at a friends birthday party, running up and down the side of the pool throwing a ball. Then one of my friends from back then pushed me into the water and I nearly drowned. But I learned that flailing your arms can help keep you afloat and eventually I learned how to float on the water and how to float and swing my arms moving me around the pool. You won't learn how life will end up if you don't just get in the damn water. | ||
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Malgrif
Canada1095 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:56 ella_guru wrote: I can only think of bad situations that involve all three being broken : ( what about the most important one? D. She is dead. | ||
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ella_guru
Canada1741 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:57 Mecha_cl wrote: You're this blogs troll right? You've posted crud a few times lol Uh, this crud? You might be intellectual mature but you are far from emotionally or physically..... It is truth. | ||
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Atlare
Australia893 Posts
On July 03 2010 13:55 faction123 wrote: okay so basically this thread is about a high school relationship (i use this word loosely, it's a 14 year old girl) yet you say you're "quite mature" lmao you don't know what "love" is if you think anything in high school is love. Did you read of all the rest of the post when a few others have mentioned this? 1) It complicates things if i think about using words like 'I like her alot' and other phrases, because it sounds different than how it goes through my head. 2) Like i've said numerous times, i've being forced to think about this sort of thing since her family has a large history of high school sweethearts etc. | ||
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