In Hollywood's Romantic Comedies, maybe...
In real life, it's just things.
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YejinYejin
United States1053 Posts
On June 28 2010 13:19 JohannesH wrote: Show nested quote + On June 28 2010 04:16 Djzapz wrote: On June 28 2010 03:01 rbkl wrote: If it's meant to be, then it will eventually happen. I dont know man, destiny seems like it's trying to tell you something. ...things happen, it's not destiny. ...destiny happens, it's not just things. In Hollywood's Romantic Comedies, maybe... In real life, it's just things. | ||
Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On June 28 2010 13:15 TunaFishyMe wrote: Show nested quote + On June 28 2010 12:43 ella_guru wrote: She's an ideal and you dont really care about her. +1 You've placed her on a pedestal. She's no where as amazing as you think she is. Don't date her cuz then you'll force yourself to realize the awful truth of the world. One could realize the "aweful truth" that they formed an ideal through some girl built up around infatuation and fantasy. But what comes next is realizing that it was you who turned yourself around, not her. To OP: You should definetely talk to her. Just be yourself, even if it's absolutely terrifying. And honestly, I think you should tell her what she's done for you. Learning something like this can be really flattering and make her feel great. Learning that she caused that much inspiration would, in the very least, totally make her day! | ||
minus_human
4784 Posts
You have now grown, and you can see this for yourself. If you do not drastically change your state of mind, any kind of relationship with Katie is doomed to fail. I tell you this from personal experience. If you still want to approach her you have to basically change your whole attitude towards her, and treat her like someone you don't know at all, and get to know her, for real this time. And again, from personal experience, you have a 99% chance of failure, sadly. That's how it was for me, surely we're different persons, but I'm just saying. It's good that the thought of her can give you motivation, however it would be infinitely healthier and more productive if you forget about her and channel your energy into a real relationship, with a new girl that you will learn to genuinely appreciate for what she really is. | ||
minus_human
4784 Posts
On June 28 2010 09:06 GGTeMpLaR wrote: I was in a situation somewhat similar to yours, not exactly the same but here's my advice for what it's worth: + Show Spoiler + If you really think about this girl this much, after this long, without ever really getting to know her, you need to talk to her if you talk to her, worst case scenario: she's not interested, you learn and move on if you don't talk to her, worst case scenario: you'll never be able to entirely move on and regret it forever This is exactly the kind of advice I consider highly misleading, no offence. If a relationship with her happens and you keep this OMG she's a goddess attitude you're bound to fail. | ||
UdderChaos
United Kingdom707 Posts
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