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Please no pity..
I think I kinda just finally came to realize that I've become sorta loserish... and to make it worse, I've been feeling really lonely lately too.
Why loser? I'm doing nothing.. at all. My school term ended and I've been doing nothing... literally. I mean, I have a part-time job.. but after that, I get home and do nothing. I tried working out and that lasted a week. I plan to keep doing it soon but I mean like.. I just don't feel like my way of life is meaningful enough to be "cool".
And lonely..? I went to a different university than all my closest friends. With work, school and other stuff, I kinda didn't get to hang out with them much and now that schools over for me, they still have their own work or summer school or whatever. I have not hung out with them for so long that when I did meet up with them, I felt like the odd one out.
And the friends that I did meet in university? They're from all over the country and the world.. It's not easy to ask to hang out lol..
I don't know what to do guys. I feel like I can't be the only one going through this. Going from having an awesome group of close friends.. but because of well.. "life", things change and you end up.. lonely?
Sigh..
It's actually kinda making me sad.
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Get out into the world, go clubbing or something, fuck random drunk bitches.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
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On May 29 2010 15:56 Megalisk wrote:
Get out into the world, go clubbing or something, fuck random drunk bitches.
edit: posted the exact same words as above.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
maybe theres a reason you always feel like the odd man out.
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I can greatly empathize with your situation right now lol
Its like your a different me
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which province you from and which uni you go to
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On May 29 2010 16:05 blue_arrow wrote:
which province you from and which uni you go to
ontario, university of toronto
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nice ninja edit on your penis comparison comment
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
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find some new friends who can 'hang out' on a frequent basis
your asian right? go spend more time at pacific mall or something
there is a large variety to select from at the uoft
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On May 29 2010 16:10 blue_arrow wrote:
find some new friends who can 'hang out' on a frequent basis
your asian right? go spend more time at pacific mall or something
there is a large variety to select from at the uoft
yeah because asian's only befriend other asians. what a considerate suggestion.
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are you saying that only asians go to pacific mall?
how rude
=p
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On May 29 2010 16:15 Daimon wrote:Show nested quote +On May 29 2010 16:10 blue_arrow wrote:
find some new friends who can 'hang out' on a frequent basis
your asian right? go spend more time at pacific mall or something
there is a large variety to select from at the uoft
yeah because asian's only befriend other asians. what a considerate suggestion.
If the op is truly the way he makes himself to be, then maybe finding some fellow asians is a good start, then he can branch out and socialize with everyone!
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make friends in school, join a club, study group, its college you should be meeting a lot of people. Get yourself out there
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you bring up a good point. what the hell can you do during the summers to socialize? luckily a lot of my friends are around because they live here or are interning over the summer, but if they didn't i'd go to work during the day and surf the web at night and during the weekends. for people say "Get out into the world", what is that suppose to mean? go to starbucks and hit on random chicks? that sounds real fun and meaningful.... (<--sarcasm)
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On May 29 2010 16:21 caelym wrote:
you bring up a good point. what the hell can you do during the summers to socialize? luckily a lot of my friends are around because they live here or are interning over the summer, but if they didn't i'd go to work during the day and surf the web at night and during the weekends. for people say "Get out into the world", what is that suppose to mean? go to starbucks and hit on random chicks? that sounds real fun and meaningful.... (<--sarcasm)
I said he should go clubbing, just get out and dance/grind or whatever, easiest way to meet people.
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Nothing wrong with being a loser or solitary. I mean don't take it real far, but no need to get down on yourself if you enjoy time alone.
Going out to clubs, drinking, trust me- it's just a bunch of fuckin' morons.
Being involved in some kind of community is always a good idea- but don't worry if you're kinna more of a solo guy. Who gives a fuck what people think. Someones gotta do it.
If you're not happy, that's 1 thing... but be sure you're not basing it on what you imagine other people "would think."
Please don't become another random moron listening to Lil John going to clubs and washing your car 2X a week.
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he's not talking about what other people's opinions are of him, he craves a sense of belonging and the close social interactions that take place amongst good friends
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