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Cedstick
Canada3336 Posts
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mlee
United States116 Posts
On January 17 2011 23:28 shannn wrote:I sincerely believed something on this scale didn't happen in Korea and thought it was all e-sports :< I don't understand why people still think like this.. Korea is not all about E-Sports.. its actually a really REALLY small part of Korea. In reality, it's really looked down upon by the general masses. | ||
miragev2
United Kingdom104 Posts
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shannn
Netherlands2891 Posts
On January 18 2011 06:45 mlee wrote: I don't understand why people still think like this.. Korea is not all about E-Sports.. its actually a really REALLY small part of Korea. In reality, it's really looked down upon by the general masses. I was a bit overdramatizing it if you failed to notice the sarcasm but I was trying to make my point that I didn't really see the other side of Korea like the OP has explained. Did expect it happens like it is in Holland (but here it's legal) but not on how it goes in Korea how the OP explained it which I think was unnatural (cultural difference). | ||
PetitCrabe
Canada410 Posts
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opsayo
591 Posts
boys like girls, girls like boys, both like sex men like their women hot, women like their men cool, funny, rich, and hot if you think men and women getting together is the dark part of life i feel sorry for you because thats one of the best things that our short lifespan has to offer and there are real horrible things going on besides men and women having fun its some kind of serious superiority complex or deep down insecurity to look down on people who openly admit they are attracted to the opposite sex | ||
Chef
10810 Posts
Clubs are kind of like an industrialized version of sex. I don't think it's so bad to question that. | ||
opsayo
591 Posts
sure it can be meaningful but its also one of life's pleasures, our generation grew up watching too many disney movies and reading romantic novels and need to get back into reality but then again thats why they live their lives on the internet and aren't getting out there whats wrong with industrialized sex exactly? who said our lives have to play out like sleeping beauty? people need to spend less time telling other people how to live their lives and start living their own | ||
TrivialRiot
United States27 Posts
On January 19 2011 07:55 opsayo wrote: attaching such morality and purpose to sex is too romantic for me sure it can be meaningful but its also one of life's pleasures, our generation grew up watching too many disney movies and reading romantic novels and need to get back into reality but then again thats why they live their lives on the internet and aren't getting out there whats wrong with industrialized sex exactly? who said our lives have to play out like sleeping beauty? people need to spend less time telling other people how to live their lives and start living their own It's not that extreme, i.e. sleeping beauty. If you are interested in sex as a two-way concept, where the couple wants to get each other off and not just themselves, then there is a level of trust involved that leads to a distaste for the industrialization of a very personal experience. if you just want to get off, great, have fun. Don't be surprised when people full of empathy express disgust, concern, or even outright elitism on the subject though - it's the nature of the beast. | ||
opsayo
591 Posts
you're reaching al ittle bit | ||
Slardar
Canada7593 Posts
Win here, win there, WIN WIN everywhere, where... where....! Interesting thread to say the least, 5/5 of a read. <3 | ||
ShcShc
Canada912 Posts
this was actually a fun thread to read. | ||
DisaFear
Australia4074 Posts
On March 09 2011 15:29 ShcShc wrote: hmmm. this was actually a fun thread to read. Yes. Very very fun | ||
Cuddle
Sweden1345 Posts
It leaves me somewhat sad and I don't know why. I guess I am just naive and from a different culture but the booking really gets to me. It's been stated over and over in this thread that the girls know what they get themselves into and it's as much fun for them but still, the concept makes me sad. I don't understand how the concept cannot seem male chauvinistic to everyone else, when it so clearly is to me. It's not the prostitution that troubles me (I am an avid spokesman for legalized prostitution - but that's a different topic) but rather the way a culture forces acceptance of a male affirming social concept. (God that sounds pretentious but I can't quite put words to the feeling) This blog, coupled with the picture painted by MightyAtom and tales of the wide spread of plastic surgery among women gives me a, hopefully, skewed picture of S.Korea. I don't think a culture that had been female dominated for 3000 years would look like this (I'm not saying it would be any "better"). Sure, you can say that plastic surgery is voluntary and so is getting booked, but I just feel that maybe it isn't. I don't know. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On March 09 2011 18:44 Cuddle wrote: A very interesting read. Thanks for sharing! It leaves me somewhat sad and I don't know why. I guess I am just naive and from a different culture but the booking really gets to me. It's been stated over and over in this thread that the girls know what they get themselves into and it's as much fun for them but still, the concept makes me sad. I don't understand how the concept cannot seem male chauvinistic to everyone else, when it so clearly is to me. It's not the prostitution that troubles me (I am an avid spokesman for legalized prostitution - but that's a different topic) but rather the way a culture forces acceptance of a male affirming social concept. (God that sounds pretentious but I can't quite put words to the feeling) This blog, coupled with the picture painted by MightyAtom and tales of the wide spread of plastic surgery among women gives me a, hopefully, skewed picture of S.Korea. I don't think a culture that had been female dominated for 3000 years would look like this (I'm not saying it would be any "better"). Sure, you can say that plastic surgery is voluntary and so is getting booked, but I just feel that maybe it isn't. I don't know. You're taking a few aspects from a culture and generalizing the whole thing because of them. Don't be stupid. | ||
Cuddle
Sweden1345 Posts
On March 09 2011 19:13 Rekrul wrote: + Show Spoiler + On March 09 2011 18:44 Cuddle wrote: A very interesting read. Thanks for sharing! It leaves me somewhat sad and I don't know why. I guess I am just naive and from a different culture but the booking really gets to me. It's been stated over and over in this thread that the girls know what they get themselves into and it's as much fun for them but still, the concept makes me sad. I don't understand how the concept cannot seem male chauvinistic to everyone else, when it so clearly is to me. It's not the prostitution that troubles me (I am an avid spokesman for legalized prostitution - but that's a different topic) but rather the way a culture forces acceptance of a male affirming social concept. (God that sounds pretentious but I can't quite put words to the feeling) This blog, coupled with the picture painted by MightyAtom and tales of the wide spread of plastic surgery among women gives me a, hopefully, skewed picture of S.Korea. I don't think a culture that had been female dominated for 3000 years would look like this (I'm not saying it would be any "better"). Sure, you can say that plastic surgery is voluntary and so is getting booked, but I just feel that maybe it isn't. I don't know. You're taking a few aspects from a culture and generalizing the whole thing because of them. Don't be stupid. Well, I was hoping to address the few aspects and not generalize but maybe you are right. I don't know a lot about S.Korea so I am in no place to generalize. | ||
Stato
United Kingdom51 Posts
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Gaga
Germany433 Posts
compared to germany where there are clubs popping up that have a one time entry fee starting at 100 € (very crappy and cheap looking judging from news and the outside, never been there) where you can eat and **** as long as you want, as often as you want with as many girls as you want. the korean way has much more class ... but who knows what the koreans would come up with, if prostitution would be legalized there, like it is in germany ^^ | ||
B.I.G.
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In)Spire
United States1323 Posts
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