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lol! are you telling me that every time a guy marries a gal she'll become fat and you'll become unhappy with the sex? rofl no! life can be better! you just gotta set it up for yourself
in all that guys stuff he finds little nuggets of social truth and coats them in BULLSHIT! he sounds like he sits around thinking about the few times he did things instead of doing it and most of his life revolves around "what ifs". I find myself thinking "no it doesn't have to be like that!" every sentence I read of his. he says some good stuff but then coats it in unhelpful judgement and assertions he is in no place to make.
On April 06 2010 17:05 {88}iNcontroL wrote:btw she made out with you while thinking about "him" 
dont stop trying. theres always a way
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On April 07 2010 00:55 The_Australian wrote:Show nested quote +On April 06 2010 17:22 Turbovolver wrote:
Only ugly guys have to be catalysts. Looks on a guy mean shit. literally nothing.
looks do mean shit as long as you aren't an outlier on the handsomeness spectrum. hygiene, the way you dress and self-grooming will make or break you
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On April 07 2010 04:40 KurtistheTurtle wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 00:55 The_Australian wrote:On April 06 2010 17:22 Turbovolver wrote:
Only ugly guys have to be catalysts. Looks on a guy mean shit. literally nothing. looks do mean shit as long as you aren't an outlier on the handsomeness spectrum. hygiene, the way you dress and self-grooming will make or break you
This means I'm fucked for when I start dating. Sometimes I really wish I had different parents.
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i mean unless you're 500 pound or annorexic or you have some horrible scarring that makes you look like a dinosaur, as long as you groom right you'll be fine.
but yeah, from what I've seen of your posting you're fucked.
lol im jk :D
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On April 07 2010 09:49 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
i mean unless you're 500 pound or annorexic or you have some horrible scarring that makes you look like a dinosaur, as long as you groom right you'll be fine.
but yeah, from what I've seen of your posting you're fucked.
lol im jk :D
YOU BETTER BE! I feel glad and annoyed at the same time that I am going into 8th grade now(will be there next year) and today I just started becoming both 1. more assertive and 2. Like all the other 8th grade JErKS! I prided myself for not being a jerk like them. Now I am quite sad and yet I'm glad that I'm becoming more assertive, is this normal?
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On April 07 2010 10:19 3FFA wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 09:49 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
i mean unless you're 500 pound or annorexic or you have some horrible scarring that makes you look like a dinosaur, as long as you groom right you'll be fine.
but yeah, from what I've seen of your posting you're fucked.
lol im jk :D YOU BETTER BE! I feel glad and annoyed at the same time that I am going into 8th grade now(will be there next year) and today I just started becoming both 1. more assertive and 2. Like all the other 8th grade JErKS! I prided myself for not being a jerk like them. Now I am quite sad and yet I'm glad that I'm becoming more assertive, is this normal?
do not change who you are to be 'cool'
you definitely should pride yourself in not being a jerk
the best way to deal with (and get the better of) all the assholes and jerks in school is to show them you really don't give a fuck by ignoring them and/or looking at them like they don't exist in your world
only be assertive to the point where no one can fuck with u and ur shit, but never to the point where ur fucking on someone else
keep it real and the ladies will come. have faith.
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On April 07 2010 10:27 Rekrul wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 10:19 3FFA wrote:On April 07 2010 09:49 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
i mean unless you're 500 pound or annorexic or you have some horrible scarring that makes you look like a dinosaur, as long as you groom right you'll be fine.
but yeah, from what I've seen of your posting you're fucked.
lol im jk :D YOU BETTER BE! I feel glad and annoyed at the same time that I am going into 8th grade now(will be there next year) and today I just started becoming both 1. more assertive and 2. Like all the other 8th grade JErKS! I prided myself for not being a jerk like them. Now I am quite sad and yet I'm glad that I'm becoming more assertive, is this normal? do not change who you are to be 'cool' you definitely should pride yourself in not being a jerk the best way to deal with (and get the better of) all the assholes and jerks in school is to show them you really don't give a fuck by ignoring them and/or looking at them like they don't exist in your world only be assertive to the point where no one can fuck with u and ur shit, but never to the point where ur fucking on someone else keep it real and the ladies will come. have faith.
Damn this kid is lucky he's gettin advice from rek lolol
Let me explain something: The "jerks" and "assholes" seem like jerks and assholes to you because you are probably a nerd with no self confidence. When they look at people like that they think "lol look at this douche he doesn't have shit on me, im a higher status then him so i dont give a fuck about what he thinks". Thus they seem like dicks even though they are just more confident/good looking/whatever to attract girls and friends. Be dominant in your own way, it has nothing to do with being an asshole or a jerk. My point is that just because they seem a certain way to you doesn't mean anything about their true personality and attitude towards girls, they are just on a different level than you, have different influences and are probably "cooler".
Today's society is fucked up, you have to be super dominant to get what you want. Who wants a pushover in any aspect? People that say "be yourself" are right and wrong. You have to be careful towards what you define "self" as. Chances are high that you don;t know your true self yet considering you are in 8th grade and haven't experienced shit..
The best advice you are gonna get is: 1) Live life IN THE MOMENT and 2) LIVE LIFE FOR YOURSELF.
1) In the moment: This means that you need to learn how to appreciate every goddamn moment of your existence. Make it a priority to CONSTANTLY remind yourself to live in the present. Try your hardest in everything you do. What you do RIGHT now is all that matters because it builds your entire life every moment. there is no past or future, only NOW. This does NOT mean you don't refer to the past it just means you need to mostly think about RIGHT NOW... Write lists to remind yourself of things you gotta do if you have to. Do not dwell on things and don't dream too much, just live life!
2) Live for yourself: Do everything for yourself, be selfish but let people you like or love into your life. OWN life. People are LUCKY to know you, they are fortunate that you let them into your fucking awesome life. You are sick! Everything you do is awesome and heartfelt, you try hard at everything to improve your life. Girls LOVE this shit. They are attracted to self-centered guys that let them into their lives. What this means is that you should be fuckin awesome, confident in everything you do and really nice and sweet to the people you truly have feelings for, fuck everyone else. If you are a total asshole to everyone but a certain girl she sees that and thinks "wow he likes me! omg im gonna do everything I can to keep that up". That is where girls come to you and you just live your awesome fuckin life. Im pretty sure Rekrul understands this because he seems like a real cocksucker but i bet if he's your friends he's a great person.
you are all faggots and pussies.
edit: ITS A JOKE HOLY SHIT
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
the whole cocksucker thing is an act to make people love me even more when they find out their preconceived notions were all wrong
duh
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On April 07 2010 10:52 Rekrul wrote:
the whole cocksucker thing is an act to make people love me even more when they find out their preconceived notions were all wrong
duh
so you are actually a low self esteemed newb at life?
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On April 07 2010 10:56 Hypnosis wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 10:52 Rekrul wrote:
the whole cocksucker thing is an act to make people love me even more when they find out their preconceived notions were all wrong
duh so you are actually a low self esteemed newb at life?
i am selfless
i do not have any type of esteem for myself, high or low
i am fully aware of exactly who and what I am, my weaknesses and strengths
i empathize with everyone, i am aware of exactly who they are and how they feel, no matter how they act
people with overly high self esteem fear me because they know i know
people with low self esteem look up to me because they can feel that i don't pity them, and it inspires awe in them
I AM THE WIND.
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On April 07 2010 11:02 Rekrul wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 10:56 Hypnosis wrote:On April 07 2010 10:52 Rekrul wrote:
the whole cocksucker thing is an act to make people love me even more when they find out their preconceived notions were all wrong
duh so you are actually a low self esteemed newb at life? i am selfless i do not have any type of esteem for myself, high or low i am fully aware of exactly who and what I am, my weaknesses and strengths i empathize with everyone, i am aware of exactly who they are and how they feel, no matter how they act people with overly high self esteem fear me because they know i know people with low self esteem look up to me because they can feel that i don't pity them, and it inspires awe in them I AM THE WIND.
I see.. See I think that is what living in the moment is. You just.. Are..
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You're 17?! Omg I'm 22 and have worst problems than you.
Some of the advice here I've heard for more than 4 years.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On April 07 2010 11:09 Hypnosis wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 11:02 Rekrul wrote:On April 07 2010 10:56 Hypnosis wrote:On April 07 2010 10:52 Rekrul wrote:
the whole cocksucker thing is an act to make people love me even more when they find out their preconceived notions were all wrong
duh so you are actually a low self esteemed newb at life? i am selfless i do not have any type of esteem for myself, high or low i am fully aware of exactly who and what I am, my weaknesses and strengths i empathize with everyone, i am aware of exactly who they are and how they feel, no matter how they act people with overly high self esteem fear me because they know i know people with low self esteem look up to me because they can feel that i don't pity them, and it inspires awe in them I AM THE WIND. I see.. See I think that is what living in the moment is. You just.. Are..
totally
i mean
you could accidentally fart out loud in class
you could get all embarrassed red face and have ur day and social high school status ruined
or you could just live the moment and say happily 'sorry guys didnt mean to do that, definitely wont let it happen again' and be totally back in business
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On April 07 2010 11:18 Rekrul wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 11:09 Hypnosis wrote:On April 07 2010 11:02 Rekrul wrote:On April 07 2010 10:56 Hypnosis wrote:On April 07 2010 10:52 Rekrul wrote:
the whole cocksucker thing is an act to make people love me even more when they find out their preconceived notions were all wrong
duh so you are actually a low self esteemed newb at life? i am selfless i do not have any type of esteem for myself, high or low i am fully aware of exactly who and what I am, my weaknesses and strengths i empathize with everyone, i am aware of exactly who they are and how they feel, no matter how they act people with overly high self esteem fear me because they know i know people with low self esteem look up to me because they can feel that i don't pity them, and it inspires awe in them I AM THE WIND. I see.. See I think that is what living in the moment is. You just.. Are.. totally i mean you could accidentally fart out loud in class you could get all embarrassed red face and have ur day and social high school status ruined or you could just live the moment and say happily 'sorry guys didnt mean to do that, definitely wont let it happen again' and be totally back in business
good example. People enjoy people that are just content with life for sure.
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Baltimore, USA22258 Posts
On April 07 2010 11:13 Yammiez wrote:
You're 17?! Omg I'm 22 and have worst problems than you.
Some of the advice here I've heard for more than 4 years.
So...
1) You can't be bothered/don't care enough to make the necessary changes, or
2) You don't know how to make the necessary changes?
And yeah for what it's worth Rek is actually an über stand-up guy, probably one of the best guys to have on your side IRL but his image won't make you think that right away. Like I said earlier it's possible to still be a 'nice guy' but an alpha male. Just gotta know when to be assertive and when to let things roll. It's a learning process like everything else.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On April 07 2010 11:28 EvilTeletubby wrote:Show nested quote +On April 07 2010 11:13 Yammiez wrote:
You're 17?! Omg I'm 22 and have worst problems than you.
Some of the advice here I've heard for more than 4 years. So... 1) You can't be bothered/don't care enough to make the necessary changes, or 2) You don't know how to make the necessary changes? And yeah for what it's worth Rek is actually an über stand-up guy, probably one of the best guys to have on your side IRL but his image won't make you think that right away. Like I said earlier it's possible to still be a 'nice guy' but an alpha male. Just gotta know when to be assertive and when to let things roll. It's a learning process like everything else.
stop lying, ive never met u in my life
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Baltimore, USA22258 Posts
Never said you did, just going by the words of those who have. Actually I'd love to meet you.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
i am the best at derailing threads into rekrulfests!
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unless rekrulfests involve fisting or furry handcuffs, I'm disappointed
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