EPTsolid advice. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? oh wow, now you can go find someone else without wasting who the fuck knows how long on what might have been.
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Hurricane
United States3939 Posts
solid advice. What's the worst that can happen? She says no? oh wow, now you can go find someone else without wasting who the fuck knows how long on what might have been. | ||
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igotmyown
United States4291 Posts
Whenever you have to stress over communication, it's your problem. Once you put it out there, it's her problem. The faster you ask, the sooner you get rid of the anxiety, and if you think about it, it's the anxiety that's bothering you. So riiiip it off. | ||
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CoOl]1st[
United States243 Posts
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Warrior Madness
Canada3791 Posts
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arb
Noobville17922 Posts
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Chill
Calgary26004 Posts
On February 11 2010 07:26 niteReloaded wrote: Muhammad ALI to the rescue, GO WATCH THIS IN PEACE and WITH SOUND: Not neccessarily on dating subject, but it pumps you up like mad. Wow, when I pressed play I was thinking "Okay this is going to be shallow but I'll see what it says" and by the end I was like "FUCKING YES LET'S DO THIS!!!" | ||
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MaReK
Australia446 Posts
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Chill
Calgary26004 Posts
On February 11 2010 10:52 rushz0rz wrote: I never saw her. FUCK MY LIFE. I've had 2 perfect opportunities. Last wednesday and this wednesday. I saw her on the bus going to school both times, and then we both studied in the math room, and even today I saw her alone in the hallway. I fucking fail. Just ban me. Although, I might have one more chance tomorrow and I'm going to fucking do it. I'm sick of being a failure. EDIT: I'm pretty sure she wants me to say something to her, we always do that awkward look at each other and look away when the other notices, among other things. GOD WHY DO I SUCK SO MUCH????? Don't sweat it kid. Everyone takes time to get past the phase to where they don't give a fuck anymore. Nothing anyone can write here will help you. You'll push yourself past that point one day. | ||
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22261 Posts
On February 11 2010 14:43 Chill wrote: Don't sweat it kid. Everyone takes time to get past the phase to where they don't give a fuck anymore. Nothing anyone can write here will help you. You'll push yourself past that point one day. Yep. That's pretty much all it is. As soon as you stop giving a fuck, that's when shit starts falling in place. Personally it took me some liquid courage... but whatever it takes.  | ||
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[NyC]HoBbes
United States803 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On February 11 2010 14:10 Warrior Madness wrote: If a two month ban won't motivate you to do so. Nothing will. The fact that you've made saying "hi" to her into an actual blog shows that you've already made this into some sort of insurmountable, impossible challenge inside your head. You won't do it, and then you'll feel like a failure immediately after for not doing it. You overthink, and you over plan. You're already thinking about the worst case scenario of her having a boyfriend, even though you haven't even said HI.... new best poster on tl.net | ||
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a11
Germany303 Posts
 it's not necessarily on dating either, but still a great motivation in my opinion. | ||
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niteReloaded
Croatia5282 Posts
On February 11 2010 14:10 Warrior Madness wrote: If a two month ban won't motivate you to do so. Nothing will. The fact that you've made saying "hi" to her into an actual blog shows that you've already made this into some sort of insurmountable, impossible challenge inside your head. You won't do it, and then you'll feel like a failure immediately after for not doing it. You overthink, and you over plan. You're already thinking about the worst case scenario of her having a boyfriend, even though you haven't even said HI.... And yet this is the phase the majority of us have been thru. It's all about the steps he(we) needs to make. Saying hi while being insecure is one of them. | ||
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
On February 11 2010 20:18 niteReloaded wrote: And yet this is the phase the majority of us have been thru. It's all about the steps he(we) needs to make. Saying hi while being insecure is one of them. yes a step to an even juicier follow-up blog | ||
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a11
Germany303 Posts
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Art.FeeL
1163 Posts
Blog2 by Rayzorblade To find a motivation for your dating problems you shouldn't look far. It's here, in front of you, at TL.net...please read the 2 blogs they are veeeery motivational. Cheers Rayzorblade. | ||
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Decker247
United States44 Posts
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
warrior madness is a real PUA based on the posts and advice that i've read from him previously. BoT, Bus game seems like a really weird/hard thing to do. Have you ever watched that PUA show on Vh1? You know that part where they have to jog along side some girls to pick them up? That is absurdly hard and bus seems to be another awkward place like that. | ||
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MoRe_mInErAls
Canada1210 Posts
On February 11 2010 11:33 rushz0rz wrote: There is no chance for the slow process such as you suggested. After tomorrow, we have a two week "reading break" (Uni closes to students so they can make money off people using the parking lot fo the olympics) and I won't see her for quite some time. On a longer time line, my chances with her decrease. Therefore, I must try to get a number or something tomorrow. YEAAAAAAH UBC. Give me her name and I'll ask her out for you | ||
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laste
Bulgaria242 Posts
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