She forgave you, but do NOT let this continue. You won't premediate if violence occurs again, but if you find yourself in a similar rage, just remember: her forgiveness is not an excuse.

perfectteeth

United States30 Posts

December 06 2009 06:10 GMT

#23

this is so pathetic
hope shes the type that never forgives and one morning you wake up with a slit throat and a job application wrapped around your penis

Disregard

China10252 Posts

December 06 2009 06:10 GMT

#24

On December 06 2009 14:06 {CC}StealthBlue wrote:
Your not a bad person just a douchebag.

I love contradicting statements.

Terranlisk

Singapore1404 Posts

December 06 2009 07:12 GMT

#25

On December 06 2009 15:10 perfectteeth wrote:
this is so pathetic
hope shes the type that never forgives and one morning you wake up with a slit throat and a job application wrapped around your penis

someone is jealous

Twilight Templar

99 Posts

December 06 2009 07:22 GMT

#26

Never do it again and I think your relationship with this woman will be great. Just try to look from her perspective before you hit her again in an angry rage, but don't beat yourself up about it. I'm mean, we're only human.

except for flash of course, he's a cyborg.

Xenocide_Knight

Korea (South)2625 Posts

December 06 2009 07:33 GMT

#27

You should take a leaf out of the OP and go make this blog urself
and unlike this blog, no one will care

Athos

United States2484 Posts

December 06 2009 08:02 GMT

#28

Realize she was trying to do something good for you and it ended up backfiring. Don't take her forgiveness as an excuse and never do that, ever again.

AtlaS

United States1001 Posts

December 06 2009 09:06 GMT

#29

hitting a girl? big no no
at least you are man enough to admit that you were wrong and you acted out of blind rage. still doesn't leave you off the hook. you gotta do something to keep that rage under control

igotmyown

United States4291 Posts

December 06 2009 09:24 GMT

#30

Isn't this how all domestic abusers start out? And then the girl always stays because "he gets angry, but he loves me!"

toastybunz

United States47 Posts

December 06 2009 10:16 GMT

#31

wow.. she said that before you could even start? she's either really, really stupid or really stupid and thinks she knows you well. don't ever forget how lucky you are, because she sure as hell won't.

deth

Australia1757 Posts

December 06 2009 10:26 GMT

#32

The fact that you felt so terrible essentially means that you arent a bad person, you are human.

Zidane

United States1686 Posts

December 06 2009 10:34 GMT

#33

You're going to hit her more. I call it.

Zanric

United States66 Posts

December 06 2009 12:46 GMT

#34

On December 06 2009 19:26 dethrawr wrote:
The fact that you felt so terrible essentially means that you arent a bad person, you are human.

Not necessarily true! I can be a bad person and feel guilty for it but continue my ways. His feelings of guilt are more of a way to identify and perhaps justify his actions. As long as I feel guilty it should work out right?

Ghardo

Germany1685 Posts

December 06 2009 13:08 GMT

#35

don't ask dknight about this

+ Show Spoiler +

good she understands you, mb you should really marry her

WheelOfTime

Canada331 Posts

December 06 2009 20:04 GMT

#36

I've never laid a hand on anybody before in my life, uh except for that fight back in high school but that was with a guy and he totally deserved it. Anyway of course I'll never do it again, I'm usually really easy-going, I just lost it because the co-op program at my university requires me to be on a work term starting in January, and I'm still unemployed. The job opportunity with Deloitte is blown unfortunately, but as cheesy as it sounds, I think I might have found my soul mate.

So naturally I'm going to spoil and love my girl hard after this to make it up to her, to start last night I took money out of my car budget and ordered a Coach bag for her online. I'm also planning to take her to a ski resort on an upcoming weekend, but I need more ideas.

On December 06 2009 19:34 Zidane wrote:
You're going to hit her more. I call it.

Not going to happen. And fuck you asshole.

YPang

United States4024 Posts

December 06 2009 20:24 GMT

#37

we all have our share of mistakes, except you were man enough to post yours to be humiliated by others. I'd say that slap was unnecessary, but ya know occasionally if a women is bitching about something and no other way to calm her down, that might be the only solution. Im not trying to provoke anything like that, but just saying.