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nimysa
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
United States383 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-11-05 02:16:15
November 05 2009 02:15 GMT
#1
I feel alone, I'm 18 and I can't seem to connect with anyone. I don't know why but whenever someone tries to interact with me in a socially fun way I immediately become nervous and draw an imaginary boundary between me and that person. I am not a good conversationalist either, and I can't make complicated jokes that that most other guys are so good at. I also sometimes hate people for no reasons or just for small reasons. What can I do?

***
SanguineToss
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada815 Posts
November 05 2009 02:18 GMT
#2
omegle.com
JohnColtrane
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Australia4813 Posts
November 05 2009 02:18 GMT
#3
become a hermit
HEY MEYT
Snet *
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States3573 Posts
November 05 2009 02:19 GMT
#4
Take it step by step. The more you socialize the easier it becomes. You can't expect that magical word of advice from someone that fixes everything, just get out there and start getting some experience.
wok
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States504 Posts
November 05 2009 02:20 GMT
#5
Welcome to my life. Waste time photoshopping stupid images and post them here hoping, fruitlessly, for a lulz somewhere in the vast expanse of the internets.
Then when refreshing the page a few hundred times yields no satisfactory response, resume the hopeless situation that is a 10-page paper due tomorrow.

Fuck, I better get started.
I'll race you to defeatism... you win.
kidd
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
United States2848 Posts
November 05 2009 02:20 GMT
#6
I truely believe that if you learn to convince yourself that you are actually not that bad of a person and that you have something to offer to others then the rest will come naturally.

Chances are you aren't even as bad and lonely as you perceive and changing your style of thinking will reflect that.
Hi
KurtistheTurtle
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States1966 Posts
November 05 2009 02:20 GMT
#7
Do it in chunks, a little every day. Increase the amount every week.
“Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears."
CaucasianAsian
Profile Blog Joined September 2005
Korea (South)11585 Posts
November 05 2009 02:21 GMT
#8
get a job where you are forced to interact with people, like a cashier or a waiter. maybe at a subway or quiznos where it's simple easy chit-chat that you are forced to do for like 5 min. max
Calendar@ Fish Server: `iOps]..Stark
JohnColtrane
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Australia4813 Posts
November 05 2009 02:22 GMT
#9
youll be fine once you get more comfortable. just loosen up, it doesnt matter if you make a fool of yourself
HEY MEYT
DeathSpank
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
United States1029 Posts
November 05 2009 02:22 GMT
#10
stop caring. Your life will change.
yes.
phosphorylation
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
United States2935 Posts
November 05 2009 02:23 GMT
#11
get good at something..really good
Buy prints of my photographs at Redbubble -> http://www.redbubble.com/people/shoenberg3
PH
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States6173 Posts
November 05 2009 02:24 GMT
#12
Getting a job helps a lot, like CaucasionAsian said. You don't even need to work as a cashier or waiter (those kinds of jobs generally are for people with experience only, or you need to work up to it for at least several months). Simply being somewhere where you need to interact with other people (your coworkers) will help.
Hello
chobopeon
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
United States7342 Posts
November 05 2009 02:26 GMT
#13
join a club or get a job. give yourself social obligations and things will improve.
:O
Ilikestarcraft
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Korea (South)17731 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-11-05 02:38:08
November 05 2009 02:31 GMT
#14
meet me ^^
"Nana is a goddess. Or at very least, Nana is my goddess." - KazeHydra
dasanivan
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States532 Posts
November 05 2009 02:36 GMT
#15
I agree with PH; get a job involving interaction with people. You just need practice interacting with people. Practice can help you get better at almost anything.
Whiplash
Profile Blog Joined October 2008
United States2928 Posts
November 05 2009 02:37 GMT
#16
a club or your job is your best bet. make sure the club is something your passionate about.
Cinematographer / Steadicam Operator. Former Starcraft commentator/player
Equaoh
Profile Joined October 2008
Canada427 Posts
November 05 2009 02:38 GMT
#17
The most complicated jokes I make with my friends involve making funny faces and going olololololol. You should relax and you'll see you're as capable of connecting with people as anyone else - it's all in your head.
meeple
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada10211 Posts
November 05 2009 02:48 GMT
#18
On November 05 2009 11:31 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
meet me ^^


how is it possible that you have quint-digit posts and a scv as your icon?

to OP: introverted people are all around you... basically find something that makes you happy. Sports/clubs/starcraft... it doesn't matter too much that you're not social... lots of people aren't.
Kyuukyuu
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Canada6263 Posts
November 05 2009 02:49 GMT
#19
On November 05 2009 11:38 Equaoh wrote:
The most complicated jokes I make with my friends involve making funny faces and going olololololol.


wtf rofl
cunninglinguists
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States925 Posts
November 05 2009 02:50 GMT
#20
i think its weird that although i have a lot of "friends," i dont have a lot of friends.
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