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ABagOfFritos
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada454 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-26 02:15:29
November 26 2011 00:17 GMT
#1
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=289053

Go here.
MerciLess
Profile Joined September 2010
213 Posts
November 26 2011 00:20 GMT
#2
She's 16 and her dad doesn't want you to see her. I personally think 16 and 20 isn't so bad, but you can't really go against his wishes at this point, considering she's a minor. I'd let it go until she gets a little older or he decides it's okay. I'm not sure about the laws in Canada, but in the US that's definitely grounds for statutory if it came to it.
iceburn
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States303 Posts
November 26 2011 00:21 GMT
#3
You are an adult attempting to date a minor. In most cases this is really frowned upon. On top of this there are a mirad of legal issues that can really mess over your life if anything negative arises from the issue. If you are in the US you could have a label of sexual predator and what not if you decided to pursue stuff farther.

Also I think this belongs in the blog section.
Wysp
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
Canada2299 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-26 00:24:08
November 26 2011 00:22 GMT
#4
Forgot my first post, you are Canadian, ha. You gotta look out for your school career and such. But maybe you can transfer schools in a bit or she just says fuck you to her dad, ha.
an overdeveloped sense of self preservation
ABagOfFritos
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada454 Posts
November 26 2011 00:23 GMT
#5
As far as legality goes, in Canada the age of consent is 16, so there is no issue there.
MountainDewJunkie
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States10343 Posts
November 26 2011 00:23 GMT
#6
Blog this, yo.
[21:07] <Shock710> whats wrong with her face [20:50] <dAPhREAk> i beat it the day after it came out | <BLinD-RawR> esports is a giant vagina
mastergriggy
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States1312 Posts
November 26 2011 00:24 GMT
#7
Play the Day[9] Daily #100 for him. He'll be so inspired it'll be easy to convince him.
Write your own song!
ABagOfFritos
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada454 Posts
November 26 2011 00:24 GMT
#8
On November 26 2011 09:24 mastergriggy wrote:
Play the Day[9] Daily #100 for him. He'll be so inspired it'll be easy to convince him.

I lol'd, thanks.
TheLOLas
Profile Joined May 2011
United States646 Posts
November 26 2011 00:24 GMT
#9
??? is this the proper place for this thread ??? should this not be a blog.???
ABagOfFritos
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada454 Posts
November 26 2011 00:26 GMT
#10
Reposted as a blog, thanks, wasn't sure.
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=289053
RetroAspect
Profile Joined November 2011
Belgium219 Posts
November 26 2011 00:26 GMT
#11
Would hate to be in your shoes right now dude .. really i mean that.

Not too much you can do except for not putting pressure on her in ANY way at all now. never forget that she is still the minor and you are stronger and more mature than her , and even more so she is between two fires right now. Imo you really should try hard to see her dad and talk to her man, go over to her house unnanounced even if need be, you have nothing to lose at the moment as far as i can see..

I wish you best of luck man and hope it works out for you!
I am what i am and thats all that i am!
ranshaked
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States870 Posts
November 26 2011 00:26 GMT
#12
She's too young bro. Honestly I'm 22 and I won't date anyone you get than 21.

Tbh I find it creepy. You're 20. Hang out w people your age. She's still in high school anyway you put it
Deleuze
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United Kingdom2102 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-26 00:28:53
November 26 2011 00:27 GMT
#13
Please blogs this

edit: ninja'd

Please ask a mod to close your forum topic
“An image of thought called philosophy has been formed historically and it effectively stops people from thinking.” ― Gilles Deleuze, Dialogues II
HerroPreaseTN
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
Norway71 Posts
November 26 2011 00:29 GMT
#14
About 90% or more of the relationships any 16 year old gets into eventually breaks up. Perhaps especially when it comes to age differences like yours. So chances are that it won't last. So I guess the question would be - is it worth fighting for if it's going to break up in 2 years and she's still at a different school getting accustomed to a new social setting?

I know it's probably not remotely near the answer neither you nor any other would want to hear in this context, of course, but at least it's something to consider.

Nevertheless, making a phone to him tell your bit and showing your true colors (which I assume are sparkly in a non-Twilight way, with powershine and glory <3), sounds like a pretty good idea =)
MerciLess
Profile Joined September 2010
213 Posts
November 26 2011 00:31 GMT
#15
On November 26 2011 09:26 ranshaked wrote:
She's too young bro. Honestly I'm 22 and I won't date anyone you get than 21.

Tbh I find it creepy. You're 20. Hang out w people your age. She's still in high school anyway you put it



Meh, he's 20 she's 16. It's not like he's a full blown adult and she's a kid, they're in the same ball park. If she was 18 and he was 22 it would be a non-issue
ranshaked
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States870 Posts
November 26 2011 00:33 GMT
#16
What I'm saying is that she's in high school. It's a huge difference when you're 20 and 16
Iranon
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States983 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-11-26 00:40:05
November 26 2011 00:36 GMT
#17
On November 26 2011 09:31 MerciLess wrote:
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On November 26 2011 09:26 ranshaked wrote:
She's too young bro. Honestly I'm 22 and I won't date anyone you get than 21.

Tbh I find it creepy. You're 20. Hang out w people your age. She's still in high school anyway you put it



Meh, he's 20 she's 16. It's not like he's a full blown adult and she's a kid, they're in the same ball park. If she was 18 and he was 22 it would be a non-issue


And if she was 12 and he was 16 it wouldn't be a non-issue. You can't just slide ages around and think they're still going to be comparable.

The issue isn't that they are four years apart, the issue is that she is six-goddamn-teen. I wouldn't put too much faith in the emotional maturity of a girl who's halfway through high school, regardless of what she seems like. There's a world of difference between being halfway through high school and being through high school, through some college, deciding college isn't for you, and back to high school.
Grettin
Profile Joined April 2010
42381 Posts
November 26 2011 00:37 GMT
#18
Age difference aside, have you asked the girl to talk with her mother? If she could talk to the father and maybe convince him to let you talk with all of them?
"If I had force-fields in Brood War, I'd never lose." -Bisu
gogogadgetflow
Profile Joined March 2010
United States2583 Posts
November 26 2011 00:39 GMT
#19
She's too young, sorry.
greatZERG
Profile Joined June 2011
Australia755 Posts
November 26 2011 00:41 GMT
#20
For what it's worth I'm now 25 and my girlfriend is 21 but when we first met she was 17 and I was 21 (first year of uni for her, I went back a few years after working for a while).

We've been together for 3 1/2 years and lived together for three years, if she's mature enough at that age (which 99% of teenage girls aren't because teenagers are retarded) then she isn't too young for you.

Glgl
stu >)
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