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On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha.
There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about.
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On February 02 2012 21:41 Bortlett wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha. There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about.
Don't close your eyes until you've made contact though. You may get rejected if you smooch someones eye/chin (dependent on height differences).
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On February 02 2012 22:06 jarrydesque wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 21:41 Bortlett wrote:On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha. There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about. Don't close your eyes until you've made contact though. You may get rejected if you smooch someones eye/chin (dependent on height differences).
Don't be so silly. This never happens. Does it? o.o
All this dating stuff is awfully romantic.
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x
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On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 22:06 jarrydesque wrote:On February 02 2012 21:41 Bortlett wrote:On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha. There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about. Don't close your eyes until you've made contact though. You may get rejected if you smooch someones eye/chin (dependent on height differences). Don't be so silly. This never happens. Does it? o.o All this dating stuff is awfully romantic. To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x
Of COURSE it does. I saw it in a movie.
Agree on the no kissing though - Not that I'm particularly into kissing or anything, but nuzzling each other in a restaurant might invite some strange looks.
Though now that I think about it, so would two guys kissing.
What a funny world we live in.
Brb need a cry.
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On January 28 2012 07:12 Troxle wrote:Show nested quote +On January 27 2012 22:58 RoMGraViTy wrote:On January 27 2012 22:46 Robinsa wrote:On January 27 2012 22:08 FalahNorei wrote:On January 27 2012 12:36 Ankh1221 wrote:
I wish i were gay. How awesome would a gay cruise be? Everyone's eligible. Those guys know how to have fun. trust me, don't wish for that. being gay IS nice, and even has some advantages over being straight, but there ARE disadvantages. alot of them. wish to be bi, no borders at least  also, (don't flame me toooooo hard for this please << ), there are theories that I support and believe in, stating that such things like fully gay or fully straight don't exist, but only preferences.... there were cases of straight guys falling in love with each other already, and the stories of gays marrying a woman and raising a family are rather comon. so there, like the guys before me said, never too late to experiment ^^ also; edit: josketh, love your DA ^^ edit2: okay, edited this stupid thingy 5 times now to get rid of typos. damn, me so bad v.v I think being BI is the worst of them all actually. Its really easy to get messed up and not knowing who you are. Gay people generally have a problem with their identity to begin with as well but BI people are bound to think theyre normal 1 second then gay the next.. and no matter what kind of relation ship you chose youre always going to be tempted by what you dont have. This entirely. Im 22, have know i was bi for a very long time, yet still ponder if im just gay based on how i think for a week or two at a time. I'm at that point a lot. I'm always bi one week or gay the next, liking women is a very fleeting taste of mine (even when I find I am attracted towards them I don't act on it just knowin' I'll probably be men only the next week). The Kpop girls last night kind of caught me off guard last night on GSTL, so hot, but after that ended I was too caught up with the players (I think Puzzle may be the cutest Korean there is)
Sorry for bringing up an old post but I just wanted to high light this one again. This is exactly what I meant and youre awsome for putting words to it. Thank you.
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On February 02 2012 22:36 jarrydesque wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:On February 02 2012 22:06 jarrydesque wrote:On February 02 2012 21:41 Bortlett wrote:On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha. There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about. Don't close your eyes until you've made contact though. You may get rejected if you smooch someones eye/chin (dependent on height differences). Don't be so silly. This never happens. Does it? o.o All this dating stuff is awfully romantic. To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x Of COURSE it does. I saw it in a movie. Agree on the no kissing though - Not that I'm particularly into kissing or anything, but nuzzling each other in a restaurant might invite some strange looks. Though now that I think about it, so would two guys kissing. What a funny world we live in. Brb need a cry.
Don't cry. Crying is only acceptable when I have caused it.
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On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 22:06 jarrydesque wrote:On February 02 2012 21:41 Bortlett wrote:On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha. There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about. Don't close your eyes until you've made contact though. You may get rejected if you smooch someones eye/chin (dependent on height differences). Don't be so silly. This never happens. Does it? o.o All this dating stuff is awfully romantic. To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x
I think if a guy I liked went in to kiss me and missed I'd probably just burst out laughing then kiss him back. Definitely would never reject a guy because of it .
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On February 02 2012 22:51 marvellosity wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 22:36 jarrydesque wrote:On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:On February 02 2012 22:06 jarrydesque wrote:On February 02 2012 21:41 Bortlett wrote:On February 02 2012 13:18 matjlav wrote:
Thanks guys. Unfortunately, making the first move is something that I don't really know how to do. My experience with romance involves a flopped attempt at a relationship in sophomore year of high school and unsatisfying drunken kisses with women on dance floors, so I'm not exactly experienced at gauging when "the moment is right." Bleh. This is probably the only area in my life left where I still have no idea what the fuck I'm doing and I don't like it, haha. There's really not much to it. At the end of your next date, walk him to his car (or house if you didn't drive or wherever, somewhere where you're alone), say something like"I had a really good time tonight", and close your eyes and kiss him. After 3 dates I think the chances of being rejected are really low, if that's what you're worried about. Don't close your eyes until you've made contact though. You may get rejected if you smooch someones eye/chin (dependent on height differences). Don't be so silly. This never happens. Does it? o.o All this dating stuff is awfully romantic. To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x Of COURSE it does. I saw it in a movie. Agree on the no kissing though - Not that I'm particularly into kissing or anything, but nuzzling each other in a restaurant might invite some strange looks. Though now that I think about it, so would two guys kissing. What a funny world we live in. Brb need a cry. Don't cry. Crying is only acceptable when I have caused it.
Oh you!
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On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x
I kiss all the time, just not the mouth.
And my whole life has been nothing but weird looks. I'm striving to reawaken my dormant wild instincts and slowly, its been taking hold. Kissing means something completely different to me than it does to like 99% of the population. :[
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On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. And my whole life has been nothing but weird looks. I'm striving to reawaken my dormant wild instincts and slowly, its been taking hold. Kissing means something completely different to me than it does to like 99% of the population. :[
Yeah but I think what Marv is getting at is unless you're kissing each other it's not a mutual act (just a one way act) and therefore not as fulfilling for a lot of people.
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On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:Show nested quote +On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. :[
I read that and perceived it to have a 'dirty' meaning. sorry 
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On February 03 2012 09:21 RoMGraViTy wrote:Show nested quote +On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. :[ I read that and perceived it to have a 'dirty' meaning. sorry
BEEJAYS AND RIMJOBS!!!
Being under the mistletoe with Josketh sounds like a wild time.
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On February 03 2012 09:26 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On February 03 2012 09:21 RoMGraViTy wrote:On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. :[ I read that and perceived it to have a 'dirty' meaning. sorry BEEJAYS AND RIMJOBS!!! Being under the mistletoe with Josketh sounds like a wild time.
lol Wow this thread. Always entertaining.
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On February 03 2012 12:34 Axero wrote:Show nested quote +On February 03 2012 09:26 Klondikebar wrote:On February 03 2012 09:21 RoMGraViTy wrote:On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. :[ I read that and perceived it to have a 'dirty' meaning. sorry BEEJAYS AND RIMJOBS!!! Being under the mistletoe with Josketh sounds like a wild time. lol Wow this thread. Always entertaining.
Happy birthday! ~
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On February 03 2012 12:49 GDR wrote:Show nested quote +On February 03 2012 12:34 Axero wrote:On February 03 2012 09:26 Klondikebar wrote:On February 03 2012 09:21 RoMGraViTy wrote:On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. :[ I read that and perceived it to have a 'dirty' meaning. sorry BEEJAYS AND RIMJOBS!!! Being under the mistletoe with Josketh sounds like a wild time. lol Wow this thread. Always entertaining. Happy birthday! ~
Thanks! ^^ Why are there no good clubs up here!? T_T
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On February 03 2012 13:15 Axero wrote:Show nested quote +On February 03 2012 12:49 GDR wrote:On February 03 2012 12:34 Axero wrote:On February 03 2012 09:26 Klondikebar wrote:On February 03 2012 09:21 RoMGraViTy wrote:On February 03 2012 07:19 Josketh wrote:On February 02 2012 22:18 marvellosity wrote:
To Josketh: that sucks man :/ nuzzling isn't a mutual exchange like kissing is. I couldn't date someone who couldn't/wouldn't kiss, and I'm sure I'm not alone :x I kiss all the time, just not the mouth. :[ I read that and perceived it to have a 'dirty' meaning. sorry BEEJAYS AND RIMJOBS!!! Being under the mistletoe with Josketh sounds like a wild time. lol Wow this thread. Always entertaining. Happy birthday! ~ Thanks! ^^ Why are there no good clubs up here!? T_T
Come to Dallas, TX. We can go to Roundup and I can introduce you to all the cowboys...since I'm such a huge clubber :/
But no seriously Happy Birthday! May it be filled with inebriation and poor decisions.
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Lol they give you guys a refund so I dont see what you're bring do upset about. Just wait for their video deals that you'll be able to make later. I think this is an improvement.
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To be 100% honest, I could listen to Axslav read the phonebook. His voice is like gravy. :E
So, I've recently been rendered unable to play League of Legends because of some error that keeps popping up. (thank the lord that game is free)
I'm not really that upset because I only played that game to get my mind off of Starcraft if I was on a losing streak. I will say that I've replaced the game by watching videos of baby sloths.
So my question: What do you guys do to de-stress from video gaming frustrations?
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Thanks all! ^^ <3
On February 03 2012 13:34 Klondikebar wrote:
Come to Dallas, TX. We can go to Roundup and I can introduce you to all the cowboys...since I'm such a huge clubber :/
But no seriously Happy Birthday! May it be filled with inebriation and poor decisions.
Haha. Don't tell anyone, but I have a thing for cute cowboys/farm boys. T_T
If you need a roommate down there let me know I'll go clubbing with you.
On February 03 2012 15:21 Josketh wrote:
So my question: What do you guys do to de-stress from video gaming frustrations?
My work is pretty good for making me forget I'm frustrated or annoyed with anything. Yay distractions.
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