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On December 19 2013 07:32 docvoc wrote:
Don't begin to heal yet. You have to grieve first. You won't know what to do for now, you won't know for a while, that's a good thing. That's natural. Healing takes time, let it take that time. A funeral is not the conclusion of a life, it's just the cessation of new memories with that person.
That's very nicely said. All of it, but particularly that last sentence.
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Pandemona
Charlie Sheens House51451 Posts
RIP Zeyna.
16 is way to young, just another reason why this world is a fucked up place! You never know when your turn is next. Just make yourself as happy as you can be, be a bit selfish and look after YOU as YOU don't know when your time is up ;_;
Bit dark but its true, when you lose people you love it makes you think like this, that is how i live my life these days, looking after me. Also i guess you add your family to this, but i guess they count as making you happy anyway!
All in all, /hug Zealously and RIP Zeyna.
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I'm sorry for your loss <3 Hopefully, the funeral was a celebration of her (short, too short) life, rather than a focus on her tragic death.
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I was listening to + Show Spoiler + while reading this, completely by chance.
My condolences.
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My condolences too.
I've never been on a funeral, not even the funeral of my grandparents, and I don't want to go to one TBH. I don't like being in public, especially when I'm sad, so I will only attend 2 funerals within my entire life, if everything goes as expected/"hoped". I'm talking about my parents funeral of course but I truly hope that day never comes. :/
My view on death is kinda scientific and in my opinion way more beautiful than the religious heaven/hell talk or reincarnation. Read on if you are actually interested in my view. But when it comes to death everyone needs his/her own way of dealing with things, so it's ok if you don't want to hear it.
Energy can't be destroyed. It's a fundamental law in physics. It can only be converted into something else and therefore the matter and energy from your beloved one will appear again within your life, just as something or someone else. You won't be able to see it and maybe you won't even feel it but that's ok. At the end you will get in touch with your lost person over and over again. And I think it's way cooler if the energy you feel when you start the next day was part of your deceased friends or relative. It helps me, I hope it helps you or at least gives you another view on things 
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Northern Ireland22208 Posts
On December 22 2013 18:10 Fleshcut wrote:Energy can't be destroyed. It's a fundamental law in physics. It can only be converted into something else and therefore the matter and energy from your beloved one will appear again within your life, just as something or someone else. You won't be able to see it and maybe you won't even feel it but that's ok. At the end you will get in touch with your lost person over and over again. And I think it's way cooler if the energy you feel when you start the next day was part of your deceased friends or relative. It helps me, I hope it helps you or at least gives you another view on things
That's a beautiful way to put it
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I might have the same thinking as you do. Just know that if you always keep them in your memory and heart, that part of them will always be alive within you. We all heal differently, so create your own little rituals to help yourself out. I don't know what else to say really, just stay sexy.
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Terrible thing when they're so young. Time is really the only thing that heals such life events.
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Losing someone close to you is incredibly difficult, and trying to find the words to say at their funeral that can accurately and concisely sum up the impact that they had on your life is almost impossible. Losing a loved one is the worst thing a person can go through, but the memories that you have with them will always remain, and while grieving now is completely normal and expected, over time, you will use the memories that you had with this person as a motivation and a tool for your own success.
I've been through the same thing multiple times: losing someone I loved, and even speaking at their funeral. Three times, and I am only 21. But I know that I can not control if people live or die each day, and the only thing you can do is keep their legacy living forever. Much love, dude. Keep your head up. She would want you to do that.
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