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Distributing condoms in high schools? - Page 12
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Smurg
Canada3819 Posts
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:49 infinity21 wrote: First of all, I never said high school students were too dumb to have safe premarital sex. I was referring to the people who WERE having premarital sex. How can you say it won't effect me at all? Do you know if I'm going to have sex before graduation? It's a lot less likely than some jock that I'll have sex by the end of grade 12 but it's ridiculous to say that decision won't effect me at all. Okay, so I don't know about your life. What is your point? Our is that we should make condoms available to people who are having sex. | ||
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_PulSe_
United States541 Posts
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:50 Last Romantic wrote: Chibi: Oh noes! someone inhibiting progression of pedophilia as accepted fetish?! Anyways. I think this whole condom business works as a short term fix, because it will lower pregnancies and STDs and all that. But long term, there still needs to be a better plan. Condoms don't work 100% of the time, younger age of sex will grow more and more accepted (Japan age of consent is like... 12) so young people will have sex more and more, and I really doubt the responsibility of 13 year old kids and their ability to use condoms correctly. So overall, providing condoms would result in long term trend of increases in pregnancies, STDs, etc because more people will have sex, and condoms don't work as well as people think. A major problem is that people put way too much faith in condoms' ability to both a) be a contraceptive and b) keep safe from STD. And... expensive. I don't want to pay taxes for this. If people want to have sex they can go buy condoms themselves. And yes, I'm against providing welfare for people who got into fiscal trouble by fault of their own. And yes, I think getting pregnant at 16 is really the mother's fault. American free education teaches that sex results in children -.-;; and it should be fairly evident that a child at sixteen won't help your education. Myths This information is from a CDC publication titled "Condoms and Their Use in Preventing HIV Infection and Other STD's." Myth #1: Condoms don't work. Some persons have expressed concern about studies that report failure rates among couples using condoms for pregnancy prevention. Analysis of these studies indicates that the large range of efficacy rates (effectiveness) is related to incorrect or inconsistent use. In fact, condoms are highly effective for pregnancy prevention, but only when used properly. Incorrect use contributes to the possibility that the condoms could leak at the base or break. Myth #2: Condoms frequently break. Some have questioned the quality of latex condoms. Condoms are classified as medical devices and are regulated by the Food and Drug Administration. Every latex condom manufactured in the United States is tested for defects before it is packaged. During the manufacturing process, condoms are double-dipped in latex and undergo stringent quality control procedures. Several studies clearly show that condom breakage rates in this country are less than 2 percent. Most of the breakage is likely due to incorrect usage rather than poor condom quality. Using oil based lubricants can weaken latex, causing the condom to break. In addition, condoms can be weakened by exposure to heat or sunlight or by age, or they can be torn by teeth or fingernails. Myth #3: HIV can pass through condoms. A commonly held misperception is that latex condoms contain "holes" that allow passage of HIV. Laboratory studies show that intact latex condoms provide a highly effective barrier to sperm and microorganisms, including HIV and the much smaller hepatitis B virus. I would like to know where you get your statistics about increasing pregnancies over the long term from. Also, if kids get into the practice of safe sex early in life, it's likely that they will keep that practice well into their adult life - at least until they're ready to have children. And welfare costs a HELL of a lot more than a box of condoms do, so your last argument is pretty weak. | ||
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Last Romantic
United States20667 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:52 _PulSe_ wrote: LOL. Man what have i said to "shake your faith" Read my post on page 4-5 or sumtin. It clearly states how I feel. And to his credit I've seen too many girls i cared about as close friends have to drop out and raise a kid. That would be 3. And i think that is WAAAY to many. However, these people had condoms redily accessable and still became pregnant. So i just felt like playing a little devil's advocate there. Yeah, I think this is the main point. The question being debated here is not "whether or not everyone should have access to condoms", but whether or not free condoms should be provided at high schools. By all means, everyone does and should have right to buy condoms at local pharmacy or drugstore. However, it would be bad taste, and rather expensive, to have... condom dispensers or whatever... at high schools. That's just unnecessary promotion of underage (yes, age of consent is 18) sex, which, no matter what your opinion is, is illegal by the letter of the law (at least California) | ||
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infinity21
Canada6683 Posts
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:52 _PulSe_ wrote: LOL. Man what have i said to "shake your faith" Read my post on page 4-5 or sumtin. It clearly states how I feel. And to his credit I've seen too many girls i cared about as close friends have to drop out and raise a kid. That would be 3. And i think that is WAAAY to many. However, these people had condoms readily accessable and still became pregnant. So i just felt like playing a little devil's advocate there. I'm sorry I insulted your pride as a 17 year old high schooler. So you know 3 people who got pregnant WITH condoms available? I wonder how many more would be pregnant WITHOUT condoms? | ||
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Sean.G
Spain889 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:52 _PulSe_ wrote: LOL. Man what have i said to "shake your faith" Read my post on page 4-5 or sumtin. It clearly states how I feel. And to his credit I've seen too many girls i cared about as close friends have to drop out and raise a kid. That would be 3. And i think that is WAAAY to many. However, these people had condoms redily accessable and still became pregnant. So i just felt like playing a little devil's advocate there. Well then I must share the fact that your friends forgot to USE the condom, which kind of is the whole point by having one.. either that, or they did not know how to use it properly. (As a side note, I will give a little piece of advice regarding storage of condoms since I've heard many people usually have them in their wallets.. well, don't. they will get warmed up over longer time and this will make the material weaker..) | ||
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infinity21
Canada6683 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:56 5HITCOMBO wrote: I'm sorry I insulted your pride as a 17 year old high schooler. So you know 3 people who got pregnant WITH condoms available? I wonder how many more would be pregnant WITHOUT condoms? A lot more, but fortunately, condoms are available to anyone who seeks it. | ||
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Last Romantic
United States20667 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:54 5HITCOMBO wrote: I would like to know where you get your statistics about increasing pregnancies over the long term from. Also, if kids get into the practice of safe sex early in life, it's likely that they will keep that practice well into their adult life - at least until they're ready to have children. And welfare costs a HELL of a lot more than a box of condoms do, so your last argument is pretty weak. As far as the welfare thing goes, I don't think we should pay for condoms, or for most of welfare. Much of the welfare money could be saved if people were intelligent and didn't have children at sixteen. | ||
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
Kids will have sex regardless of whether or not school promotes it. You know this. By handing out condoms, the school is promoting safety, not sex. Lubricant and dildos would promote sex. Condoms are more on the safety side. Schools promote a lot of things that kids don't listen to. But by providing condoms, safety only goes up, because people who are having sex now have free condoms, people who aren't for premarital sex are still not having sex, and those who can now have sex due to the availability of condoms are having safe sex with condoms. If this is unclear, as my past 7 pages of posts have been, then please let me know where you're failing to understand my logic. | ||
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_PulSe_
United States541 Posts
On December 04 2006 04:37 _PulSe_ wrote: Thats absolutly rediculous not to give teenagers free access to condoms. I'm 17 and believe you me free condoms = good times. Those of you who think that simply giving a kid a condom will make them want to have sex .... how can i put this. If you are choosing not to have sex its like giving a steak to a vegitarian. They simply won't use it and pass it on. You can't expect to simply tell kids to stay abstinant because it just wont happen. No offense or anything sit back and simply preach about abstinance is very ignorant when you should be educating about planned parenthood homes, condom, safe sex, and ...... maybe the kama sutra? Maybe not, that last one but that would be an intersting class. Thats my opionion. My last post was just having fun with it. Like i said i was playing Devil's Advocate there just pushing his argument on a little. =) Trust me you didnt hurt my pride. I got a lot more to be proud about. Anyways this is fun. Anyone wanna game after to blow off some steam? | ||
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Chibi[OWNS]
United Kingdom10597 Posts
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:58 infinity21 wrote: A lot more, but fortunately, condoms are available to anyone who seeks it. So why are you trying to stop schools from providing them passively? Would it be okay if they just said "hey everyone who is having sex, there's condoms at the clinic, please use them if you choose to have sex"? | ||
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Sean.G
Spain889 Posts
This is it, I'm going to bed.. as no one has arguments which can stand up to mine (or the other arguments posted by people for the distribution), there's really no point in me being here. Byes. and btw, rofl. rapex ftw | ||
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Chill
Calgary26004 Posts
Two people weren't going to have sex, but now they have a condom so they do. Call them X+Y. The risk associated with this is C. Are you telling me that the increase in people having safe sex is a greater risk than just letting people be unsafe? That's insane. If that actually is your argument, you are illogical and borederline insane. Let's throw some numbers at this. Say the risk of something bad happening when using a condom is C=0.1% (high) and the risk of something bad happening unproected is B=2% (low). Say 4 people out of 100 decide to risk it with unprotected sex; X=4 BX = 0.02*4 = 0.08 chance of risk. (X+Y)C = (4+Y)0.001 = 0.004 + 0.001Y Set them equal: 0.004 + 0.001Y = 0.08 0.001Y = 0.076 Y = 76 Ok, so I've skewed the data in your favour, and the result is this: In order for the risk of condoms to be justified, you would need 4% of people decide to have unprotected sex, and then a whopping 76% of them suddenly start having sex when you gave them condoms. Does that make sense? Do 19 times the amount people start having sex when you give out condoms? You don't even need numbers, it should be common sense to anyone who fully understands it. Safe sex is not dangerous. Unsafe sex is relatively dangerous. You need a massive increase in sexually activity once you give out condoms to warrant worrying about it (which doesn't happen). Unless your argument isn't about safety and it's more about "them not being ready", in which case condoms have nothing to do with that. What percentage of people don't have sex until they are given a condom by a school? 0.1%? 0.0001%? | ||
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:59 Last Romantic wrote: As far as the welfare thing goes, I don't think we should pay for condoms, or for most of welfare. Much of the welfare money could be saved if people were intelligent and didn't have children at sixteen. It's too bad that our senators and congressmen have put our tax money into both welfare and contraception. More money can be saved by prevention via condom distribution than by supporting the mothers on welfare. I mean, shit, if I had a choice to pay taxes, I wouldn't pay them at all. [edit] Pulse, sure, let's game sometime. npnl.ON_FIER on west, msg me sometime . | ||
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infinity21
Canada6683 Posts
On December 04 2006 16:59 5HITCOMBO wrote: In response to your point: Kids will have sex regardless of whether or not school promotes it. You know this. Yes, I know, but why does the school need to supply condoms when they are so easily accessible. By handing out condoms, the school is promoting safety, not sex. Lubricant and dildos would promote sex. Condoms are more on the safety side. They are promoting safe sex, which is sex, nonetheless. Schools promote a lot of things that kids don't listen to. But by providing condoms, safety only goes up, because people who are having sex now have free condoms, people who aren't for premarital sex are still not having sex, and those who can now have sex due to the availability of condoms are having safe sex with condoms. Yes, people who are having sex now get free condoms which they could've bought for a few bucks at their local store. In return, people who weren't thinking of having sex are attracted by the idea of "free safe sex". And as a result, it will end up promoting sex to a larger group of people. And I believe that promoting sex to a large group of people in that age group is wrong. | ||
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_PulSe_
United States541 Posts
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5HITCOMBO
Japan2239 Posts
On December 04 2006 17:06 infinity21 wrote: They are promoting safe sex, which is sex, nonetheless. It seems that you have a problem with sex. You should maybe ask a girl if she would help you come to terms with it, safely. Maybe you could both get tested at a clinic for STDs first, and then use a condom. It's really not that bad. | ||
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