Girls and love issues - Page 4

mnm

United States4493 Posts

November 11 2005 03:05 GMT

#61

rofl @ text msg breakup =x ok thats like just awkward to me but whatever floats ur boat =)

gj breaking it off. sounded like u wanted to.. better than holding it off forever because of fear of breakup or w/e.

sound like u really gotta figure out what u want b4 u act upon things or else ur indecision will make u go psycho. prematurely stating ur love causes much confusion.. thats partly why i dont like the word much anymore..

NewYorkHardCore

Sweden126 Posts

November 11 2005 03:08 GMT

#62

Yea mmn I know, its a pretty cowardly way of breaking up indeed. Ya, at least I did it, but I feel like shit.
Your right...I will from now on think before I do stuff. Good idea actually.

jchanhm

Canada150 Posts

November 11 2005 03:13 GMT

#63

just make sure you dont text message a girl to tell you that you like her, or tell her on the phone.. or worse, online.. -_-; If you dont have the confidence to tell her in person, then she's going to pick up on that, and that just sends the message that you have low self esteem.. its the pansy's way of asking someone out.

I'd even say breaking up in any way other than face to face is bad, since its rude and insensitive.. But since you've done it already, don't sweat it. It's done, its over. Congrats on taking the next step to a better life

( btw, this is Chanoipy, just.. tossing the old username haha..)

Cambium

United States16368 Posts

November 11 2005 03:30 GMT

#64

Most of the guys are like this, when you are in a relationship, you always think that you can find someone better.

If you can see youself spending the rest of your life with this woman or willing to give up everything for her, then you probably love her, otherwise, you probably don't.

NewYorkHardCore

Sweden126 Posts

November 11 2005 03:41 GMT

#65

jchanhm yea your right man. Its very gay not to tell it to a girls face :/
Lol, yea I hope it gets better anyway, cuz right now I feel like a evil person.
I have tried getting her back 4 times now and broken up afterwards. Wtf is wrong with me ...feels in a way that I do it just to see if I can or something. Very retarded anyways .

Cambium, is it normal to beg and convince your ex that you have feelings for her and then when youget bakc together feel nothing and brake up, 4 times? ;(

I probably don't love her then.

Hot_Bid

Braavos36379 Posts

November 11 2005 03:55 GMT

#66

well you're just insecure about being single. you have to realize when you break up with her that she could go out tomorrow and fuck some other guy. you have to be able to deal with this. i think you should just try and move past this and date someone else. don't put so much pressure on it either, the relationship can be fun without it being love.

mnm

United States4493 Posts

November 11 2005 04:37 GMT

#67

well you shouldn't be thinking along the lines of 'is there someone better'... it should be more like 'am i happy right now' if so, keep it up, otherwise, move on or do something about it.. focus on your present and your state of being..

honestly, there is always a possibility that there is someone better.. but if things are working out, why ruin a good thing?

we can never be fully satisfied.. its like thinking it sucks that you're bad at starcraft compared to the group you hang out with.. even when u reach the highest level of that group then ur gonna think it sucks that you're bad at starcraft compared to the pros.. n when u reach pro level ull think ur bad at starcraft compared to the koreans.. etc.. but this shouldn't be something you focus on too much.. i mean its good for improvement but u cant beat urself up over it.. just be happy with urself and ur current state and keep working on urself.. kinda like sticking to someone who makes u happy and working things out with that person.. whoa where the hell am i going with this i think im starting to babble..