EPTOn November 04 2013 11:46 Najda wrote:
Found out she's only 17. Abort mission, gg no re.
Found out she's only 17. Abort mission, gg no re.
How old are you? Is 17 too young for you?
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43767 Posts
How old are you? Is 17 too young for you? | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On November 04 2013 11:53 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: How old are you? Is 17 too young for you? I'm 23, I thought she was 19-20. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43767 Posts
Ah, yeah that's definitely pushing it lol | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On November 04 2013 12:01 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Ah, yeah that's definitely pushing it lol My thoughts were: 20 is fine, 19 is okay, 18 is a highly individual basis, 17 is never. On a side note, this happens to me way too often because I go to a community college and half the students there are dual enrolled and trying to tell how old a girl is between 17-20 is impossible. | ||
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Kojak21
Canada1104 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43767 Posts
On November 04 2013 12:02 Najda wrote: My thoughts were: 20 is fine, 19 is okay, 18 is a highly individual basis, 17 is never. On a side note, this happens to me way too often because I go to a community college and half the students there are dual enrolled and trying to tell how old a girl is between 17-20 is impossible. And then she has to be home by midnight or else her license expires... let alone you can't even go out to a bar with her lol | ||
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sam!zdat
United States5559 Posts
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furymonkey
New Zealand1587 Posts
Or is it just particular age group that you don't want to associate with? | ||
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tuho12345
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43767 Posts
On November 04 2013 12:35 tuho12345 wrote: It's not a problem if both are over 20 or 30. But a 17 y/o girl is still way too young and immature man. I agree... as you get older, the "allowable" difference in ages between a couple becomes larger and larger. My parents are 9 years apart, which wasn't a big deal when they got married (and certainly not now, when they're in their sixties)... but could you picture a 10th grader dating a 1st grader? lol. | ||
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On November 04 2013 12:30 furymonkey wrote: Only 6 years difference? How is that a problem? Or is it just particular age group that you don't want to associate with? She's a minor, and she's still in highschool (well, homeschooled, but 12th grade equivolent). The issue with her isn't really maturity since she is definitely more mature than a lot of people my age even, but rather the social stigma attached to the difference in our ages. Maybe in a few years the circumstances will be different, but until then she isn't an option for me. | ||
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killa_robot
Canada1884 Posts
On November 04 2013 12:46 Najda wrote: She's a minor, and she's still in highschool (well, homeschooled, but 12th grade equivolent). The issue with her isn't really maturity since she is definitely more mature than a lot of people my age even, but rather the social stigma attached to the difference in our ages. Maybe in a few years the circumstances will be different, but until then she isn't an option for me. Do you plan to announce her age to everyone you meet or something? If she's as mature as you claim it shouldn't be noticed. | ||
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Najda
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kaykaykay
Singapore637 Posts
On November 04 2013 04:13 Najda wrote: I agree, you should have acted interested instead of telling her your interested (especially through a friend). I don't feel like confessing your love ever works, or rather works very rarely, because it shows you like them so very strongly and unless they already feel the same way it will be wierd and she will most likely say no. It's much safer to just start flirting with her more directly and let the feelings build gradually or dissipate with little awkwardness if she rejects the flirting. You had that opportunity when watchin movies on her bed together, but failed to capitalize. It would have been wise to wait for/create another moment like that, but hindsight is 20/20. Anyway, don't be angry at her, she didn't dump you, you were never together. You two can still be friends, just as long as you still can act normally around her. why would you still want to be friends with a girl who rejects you. | ||
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Shotcoder
United States2316 Posts
She is attempting to move up in the company so I was trained to do her job and if she gets this job she applied for I am the favorite to take over afterwards. Relationship wise it's a long story that ends up with me figuring out I was fighting a fight I wasn't going to win anyways. It is what it is, at least when she leaves I get this nice pay bump. Edit: To go along on this top of the 17 year old, I completely agree. Being 23 myself I have a hard time even thinking 18-20 year old girls as legitimate dating options. Idk why, if I found the right girl i would probably think differently but it just feels weird to me for there to be that gap. | ||
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IronManSC
United States2119 Posts
On October 23 2013 04:10 IronManSC wrote: On november 2, I'll be proposing to my girlfriend. We're gonna go repelling in the mountains at a 180 ft waterfall. At the bottom will be some GoPro cameras set up (hidden), and i'll have her older brother film it while hiding. When she gets down to the bottom (after I go first), i'll be in the water pond next to the waterfall on one knee :D mabye i'll post the video when the time comes. Well, she said yes! I'll have more pictures and the video up later this week hopefully, but here is the pic of approval  + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/WOh42D3.jpg) And of course her brothers got a little mad that I proposed... + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/dDZjaJO.jpg) Anyways, more later this week :D I promised I would, so I just wanted to let you know ahead of time. | ||
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gedatsu
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On November 04 2013 17:26 IronManSC wrote: Well, she said yes! Congrats, man. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43767 Posts
On November 04 2013 17:26 IronManSC wrote: So over a week ago I posted this: Well, she said yes! I'll have more pictures and the video up later this week hopefully, but here is the pic of approval + Show Spoiler + And of course her brothers got a little mad that I proposed... + Show Spoiler + Anyways, more later this week :D I promised I would, so I just wanted to let you know ahead of time. Congratulations! You guys look cute together That brothers picture is funny too ^^ | ||
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SixStrings
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