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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Kenpachi
United States9908 Posts
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albis
United States652 Posts
On May 18 2013 05:40 iMech wrote: Two words: Swing Dancing. Seriously. I've met countless girls in the last 15 years of swing dancing 2-4 night/week. dancing seems like a great strategy. i recently started taking tango classes. future self is going to appreciate it. and i plan to take swing/lindy hop/salsa all that jazz. basicly if there music and a girl present "want to dance" is and will always be the most amazing pickup line ever. its awkward and sucks right now. but future self...game over | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
Also you can pretty much have sex on the dance floor just with your clothes on and it's considered completely normal. <3 | ||
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B.I.G.
3251 Posts
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
On May 19 2013 18:12 B.I.G. wrote: Ok I'll bite. WTH is swing dancing? google? | ||
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quetzy
Croatia15 Posts
On May 19 2013 14:45 r.Evo wrote: Salsa and Bachata. Best. Things. Ever. Also you can pretty much have sex on the dance floor just with your clothes on and it's considered completely normal. <3 +1  | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32080 Posts
On May 17 2013 00:29 JoeCool wrote: Going to club tonight, any suggestions on how to talk to girls? Its no problem for me to start a conversation but Im not sure what to talk about after like... 5 mins^^ find female, circle them like a shark would a shipwrecked sailor, stealthily move in from behind undetected, approach and vigorously thrust hips congrats you are now communicating at a club | ||
ZeromuS
Canada13389 Posts
On May 20 2013 23:51 QuanticHawk wrote: find female, circle them like a shark would a shipwrecked sailor, stealthily move in from behind undetected, approach and vigorously thrust hips congrats you are now communicating at a club My friend was picked up by a dude doing this. Good strat. Innovation level stuff right here. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32080 Posts
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sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On May 18 2013 03:35 B.I.G. wrote: If you're really going to a nightclub then conversation is kinda hard. Personally, I rarely pick up women in nightclubs, unless it's one of those natural "I just want your weiner" things. Edit: also, dont try too hard. It shows and it's sad. Edit #2: pretending you're from out of town is a really cheap way to get conversation going easy and giving you an excuse to ask for numbers or dates btw haha Nightclubs are ideal if you dance well. Otherwise, it's likely in your best interest to relocate quickly once you have a girl interested. | ||
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sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On May 18 2013 00:59 Shady Sands wrote: "You should stop drinking so much diet dr pepper, its bad for your sperm quality" cute or creepy? Depends on the context. | ||
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Grumbels
Netherlands7031 Posts
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sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On May 22 2013 20:26 Grumbels wrote: http://imgur.com/xlBH1qw is this a thing? Of course. Killers tend to attract women. See the massive amounts of fan mail and marriage proposals to high profile killers like Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer, or for a more recent example, the legions of fangirls worshipping the surviving Boston bomber. The simple truth of the matter is, women are attracted to jerks. And the truly terrible jerks, who manifest the dark triad traits, are the most attractive to women. Mass murderers like Hitler are simply taking those dark triad traits to ridiculous levels. | ||
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bloopie
United States123 Posts
Let me explain, and its not bragging. I can hook up with girls easily and get a good amount of sex. However, girls call me up when they want a booty call and not much else, like just to hang out or what not. So I have to invite myself, in a manner of speaking. Theres this girl whom I am hooking up with, and shes actually really cute and I want to try dating for real. However, I *think* she thinks that I think I just want some sexy times, and hows a good way to make this thing real? | ||
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Ghostcom
Denmark4782 Posts
On May 23 2013 05:38 bloopie wrote: So I kinda have the opposite problem: I can't get dates.. because I get too much female attention.. Let me explain, and its not bragging. I can hook up with girls easily and get a good amount of sex. However, girls call me up when they want a booty call and not much else, like just to hang out or what not. So I have to invite myself, in a manner of speaking. Theres this girl whom I am hooking up with, and shes actually really cute and I want to try dating for real. However, I *think* she thinks that I think I just want some sexy times, and hows a good way to make this thing real? Invite her to dinner in a setting which makes it obvious you are not there for the one-night stand? | ||
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Shady Sands
United States4021 Posts
we've seen each other for less than a month and she's thinking about my sperm quality oag? | ||
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sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On May 23 2013 05:53 Shady Sands wrote: we've seen each other for less than a month and she's thinking about my sperm quality oag? If she's not just joking, then yeah, she might be thinking about having your kids. | ||
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Garfailed
Netherlands409 Posts
On May 10 2013 06:06 Garfailed wrote: I've only kissed a girl twice, and never had girlfriend. And next month i turn 19... Im rather pathetic... Appareantly, that girl i kissed was setup by my friends... I feel really terrible now | ||
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fdsdfg
United States1251 Posts
On May 23 2013 05:53 Shady Sands wrote: we've seen each other for less than a month and she's thinking about my sperm quality oag? It's nothing to take too seriously. If you commented that a certain medication can cause birth defects, it's not much different. | ||
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Ambre
France416 Posts
Two days ago I ve been on a date with a girl I ve met on the Internet... The date went fine, we both laughed quite a lot, but she wasn't really my type (physically), and she noticed. Now I think I made her REALLY sad, and I feel terrible. Before that we have been speaking for 2 weeks. -_-' | ||
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