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Bluedraqy
Denmark496 Posts
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Xiphos
Canada7507 Posts
On June 25 2012 00:01 Bluedraqy wrote: I tend to exaggerate my skills and accomplishments, because I'm afraid to feel inferior and inadequate. Doesn't everyone do this? | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
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Rainmaker5
United States1027 Posts
On June 25 2012 03:09 docvoc wrote: I always freak out when I think I have done something wrong in a relationship I'm in. I always joke that I am whipped, but when my girlfriend doesn't text back because I think she is angry, I begin to freak out and look back at the relationship and all the "shitty" things I could have done better that aren't really shitty but pretty normal for a guy lol, then she texts me back with a smiley face and I calm down. IDK if I just care about her that much cuz we are close to being 6 months in, or because I'm just a pussy .How many relationships have you been in that have lasted over a month? Because anxiety is pretty par for the course when you're new to dating and afraid of fucking something up. | ||
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NeMeSiS3
Canada2972 Posts
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PlosionCornu
Italy814 Posts
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Zenbrez
Canada5973 Posts
Doesn't make it correct. | ||
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Flossy
United States870 Posts
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valium
United States251 Posts
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NeMeSiS3
Canada2972 Posts
No but at least it means he's not alone. How society plays out, especially with the capitalistic ideologies, you have to "be the best" in life to succeed which is actually a scary idea... If everyone's the best, what if you're the worst? So on average, I would say (without backing data, just opinion) that most people tend to, if not outright lie about accomplishments, over-exaggerate the actual accomplishment in a way to make it seem better. This isn't everyone, but I would wager it's a fair majority. I have been guilty of this once or twice, especially on the internet where Internet anonymity is easily used. | ||
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ZenithM
France15952 Posts
Some do the opposite. You don't want the people you're talking to to feel inferior themselves, so you don't emphasize your accomplishments much. There is always a fine balance to find so that everybody can feel somewhat at ease in a social exchange. | ||
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LaGTTJack
United States69 Posts
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sikeTM
United States37 Posts
I've done way more drugs than I ever should have. The longer I'm away the better I will stay. I don't trust anyone, ever. I also have very good reasons not to. But I need to learn to give people a chance. | ||
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BoX
United States214 Posts
On June 25 2012 03:09 docvoc wrote: I always freak out when I think I have done something wrong in a relationship I'm in. I always joke that I am whipped, but when my girlfriend doesn't text back because I think she is angry, I begin to freak out and look back at the relationship and all the "shitty" things I could have done better that aren't really shitty but pretty normal for a guy lol, then she texts me back with a smiley face and I calm down. IDK if I just care about her that much cuz we are close to being 6 months in, or because I'm just a pussy .Must be one of your first relationships.. Take some advice from a 26 year old dude whose had a 7 year relationship.. And who started out exactly how you are starting this one out.. If you don't chill out and take a more confident, relaxed, manly role.. You will lose that relationship (or worse, lose her respect in it)! Just some friendly advice. | ||
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Emnjay808
United States10638 Posts
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sereniity
Sweden1159 Posts
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DoubleReed
United States4130 Posts
Seriously, how do people figure this shit out? | ||
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Vorgrim
Korea (North)1601 Posts
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Numy
South Africa35471 Posts
On June 25 2012 09:24 Vorgrim wrote: I've consistently sabotaged my life at every turn, in one way or another. Still here though. Feel the same way bro. Sigh i'm an idiot. | ||
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MooMooMugi
United States10531 Posts
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