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I talked to all my wings, apparently everyone was going to a house party. I was dreading tonight because I was by myself. After I trained my friend at SD, I was there there and I was hungry. I can already feel that solo feeling when I was looking for a place to eat. This was 7 oclock. I took a nap in my car for a while. I texted some of the girls I number closed. They were all out and about in the block party in downtown.

The last set was the one I hooked and pulled an SNL. It was a 3 set. I opened one that looks like shes Russian but it turns out shes Brazilian. She has a bar waitress dress and I opened by asking what she was supposed to look. I was surprised she was so white for a Brazilian. I noticed she had a vampire bit, and I was like wow that is so real. At first I thought she had a drug addiction and that she had injection holes on her neck. She tells me that’s a vampire bite. I am like OH that explains why you are so white for a Brazilian, you got bit by a vampire. I tell her, “do you know what it is about Brazilian girls?” She’s like what. She expects something sexual I bet, but I complement and say that a lot of Brazilians are very smart. I met one on an airplane that was a doctor. Her other two friends one was Mexican the other was Filipino. The Mexican was wild dancing with all the guys and being freaky, the Filipino girl was just standing there. She tells me to come with her and I follow. Basically we got to the outside dance area and started dancing. We kissed and she was really into kissing. As we are dancing, I put my hand on her ass but she was really against it. She wasn’t mad but kept talking to me like a teacher and be like no hands on the ass. I respect that but sometimes I forget and I put it back on there but she knew it was unintentional. As we were making out, I notice the wedding ring. I am like are you married? Shes like yes. She tells me her husband was never around and that they see each other maybe three times a year. I tell her that my ex gf was far away and I never really got to see her. But after, I never mention her husband again and go with the flow. I noticed that she really loved smelling me, it was that new cologne Aventus that I got. She literally told me it was my smell that she was attracted to me in the first place. I was nice to her friends and they were cool. What was funny was that another pirate dressed guy was getting at it with the Mexican. He was throwing himself at her and she started pushing him away, and eventually she got mad. The Brazilian jumps in to cock block him. I just stood there watching, I wasn’t sure what the fuck I should have done. Should I have gone in? and blow the guy out? I made sure I wasn’t leaning in too much or pulling. Learned from last night. I kinda always backed out of the kiss first, and she was pretty into me. I rarely see girls that invest into me physically that I wasn’t really even chasing. The place closed early. It closed only at 12 am. And the night was still young. I basically brought them to the Burger Lounge. I asked her if she wants to hang out later and she said yes. I am thinking logistically. I tell them I am walking them to my car and that I will drop them off at the Horton where they parked. They fucking walked like 12 blocks on high heels in the cold with me lol. I was wearing short shorts too, whatevers they can suck it up haha. I take them to their parking lot and the entrance says flat 20 fee, I am like fuck, so I manage a uturn inside the little turn in corner lol. She tells me to follow them. I told her to give me her address, she says no. I am like fuck, surely I am going to get lost in the downtown traffic. I am like whatevers, so I park there waiting for them to come out. They saw me, honked and I followed. I drove to near the border where they lived. It was 20 minutes. The house was nice. Her husband must have a decent job. We got in and just chilled. She made us a margarita drink. The 4 of us just talked. The thing with foreign girls is some of the phrases they just don’t get. She talks about how she likes hairless men and keeps tickling me. I say I am not her toy and she gets upset. Shes like “ what do you mean toy? I didn’t say you were my toy.. blah blah”. I am like, that’s not that it means, I am teasing her. I dunno how to fucking reframe a girl whos only been in the US for 3 years. I just apologize lol and then I play safe game. It was light hearted banter and I didn’t do anything risky and waited till the other two went to sleep. One was her roommate and the other one was crashing there I guess. On the couch we talked, and she was lying on top of me. The other two had more of a mini talk while the Brazilian was on me. It was getting late and the other two went up. She asked me if I wanted to stay the night and it was pretty much guaranteed lay. We go up stairs and she has this bed with a net and everything. As soon as I was ready, I jumped into bed. She was still out and about in the bathroom. I am not sure if this was a good idea but it didn’t really matter. She later came to bed and escalated. At this point, I have enough lays that I know how to escalate in bed. She got on top and I got super excited she told me to slow down. I comply for a bit and let her do her teasing bullshit, I was like, I better make a move before its just hours of teasing and nothing. So I let her do her thing for like 10 minutes then I basically grabbed her and flipped her over and got on top and that was all it took. In the morning, it sounded like she didn’t want me to leave. I said I should go multiple times but she kinda locked her legs on top me. I layed there for a bit so she get some comfort out of that. Sucks she was married, she clearly wasn’t happy and I dunno whos fault it is. I know what it feels like to be cheated in long distance. I saw it from the man’s (my) perspective. Now I see it from the woman’s perspective. It was an interesting experience. What I did was probably not right, but I am pretty sure I am not the first guy she’s cheated with, and if it wasn’t me, It would have been some other guy. Some things are bound to not work out.



The thing I did right was that, I wasn’t cocky funny. I adapted to the situation. I made friends with the target and they were cool with me. They didn’t cock block me at all.