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Should I stay or should I go now(girl advice)

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HardlyNever
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1258 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-12 00:26:50
January 23 2012 21:42 GMT
#1
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Out there, the Kid learned to fend for himself. Learned to build. Learned to break.
EienShinwa
Profile Joined May 2010
United States655 Posts
January 23 2012 21:57 GMT
#2
This seems.. really weird.. Relationship wise with your current girlfriend, you guys are both admitting to the relationship not being strong enough to stand the test of distance. Then you want to hop onto another girl as soon as possible to have another girl to hold onto. I feel kind of obligated to ask, are your relationship more of a physical one than emotional?
I have a simple philosophy: Fill what's empty. Empty what's full. Scratch where it itches. Alice Roosevelt Longworth
cmen15
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States1519 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-01-23 22:03:48
January 23 2012 22:01 GMT
#3
Dude before you even make a move or anything just try to hang out with the German girl, its not cheating if you don't do anything. You are allowed to hang out with other girls lolol. Also just wondering how far are you and your girlfriend going to be from each other?

Edit: i like what the post above me said.
Greed leads to just about all losses.
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
January 23 2012 22:03 GMT
#4
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....
xpldngmn
Profile Joined January 2011
Austria265 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-01-23 22:09:16
January 23 2012 22:07 GMT
#5
I'd find it hard to have a good time for the next 5 months with the girl that doesn't want you trying to get a job at the place she is moving to. Why doesn't she want you to? edit: post above me might explain it :D

"There is an unlikely/outside chance that I might get back together with the current girl further down the line." Again, why would you want to do that? Now school is more important, who knows what is more important the next time? As you are her first boyfriend, you should show her where to put the priority. But then, maybe you are fine with her being your number 1 priority and you not being her number 1 priority. But then, this might be a downward spiral, and now might be a good exit-point.

My advice: Try not to waver around, make things clear with your current girlfriend. Seeing that you are taking serious interest in another girl, this looks like splitting up is the way to go.
Non-native speaker, those prepositions are so hard to know.
HardlyNever
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1258 Posts
January 23 2012 22:10 GMT
#6
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?
Out there, the Kid learned to fend for himself. Learned to build. Learned to break.
SnetteL
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Belgium473 Posts
January 23 2012 22:13 GMT
#7
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?


I agree with him.
Caps lock is cruise control for cool.
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
January 23 2012 22:16 GMT
#8
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?
HardlyNever
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1258 Posts
January 23 2012 22:20 GMT
#9
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?
Out there, the Kid learned to fend for himself. Learned to build. Learned to break.
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
January 23 2012 22:24 GMT
#10
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?
PolskaGora
Profile Joined May 2011
United States547 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-01-23 22:29:16
January 23 2012 22:27 GMT
#11
What I would do given your position is stay in the relationship, given that what you said is true and you really do love each other very much. Who knows, maybe something will come up that will allow you to stay together. And I'm assuming this is what you want most. In the case that nothing ends up happening between you and your girlfriend and the plan stays as is, you always have the opportunity to ask the German girl on a date then. You get the best of both worlds that way, imo. No need to be a player and get as many women as possible in the shortest amount of time. Take things slow, and enjoy the company of your partner while it lasts.
Tracking treasure down
HardlyNever
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1258 Posts
January 23 2012 22:30 GMT
#12
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.

Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).

You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.
Out there, the Kid learned to fend for himself. Learned to build. Learned to break.
Fishgle
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
United States2174 Posts
January 23 2012 22:34 GMT
#13
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


Yo, they already broke up, it's just not "official" yet. The german girl is his bounce, and that's perfectly normal. Stop slandering the dude and let him have some fun, eh? He's not scared of being rejected by Miss Freistaat Bayern, he's scared of being in a relationship other than with his gf of 2 years. It's a leap going from strong and steady to a new experience.

OP, go for it. Talk with your gf. Both of you need to know that your relationship isn't over in 5 months, it is over Yesterday. The instant you guys realized you wouldn't be together at some point and accepted the fact is the moment this ended. Else you would both try and make it work.

Your relationship is over. You're going to be getting a new gf in whatever place you go to in 5 months from now anyway....
aka ChillyGonzalo / GnozL
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
January 23 2012 22:34 GMT
#14
On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.

Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).

You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.

give me your address.
HardlyNever
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1258 Posts
January 23 2012 22:36 GMT
#15
On January 24 2012 07:27 PolskaGora wrote:
What I would do given your position is stay in the relationship, given that what you said is true and you really do love each other very much. Who knows, maybe something will come up that will allow you to stay together. And I'm assuming this is what you want most. In the case that nothing ends up happening between you and your girlfriend and the plan stays as is, you always have the opportunity to ask the German girl on a date then. You get the best of both worlds that way, imo. No need to be a player and get as many women as possible in the shortest amount of time. Take things slow, and enjoy the company of your partner while it lasts.


This is sort of where I'm at now. This is why I've stayed with her up until now. She has said several times that we couldn't be together after school, but I thought I might be able to change her mind, plus we just like being together here and now. A week ago, she was talking more like we'd be together, but now not so much.

And it is either her, or the german girl, not both. I'll be gone in about 5 months either way. The problem is it is hard to be with someone that I know won't be there in a few months. Would it be better "life experience" to be with another girl? I dunno. Right now I'm leaning towards sticking where I'm at, but it could get more awkward. That is why it is a tough decision.
Out there, the Kid learned to fend for himself. Learned to build. Learned to break.
Fishgle
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
United States2174 Posts
January 23 2012 22:37 GMT
#16
On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.

Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).

You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.

give me your address.


lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars

stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work.
aka ChillyGonzalo / GnozL
polishedturd
Profile Joined October 2010
United States505 Posts
January 23 2012 22:38 GMT
#17
On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.

Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).

You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.


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Profile Joined April 2010
United States475 Posts
January 23 2012 22:39 GMT
#18
On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?


i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.

Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).

You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.


He might come off the wrong way, but he does make valid points. Especially the last one:

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


As much as you are tempted to break things off to go for your neighbor, I wouldn't if you have any ounce of hope you'll get back together with your current girlfriend.
TheToast
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States4808 Posts
January 23 2012 22:40 GMT
#19
On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.

females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....


I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.

She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?

i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?


How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?

i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....

face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....

before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?


I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.

Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).

You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.

give me your address.


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I like the way the walls go out. Gives you an open feeling. Firefly's a good design. People don't appreciate the substance of things. Objects in space. People miss out on what's solid.
samw
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
England443 Posts
January 23 2012 22:40 GMT
#20
On January 24 2012 06:42 HardlyNever wrote:
I'm not gonna do the whole internet thing where the other girl is super-smoking-cream-your-pants hot,

This is my favourite bit by far.
"You will walk in the garden of his turbulence"
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