What does love have to do with attraction in this context?

Two totally different things.

Furthermore what does attraction actually entail here? Just like their company? Sex? Long Term?

Megalisk

United States6095 Posts

July 20 2009 02:11 GMT

#22

On July 20 2009 10:03 Ozarugold wrote:
I once saw a girl fit an entire banana in her mouth without gagging.

Instant yo~

I would go bananas for her.

GoShox

United States1847 Posts

July 20 2009 02:31 GMT

#23

Hmm.. for me its hard to explain. With my last gf I had known her since 7th grade (so for like 4 years) but I didn't like her until we actually hung out by ourselves for a few times and just had fun

The term 'like' is also hard to explain though. I mean there's plenty of girls around me I deem attractive but I don't 'like' any of them, I guess I kinda have to hang out with the person and get to know them before getting the feeling of 'liking' them

Jonoman92

United States9110 Posts

July 20 2009 02:33 GMT

#24

It just depends. A lot of girls I "like" based on the second I see them because I'm just physically attracted to them. My girlfriend right now wasn't like that as much and it wasn't until I talked with her and got to know her that I became interested so it just depends I guess.

da_head

Canada3350 Posts

July 20 2009 02:47 GMT

#25

like as in: want to have sex? instantly
like as in relationship?: days/weeks

Spenguin

Australia3316 Posts

July 20 2009 02:54 GMT

#26

A grunt.

Etherone

United States1898 Posts

July 20 2009 02:59 GMT

#27

i have had one girl that i insta liked and it was a huge wtf moment for me. other than that it takes quite a while.

i guess it depends on the girl

CharlieMurphy

United States22895 Posts

July 20 2009 03:02 GMT

#28

This OP fails, If you mean looks or even a specific personality, its right away of course.

If it's not the typical look or personality I like, then it can obviously take a few days or weeks to be attracted. And its just like that dumb Harry met Sally movie, men and women are not good at being friends, the sex/attraction thing always gets in the way.

Binky1842

United States2599 Posts

July 20 2009 03:14 GMT

#29

the current girl i'm dating took 23 months to realize i liked her

d(O.o)a

Canada5066 Posts

July 20 2009 03:22 GMT

#30

Sexually attracted or Mentally attracted? For the former as soon as I've seen both sides of them and the latter as long as it takes to get to know them.

kdog3683

United States916 Posts

July 20 2009 04:36 GMT

#31

On July 20 2009 12:02 CharlieMurphy wrote:
This OP fails, If you mean looks or even a specific personality, its right away of course.

If it's not the typical look or personality I like, then it can obviously take a few days or weeks to be attracted. And its just like that dumb Harry met Sally movie, men and women are not good at being friends, the sex/attraction thing always gets in the way.

The fact that you even attempt to troll shows how pathetically you probably live your life in a run down trailer home. 10 years from now, you'll still be posting every single movie you've ever watched, baiting people to reply.

Marradron

Netherlands1586 Posts

July 20 2009 15:40 GMT

#32

On July 20 2009 13:36 kdog3683 wrote:

Show nested quote +

Lol.........

your reaction is just funny. Just because he points out a valid mistake in your OP (which really sux because it can be interpetted in multiple ways) you decide to bash him.

Maybe you should look up what a troll is before you call someone it.

food

United States1951 Posts

July 20 2009 18:28 GMT

#33

On July 21 2009 00:40 Marradron wrote:

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maybe you should look up what charliemurphy is before you say anything
i dont think you been around long enough to even use Lol.......

clazziquai

6685 Posts

July 20 2009 18:30 GMT

#34

On July 20 2009 10:56 Jayme wrote:

Show nested quote +

What does love have to do with attraction in this context?

Two totally different things.

Furthermore what does attraction actually entail here? Just like their company? Sex? Long Term?

Whoops, I misread the OP lol

Mindcrime

United States6899 Posts

July 20 2009 18:59 GMT

#35

depends

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

July 20 2009 19:27 GMT

#36

i know everything about everyone i meet within 1 minute usually

though, with girls sometimes it takes a long time for me to start liking them

because it takes time to drink enough alccy to get beer goggles LOL

but nah, i know instantly if i can like the girl, though the way she talks or her personality can obviously ruin it so i guess i never know till 5 mins like what kennigit said

though there has recently been an occasion where i was only semi attracted to a girl then i didnt see her for a year then after that year i saw her again and i was insanely attracted to her

kinda weird, maybe its cuz she started dressing sexy w/e

Rekrul

Korea (South)17174 Posts

July 20 2009 19:30 GMT

#37

but yeah wtf do you even mean

'i wanna fuck' like?

or be my cuddle poo bear 'like' ? ???

wtf

LOL

poilord

Germany3252 Posts

July 20 2009 19:33 GMT

#38

For me, interest is something that comes instantly or never. Once the interest is there then it takes a few days/weeks to find out if I like her; depending on how often we can see each other.

tonight

United States11130 Posts

July 20 2009 20:40 GMT

#39

I can being attracted to a girl at first glance, obviously, but I think I know if I'll "like her" within' an hour of talking to her.