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Tensai176
Canada2061 Posts
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chobopeon
United States7342 Posts
On March 25 2009 01:17 KissBlade wrote: Steve, I agree with your previous statement but I live in NYC and I can tell you it matters here. Many many times, whoever I go out with would say, "Everyone's looking at us" when I'm around the Times Square region. Sure when I'm around the Union Square or the more liberal areas, no one would care but it is the majority that do and the minor that doesn't. I'm sorry..what? asians can walk around times square without getting stared at? there has to be something i'm missing because in my experience this is totally false. yes, i'm white and from brooklyn but i've been through times square plenty of times with friends of varying ethnicity and never have had a problem. | ||
intrigue
Washington, D.C9934 Posts
On March 25 2009 02:56 Hot_Bid wrote: the first post screams "oh hey, lets focus on an aspect that is completely outside my control and ignore the fact that she probably doens't like me for many of my other flaws which i have conveniently ignored by blaming it on race" WORD | ||
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FieryBalrog
United States1381 Posts
On March 25 2009 01:17 KissBlade wrote: Steve, I agree with your previous statement but I live in NYC and I can tell you it matters here. Many many times, whoever I go out with would say, "Everyone's looking at us" when I'm around the Times Square region. Sure when I'm around the Union Square or the more liberal areas, no one would care but it is the majority that do and the minor that doesn't. Stop being such a whiny bitch. I live in the NYC area and I'm Indian. You come across in your posts like a guy who loves to posture as the poor oppressed victim. LOL "everyone's looking at us" in NYC. People don't look twice at circus freaks in NYC, yet they're looking at you? Maybe you have some other problem? | ||
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KissBlade
United States5718 Posts
On March 25 2009 02:54 Hot_Bid wrote: Are you serious? I've never felt that way in NYC, especially tourist central Time Square. That place is swarming with Asians, I can't imagine people stare at you because you're Asian, your self consciousness must be completely in your head. edit: I can't get over that you distinguished between Times Square and Union Square by saying one is a "more liberal area" that therefore don't stare at Asians. I'll respond this and every other post. I am pointing out, Asian guy + hot caucasian girl in Times Square, you will get looks. Many many many of them. Also for the one white guy at Brooklyn responding, that's cute because I know when I was riding with one of my ex down near Sheepshead, I've had a guy stare at us the ENTIRE trip. Also, if you guys really think I'm whining about the situation, it's quite the opposite. I've been in a relationship more often than single. In fact, aside from my junior high days, I've rarely had to deal with racism on a personal level. | ||
Chill
Calgary25998 Posts
On March 25 2009 10:08 KissBlade wrote: I'll respond this and every other post. I am pointing out, Asian guy + hot caucasian girl in Times Square, you will get looks. Many many many of them. Also for the one white guy at Brooklyn responding, that's cute because I know when I was riding with one of my ex down near Sheepshead, I've had a guy stare at us the ENTIRE trip. Did you ever think they're staring at the hot girl and not you being asian? This makes no sense. | ||
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-orb-
United States5770 Posts
On March 24 2009 23:57 ffswowsucks wrote: rofl. you should get drunk and make a move to the girl saying how u feel etc not trying to start a fight with a doberman since ur a puppy. lolz yeah and maybe the fact that you clearly don't seem to have any confidence since you were mumbling through sentences and side glancing at her and swallowing. How old are you? | ||
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t_co
United States702 Posts
On March 25 2009 10:15 -orb- wrote: yeah and maybe the fact that you clearly don't seem to have any confidence since you were mumbling through sentences and side glancing at her and swallowing. How old are you? Hahaha I know that sucks. She's probably the only girl who makes me feel that way. But w/e I can just avoid her or sth. | ||
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
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VeirenT
United States181 Posts
On March 24 2009 23:47 t_co wrote: because the whole reason I like her is that she's artistic and noble (only asian non-math non-econ non-CS major i knew) and rich and classy and everything that my crass money motivated ABC ass was not... yo i feel you, this quote in particular resonated with me shit happens, but just enjoy and take joy in beauty in the meantime do the right thing | ||
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t_co
United States702 Posts
Thanks--kind of true. But still doesn't take away from the fact that her boyfriend is a loser. | ||
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
Hey dumbshit, you have a fucking girlfriend and you care about how stupid some other girl's boyfriend is? She is a "dream in the air"? I feel sorry for your girlfriend because you are a douchebag, it's people like you who are prone to cheating even though you have a girl who clearly likes you, at least more than you like her. Many people aren't that fortunate/minimally socially capable to have a girlfriend in the first place, and yet you don't appreciate what you have and have the hots for some random chick? I hope your girlfriend finds this and dumps you so you realize how miserable you are without her, thinking about some girl who is taken when you already have one. Have you ever thought that maybe there is more to this "dumbass" boyfriend than you see if the girl YOU seem to want so badly is with him? I don't think she is just lonely and incapable of doing better from what you said, I think you are just too much of a dumbass (like you said, but for a different reason) to see it. In your post you have shown that you are a belligerent drunk, unappreciative ass, bad boyfriend at least in this respect and probably others, and a retard in terms of your racial perception of the world. I think you need a reality check. You got something going for you and like a pig you try to get more and more, is Emily not enough for you? If so, then I think you should do both yourself and her a favor and end it now before she finds out (and trust me, they ALWAYS find out) that you harbor so much shit under the surface. Imagine if she read this, how would she feel? Now, realize the fact that YOU, her BOYFRIEND, wrote it. How does that make YOU feel? | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32132 Posts
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t_co
United States702 Posts
On March 25 2009 10:56 fanatacist wrote: Okay I just read the OP, here's what I have to say. Hey dumbshit, you have a fucking girlfriend and you care about how stupid some other girl's boyfriend is? She is a "dream in the air"? I feel sorry for your girlfriend because you are a douchebag, it's people like you who are prone to cheating even though you have a girl who clearly likes you, at least more than you like her. Many people aren't that fortunate/minimally socially capable to have a girlfriend in the first place, and yet you don't appreciate what you have and have the hots for some random chick? I hope your girlfriend finds this and dumps you so you realize how miserable you are without her, thinking about some girl who is taken when you already have one. Have you ever thought that maybe there is more to this "dumbass" boyfriend than you see if the girl YOU seem to want so badly is with him? I don't think she is just lonely and incapable of doing better from what you said, I think you are just too much of a dumbass (like you said, but for a different reason) to see it. In your post you have shown that you are a belligerent drunk, unappreciative ass, bad boyfriend at least in this respect and probably others, and a retard in terms of your racial perception of the world. I think you need a reality check. You got something going for you and like a pig you try to get more and more, is Emily not enough for you? If so, then I think you should do both yourself and her a favor and end it now before she finds out (and trust me, they ALWAYS find out) that you harbor so much shit under the surface. Imagine if she read this, how would she feel? Now, realize the fact that YOU, her BOYFRIEND, wrote it. How does that make YOU feel? I've thought about it for awhile too. I told her tonight and she seemed to take it ok. She asked if I'd ever thought about doing anything with XXXXX, and I could truthfully tell her no because, even if I could get away with it scot-free because I wouldn't be able to forget all the times she just gave me the cold shoulder and treated me like shit, and those sorts of memories kind of get in the way. I don't want that girl, I get pissed when I see her with a boyfriend who is clearly a leech. And I think that other posters have already answered why my OP is not racist in intent. I apologize for the awkward nature of it. It's not every day that I write about something like this, after all. | ||
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chobopeon
United States7342 Posts
Also for the one white guy at Brooklyn responding, that's cute because I know when I was riding with one of my ex down near Sheepshead, I've had a guy stare at us the ENTIRE trip. I'm glad you think it's cute...? Sheepshead Bay is sort of a shit hole, home to a bunch of close minded white folks for sure. If it helps, there's a decent chance he wasn't even being racist - just a stupid, big mouthed fuck. I dunno, I hate that neighborhood. I was just talking about Times Square. I mentioned that I was white and from Brooklyn only because I wanted to admit that my experience could obviously have been different from yours. | ||
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Ilvy
Germany2445 Posts
On March 25 2009 10:40 t_co wrote: Thanks--kind of true. But still doesn't take away from the fact that her boyfriend is a loser. Thats just your opinion because you are jealous, your comments make you not to a "winner" either | ||
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FieryBalrog
United States1381 Posts
On March 25 2009 10:31 fanatacist wrote: KissBlade why do you only post in topics where your heritage is even slightly ambiguously and far-fetchedly mentioned? No one cares about your Asian2Asian guide to life. Its not hard to figure out that he's really aggressive about how much the man has suffered due to 100 year old railroad worker stereotypes you know, one time on the train this man totally looked at him for a while (and it was a white guy) | ||
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Slaughter
United States20255 Posts
On March 25 2009 04:35 Turbovolver wrote: The OP is beyond a mess (lol linking to "a Western scoundrel in Shanghai, yes he's a playboy asshole, but dude, read some of his shit, he's like "Oh we used a condom and I couldn't finish it was no good so she gave me a handjob" and then he tries to claim he's better at sex than Chinese men, lololololloolololol), the white guy in the story probably is a douche (lol philosophy major, she probably will be supporting him - nowhere did he say white people have it easier dumbasses, just this guy is avoiding work by going into grad school), and all I can say is I feel sorry for poor Em. Wow how is grad school "avoiding life"? They tell you specifically that you won't make it in grad school if that is what your looking for. Infact as a Philosophy major to get a job he pretty much HAS to go to grad school if he wants to actually work in the field. Philosophy has plenty of jobs in the academic sector as its AN ACADEMIC CAREER. I myself am going to grad school for biological anthropology and it the one thing that sucks about it is the fact that my real life is on hold (hard to get funds for wedding and starting family etc) so yea it does kind of put your life off a couple of years but its not why people do it. They want to work in the field and to do so they need to be highly educated. | ||
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JMave
Singapore1806 Posts
WTF man I seriously miss those days where I worried about school and the girls that I had liked in school. Now all I worry about is when I get my days off from the army. Sheesh. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32132 Posts
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