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Friend? Can I even consider him my "friend" now? Maybe an Internet friend is more suitable, since I've talked to him more online rather than in real life. Anyways, I don't know, my friend, let's call him J, is acting very very strange lately.
Masami (from TeamLiquid) also knows this person in real life. In fact we were best high school friends, along with two others. High school was seriously the best time of my life (until now) because everything we did was just so memorable and exciting.
Now, fast forward to college. J and I go to the same college along with one other friend, called S. Masami goes to NYU. The fifth friend, goes to University of Illinois Urbana. So S and I, being friends with J, ask him a lot to eat lunch/dinner with us since the more, the merrier, and we were good high school friends after all. At first he came with us, but as school went on, he keeps saying "I already ate" and eventually, aside from classes, does not come out at all.
Now, during winter break, we're like, oh yes, get J! I haven't seen him in forever.
However, during this one month break, we saw him...ONCE. And by once, I mean like two hours, beceause his mom wanted him inside by....8! 8 PM! Why? Because it's "late". Yes, his mom still controls his life, at the age of 18 when he is a college student.
Furthermore every time we ask online, he came up with the lamest excuses. Such include
-I have to help my dad
-I have to pick up something from someone
-I need to help my mom clean the bed sheets
-I can hang out, but I need to wait for my parents for money (they didn't come home, apparently, rofl)
-I need to help my mom cook
At this point masami and I are speechless. We come with something for him, EXCUSE OF THE DAY, EOTD as a joke 
Yesterday, we FINALLY met him, and he had to get home by 8 as usual. When we went to masami's house, all four of us insisted that he stay later. However he keeps saying, "No, I need to go home." His voice gets all like nervous and shit too. No joke.
Honestly, imo he's only making his mom look like bad with all those "stupid rules". It's BREAK FFS! Everyone I know goes out and comes back home late, but him, he doesn't even go OUTSIDE! Needs Vitamin D imo. Today was also my friends' birthday, but he didn't come out because his mom was pissed it was getting late (this was around 3:30 PM). As a joke, we told him we should hang out tomorrow at 7 AM, get bagels, and go fishing -_-
Something is going on...
Could he be playing WoW? DotA? Jacking off 8 times a day?
I seriously just want to go to his house and see what's up.
O_O
 
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DA FUCK THIS KID. HE DIDN'T COME OUT FOR S'S BDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pisses me off so much. seriously. it was 3 pm and he's like, "it too late to go out!" .........?????????????????????????????????
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On January 14 2009 15:50 masami.sc wrote:
DA FUCK THIS KID. HE DIDN'T COME OUT FOR S'S BDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pisses me off so much. seriously. it was 3 pm and he's like, "it too late to go out!" .........?????????????????????????????????
I don't understand...dude whatever forget it.
Eventually he'll come out of his cave. He'll definitely realize it sooner or later...
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jacking it 9 times a day at least. dont go look, you will be scarred
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Nevertheless, he probably appreciates having friend who bug him as opposed to being completely isolated.
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On January 14 2009 15:52 Grobyc wrote:
jacking it 9 times a day at least. dont go look, you will be scarred
ROFL.
And it's like no matter how HARD we try, it just...won't work.
*sigh*
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he's addicted to pron. duh
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51497 Posts
actually maybe not me this guy sounds hardcore anti social
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sounds like a good time for INTERVENTION
that was somewhat of a joke, but you should ask him what's going on when u get to school (which I assume is soon), if his mother is running his life well he's at college, something is messed up
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CA10828 Posts
wow wtf i've never heard of an 18 year old like that, even my korean female friends that have super protective parents. even they let their kids stay out until 11 or 12.
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Maybe a family member of his has a chronic illness.
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was he like this in hs
the 8pm thing
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On January 14 2009 16:39 dongfeng wrote:
was he like this in hs
the 8pm thing
Nope...lol.
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On January 14 2009 16:33 KH1031 wrote:
It's WoW
Raid starts at 8
most reasonable answer imo
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Dont be surprised if you find him with slit wrists in the bathtub with a note that reads: "How could i roll a six"
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MrHoon
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On January 14 2009 16:33 KH1031 wrote:
It's WoW
Raid starts at 8
I think this is one of the best reasons
Seriously, I know firsthand ;;
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Some people just don't like to hang out. I do suspect that he is doing something on the Internet at home though.
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On January 14 2009 17:56 MrHoon wrote:I think this is one of the best reasons Seriously, I know firsthand ;;
Most raids start at 8 pM!?!?@#123
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id have to agree it most prob is WoW lol
sigh another soul lost
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hahaha. i refused to believe this was due to WOW and more of strict parents, but I was curious and googled raid start times. Most of them start 5pm- 9pm.
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On January 14 2009 17:10 Flying_Llama wrote:most reasonable answer imo
i agree.
my freshmen roommate basically never talked to me unless it was about WoW. would never go eat with the dormmates cos he was busy playing WoW....one quarter he bought a massive cup (called the bucket)of coke from KFC...it took him a week to drink all of it while playing wow lol...
direct quote "i held my shit in for a few hours cos i was playing WoW once"...
the bathroom was like right next to our room lol
ITS THE DEVIL!
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On January 14 2009 19:13 krazymunky wrote:
direct quote "i held my shit in for a few hours cos i was playing WoW once"...
the bathroom was like right next to our room lol
lol, damn...
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On January 14 2009 15:52 fight_or_flight wrote:
Nevertheless, he probably appreciates having friend who bug him as opposed to being completely isolated.
I think this guy's right here
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sounds like some serious wow addiction to me
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Maybe he's addicted to some game, porn, girls, etc.
But there are some people that will like exaggerate things their parents want them to do to gain attention, maybe? Like, get you people's sympathy and stuff.
Just a thought, don't take me too seriously. I just recently found out one of my "friends" was just like that, so yeah.
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On January 14 2009 18:32 dongfeng wrote:
id have to agree it most prob is WoW lol
sigh another soul lost
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Sydney2287 Posts
On January 14 2009 17:56 MrHoon wrote:I think this is one of the best reasons Seriously, I know firsthand ;;
Quoted for truth.
I was this guy for first few weeks of first year in uni, then I realised how much I was missing out on life and stopped. Best decision ever.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
he has a really ugly and or fat gf and is aware of it
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On January 14 2009 22:45 Rekrul wrote:
he has a really ugly and or fat gf and is aware of it
He actually doesn't even have a gf rofl...
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the answer is obvious - he's addicted to jacking off to WoW.
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ROFL Elvin: When we saw that movie, all of us knew Jim Carrey's character related to him. LMFAOOOOOOOO ^_^
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Its either WoW(Yes i use to play WoW and we raid at 8:30PST once warrior or a hunter from my guild gets in.). Why don't you try stalking him and check what he does.<--- This works trust me
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You could threaten him with violence and/or death. 3:30 PM is late? Maybe his parents are tyrants who have enslaved him to do their bidding.
In all seriousness, maybe he's become antisocial, or is playing WoW (I know that my brother has raids from 8 PM to 12 AM a few nights a week. Have you tried confronting him and his excuses? You never know, he may give you the truth.
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Yeah stalking him or something might work. Because there is no way in hell any parents ever expect a kid at that age to be home at 8pm and what not. He's lying.
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He feels guilty spending time with you/doesnt want to spend time with you.
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Why would he not like me? Then he'd have to not like the rest of us [:
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maybe he has some massive hidden weed plantation that he needs to take care of and at 8 pm he starts meeting his customers 
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I have a friend like this, and speaking from experience all I can tell you is that he's antisocial and probably has asperger syndrome or something.
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i think
he likes you but is afraid to admit it
so he uses WoW as an escape/playing hard to get
he has a mancrush on you clazz
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What does he say when you yell at him about his antisocial behavior and his ridiculous excuses?
If you haven't done that yet, do it now :|
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give me his house phone, ill figure out whats up/talk to his mother while at it
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clazzi, why don't u ask him wtf's REALLY up. stop being a pussy and call him. 1 on 1.
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he probaly think u guys are sc nerds and dont wanna hang out with guys. but he dont wanna hurt ur feelings so he give lame excses.
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On January 15 2009 12:34 CapO wrote:
clazzi, why don't u ask him wtf's REALLY up. stop being a pussy and call him. 1 on 1.
ha
ha
ha
you think we didn't do that
he turns his phone off and never comes online~
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why dont you talk to his parents and ask them, seriously
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On January 16 2009 11:26 GhostKorean wrote:
Punch him in the face.
lol hahaha
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I've got a better idea : Just kidnap him when he's out and don't let him home until 12 AM. If he starts hyperventilating, talking to himself or go off on a serious muscle spasm orgy, you know it's WoW.
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I have a friend just like that, but he'll complain that he has nothing to do when he's back at home. Weird...I think they are afraid to have a good time.
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if u ever visit that guy dont fuckin touch his keyboard man
crust man, crust
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This happens quite often to guys when they get an evil girlfriend.
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On January 16 2009 11:26 GhostKorean wrote:
Punch him in the face.
i was drinking milk when i read this... now i need to change.
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On January 17 2009 08:47 masami.sc wrote:i was drinking milk when i read this... now i need to change.
no one cares.
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OP should leave his friend alone imo. if he doesn't wanna go outside that's his problem. my friends always ask me to go out when i dont wanna and it like pisses me off. why go out if ya know theres no fun anyway.
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All signs point toward WoW really, drop by his house uninvited sometime at 8pm and just go to his room.
There's no way his mom makes him come home at 8pm, just no way.
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i have a friend like this. we used to play soccer every day in the summer, now WoW is taking over his life. he's pale now too.. kind of sad really.
oh haha about your friend, if he insists on not doing anything with you guys, just leave him alone i guess
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UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE
So this is our last day since most of us go back to school tomorrow or on Monday.
TODAY, WTF WTFW TF, he asks us to hang out. I'm speechless. Anyways, before we go pick him up (like 30 minutes before) he says he can't.
It's 6:30 and it's too late.
His mom said because he got a 3.7 for the semester his curfew is limited (BULLLLLLLLSHIT) and he had to read the newspaper and stuff......like what kind of lame ass excuse is that?
I don't know what to say and joke that if he got a 4.0 maybe his curfew will be extended to 11 PM! rofl
Now, there are four of us and we decide to go to his house and see what he's doing. I noticed that the light on his room is on! So he's home. Now we sneak around the house but due to snow it makes that annoying ass sound and we're trying to make little noise as possible. Finally we're near his window. One of my friend Mike jumps and then he starts laughing like crazy for no reason and we all start laughing but try to hold it in. That moment was priceless ^_______^
He said he saw the antisocial kid on the computer. It wasn't a game but he said it was a red/white message board(?) or something.
Then we ring his bell and his mom says "What" like in a cold voice. How rude is that?
Then we say we want to hang out and we're scared and think this might actually be the truth....=\ if it is how does a mom get stricter AFTER high school??
We talk to him for a minute and say bye.
How lame
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your friend doesnt really want to hang out with you guys obviously because he is still following his parents rules no? i would think that he could stand up to her by now being that hes 18
my friend is kinda sorta the same with his parents making him go home at 7PM WTF Right? so i dont really call him out as hanging out in college means probably after 7
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