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God damnit.
About fifteen friends of mine had an intervention with me the other day, they god damn tricked me to my friends place.
But what for?
I smoke enormous amounts of weed every day(get it for free), drink(and party heavily) 4~ times a week and especially for unsafe sex. Now I'm really healthy considering my extremely volatile lifestyle, now the thing is... all my friends did something pretty damn freaky. They all went together and are sending me to god damn thailand for 2 months to live in a god damn buddhist god damn friggin god damn something. Now you might think "cool thailand" okay listen, this is in the middle of nowhere and i'll essentially be a prisoners with these monk dudes, and i'll have to live like I'm from the year 1000 or something. Which is kind of cool, BUT FOR TWO MONTHS?
It's pretty awesome by my friends but god damnit, this is seriously freaky, and I can't just say fuck no cause this was extremely expensive and I'd probably lose friendship if I just skipped this.
So i'll disapear for a bit over two months in december. But these buddhist dudes will hold my plane ticket home so I cant really just run away. But i'm considering just running off at the airport in bangkok and using my own money and just chill out for 2 months and buy my own ticket.
So if anyone is in bangkok december-february, and you dare, join up with me, i'm the most fun guy to hang out with. I'm not a douchebag as the picture I paint of myself, in the eyes of others i'm actually extremely kind and fun.
ps. god damn buddhists
Poll: what to do...
(Vote): stay with the monk dudes
(Vote): just walk away at the airport and have a vacation
I'm a total ass for even considering having a vacation instead, but hey, 2 months is a very very long time.
 
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Austin10831 Posts
If you're at the point in your life where 15 of your good friends staged an intervention because you party too much, taking their money they spent on helping you and partying in Thailand is probably a really stupid idea.
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Spenguin
Australia3316 Posts
sufferrr! 
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It's a trap, they want you to get in bed with a transvestite.
What they didn't take into consideration was that you actually wouldn't mind that.
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you could be the next karate kid, so i'm voting stay with the monks.
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Yeah definitely. Stay with the "monk dudes". It could turn out to be really interesting.
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I voted for you to do your own thing, but if you had that many of your friends sit you down and tell you your life is fucked up, they are obviously seeing something you're not. psychotic isolation is probably a bit extreme, but it definitely seems to be a sign that you need to change your life.
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your friends know how to waste money
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Aotearoa39261 Posts
On September 27 2008 20:53 Energies wrote:
I voted for you to do your own thing, but if you had that many of your friends sit you down and tell you your life is fucked up, they are obviously seeing something you're not. psychotic isolation is probably a bit extreme, but it definitely seems to be a sign that you need to change your life. This
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Belgium8305 Posts
On September 27 2008 20:03 MarklarMarklar wrote:
I'm not a douchebag as the picture I paint of myself, in the eyes of others i'm actually extremely kind and fun.
which is why they're sending you to a prison in another country for two months
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Why pass up an opportunity to chit chat with some monks?
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On September 27 2008 20:08 BroOd wrote:
If you're at the point in your life where 15 of your good friends staged an intervention because you party too much, taking their money they spent on helping you and partying in Thailand is probably a really stupid idea.
Couldn't have said it any better.
Obviously they know that you need it, or they wouldn't have dished out a huge amount of money for you to do this, and denying what they try to give you is just douchebaggery. Of course you probably won't enjoy being there, so cry.
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well if you dont go to live with the monks and run away to do whatever you want, then you'll prove to them they were right about you and the intervention was necessary.
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On September 27 2008 22:23 NrG.ZaM wrote:
Why pass up an opportunity to chit chat with some monks?
Haha hopefully you weren't referring to that one post...
edit: shoot. i just realized this is the same blogger! lol
in case you're wondering... http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=78637
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Go for a month of partying in Thailand then turn up to the monks a month late and hope they don't keep you prisoner for two months anyway. And then when you tell your friends that you went to stay with the monks it will be the truth 
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On September 27 2008 21:32 vGl-CoW wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2008 20:03 MarklarMarklar wrote:
I'm not a douchebag as the picture I paint of myself, in the eyes of others i'm actually extremely kind and fun. which is why they're sending you to a prison in another country for two months
haha
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United States42412 Posts
I'd normally go with "don't do things just because your friends tell you to or because you don't want to disappoint them/feel guilty" but when 15 friends get together and put money down up front their judgement of what is right for you probably outweighs yours.
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On September 27 2008 21:17 Plexa wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2008 20:53 Energies wrote:
I voted for you to do your own thing, but if you had that many of your friends sit you down and tell you your life is fucked up, they are obviously seeing something you're not. psychotic isolation is probably a bit extreme, but it definitely seems to be a sign that you need to change your life. This
Yep,
Its your life, You do what you want
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On September 27 2008 20:28 SnowFantasy wrote:
Yeah definitely. Stay with the "monk dudes". It could turn out to be really interesting.
I have already seen a gay monk and the guy was funny, he had a crush on a friend. That was hilarious. My friend was really uneasy and tried to dodge him rolf. ( We were visiting a pagod in Vietnam ).
edit: "interesting" or interesting ? xD
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15 people that know you well making an objective decision from a 3rd person perspective on your life probably have a more reliable idea of whether you need to do this or not than you do
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United States24639 Posts
Look on the bright side... none of the stuff you like to do really requires a detox...
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On September 27 2008 20:03 MarklarMarklar wrote:God damnit. About fifteen friends of mine had an intervention with me the other day, they god damn tricked me to my friends place. But what for? I smoke enormous amounts of weed every day(get it for free), drink(and party heavily) 4~ times a week and especially for unsafe sex. Now I'm really healthy considering my extremely volatile lifestyle, now the thing is... all my friends did something pretty damn freaky. They all went together and are sending me to god damn thailand for 2 months to live in a god damn buddhist god damn friggin god damn something. Now you might think "cool thailand" okay listen, this is in the middle of nowhere and i'll essentially be a prisoners with these monk dudes, and i'll have to live like I'm from the year 1000 or something. Which is kind of cool, BUT FOR TWO MONTHS? It's pretty awesome by my friends but god damnit, this is seriously freaky, and I can't just say fuck no cause this was extremely expensive and I'd probably lose friendship if I just skipped this. So i'll disapear for a bit over two months in december. But these buddhist dudes will hold my plane ticket home so I cant really just run away. But i'm considering just running off at the airport in bangkok and using my own money and just chill out for 2 months and buy my own ticket. So if anyone is in bangkok december-february, and you dare, join up with me, i'm the most fun guy to hang out with. I'm not a douchebag as the picture I paint of myself, in the eyes of others i'm actually extremely kind and fun. ps. god damn buddhists Poll: what to do...( Vote): stay with the monk dudes ( Vote): just walk away at the airport and have a vacation I'm a total ass for even considering having a vacation instead, but hey, 2 months is a very very long time. If you are concerned about losing friends over not going, they will still find out that you didn't show up. I don't see how you can get out of it without talking to your friends.
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I wouldnt recommend trying to run around in Thailand for two months with ur own cash. But it is only you who can tell if you really need this, though you probably would deny it, it is your decision. Make it.
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They dont mind me doing all this as they know I got control to some extent, they just said i was wasting my time, which is probably true but sometimes in life that might be exactly what you want to do.
all these friends of mine are my oldest and they are all highly educated and they feel i've been going in the opposite direction as them so thats probably why they did this.
"wasting talent" is one phrase i heard alot, but god damn, it's like being a world of warcraft addict or something except you get alot more fun out of it. Do you send those wow nerds to these places?
no.
Suddenly cause sex drugs and booze is involved they gotta take it so seriously.
they seriously overreacted, which is why i find humour in all of this, they want this to be a life changing experience or something like that.
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It was very disrespectful of them to do this without even telling you beforehand. They are giving you no choice. If I was you I would be very mad at them. They are basically trying to send you two months with some unknown monks in one of the shittiest world countries.
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Seriously though.. if my friends sent me to another country for 2 months as an intervention I'd be fucking worried and maybe I'd examine my current lifestyle. From the sounds of it you won't change, and it's your life, but really.. does this register no importance to you?
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They just heard all these extreme versions of my deeds, they are overreacting, surely i'm doing alot of freaky stuff but hey, it has been insanely exagerated.
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You can fuck up your life with drugs all you want but the fact that you're perfectly fine with the fact that you seek out unsafe sex is a bit scary. You will end up paying child support before you know it and then your life will really suck.
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United States24639 Posts
On September 28 2008 02:51 MarklarMarklar wrote:
they seriously overreacted, which is why i find humour in all of this, they want this to be a life changing experience or something like that.
You can disagree about the severity of using a lot of weed, drinking a lot, and having a lot of unsafe sex. But put them all together, and you probably should change yourself one way or another.
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On September 27 2008 20:03 MarklarMarklar wrote:
God damnit.
About fifteen friends of mine had an intervention with me the other day, they god damn tricked me to my friends place.
But what for?
I smoke enormous amounts of weed every day(get it for free), drink(and party heavily) 4~ times a week and especially for unsafe sex. Now I'm really healthy considering my extremely volatile lifestyle,
On September 28 2008 03:09 MarklarMarklar wrote:
They just heard all these extreme versions of my deeds, they are overreacting, surely i'm doing alot of freaky stuff but hey, it has been insanely exagerated.
I'm kind of curious what these "extreme versions" are, since you already say, in your own words, what you're doing is extreme.
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United States20661 Posts
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meh. i would just keep arguing to not go, hopefully they can refund their money or something. if they reall really couldnt refund their money in the end then i guess i would go. thats if these are actually good friends. if they are some half-ass friends who just want to have fun tormenting people then i would just flat-out say "fuck you guys".
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On September 28 2008 02:51 MarklarMarklar wrote:
"wasting talent" is one phrase i heard alot, but god damn, it's like being a world of warcraft addict or something except you get alot more fun out of it. Do you send those wow nerds to these places?
no.
we should! i say go hang out with the monks for two months, because if you ditch, you just might get a second intervention that is much worse.
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Dude unsafe sex is bad fucking news. =\
If you dont have an STD at this point consider yourself extremly lucky and be less dumb. IF all your friends are saying this to you and you consider them pretty normal people then you may want to just go with it. Don't ruin your life now and live with regret. Fix shit before its too late.
On September 28 2008 02:57 iG.ClouD wrote:
It was very disrespectful of them to do this without even telling you beforehand. They are giving you no choice. If I was you I would be very mad at them. They are basically trying to send you two months with some unknown monks in one of the shittiest world countries.
...Do you know what interventions are? lol
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On September 28 2008 03:38 NrG.ZaM wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2008 20:03 MarklarMarklar wrote:
God damnit.
About fifteen friends of mine had an intervention with me the other day, they god damn tricked me to my friends place.
But what for?
I smoke enormous amounts of weed every day(get it for free), drink(and party heavily) 4~ times a week and especially for unsafe sex. Now I'm really healthy considering my extremely volatile lifestyle,
Show nested quote +On September 28 2008 03:09 MarklarMarklar wrote:
They just heard all these extreme versions of my deeds, they are overreacting, surely i'm doing alot of freaky stuff but hey, it has been insanely exagerated. I'm kind of curious what these "extreme versions" are, since you already say, in your own words, what you're doing is extreme.
Well just think extreme versions of the that stuff i do (which is already pretty volatile)
Now it's time to go out and party, saturday night baby
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United States24639 Posts
On September 28 2008 05:25 MiniRoman wrote:Show nested quote +On September 28 2008 02:57 iG.ClouD wrote:
It was very disrespectful of them to do this without even telling you beforehand. They are giving you no choice. If I was you I would be very mad at them. They are basically trying to send you two months with some unknown monks in one of the shittiest world countries. ...Do you know what interventions are? lol
Just because it's supposed to be an 'intervention' doesn't mean they should have license to choose anything they want without oversight. I agree with Cloud that this is at least a bit ridiculous.![[image loading]](http://img223.imageshack.us/img223/3817/kruemelmonsteryn0.gif)
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A BIT RIDICULOUS is a huge understatement.
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I meant to the surprise comment, no one told ahead of time would actually go to the intervention. It has to be dumped on you all at once so you cant go do your whatever.
Oh and just for sake since I've joinned in. I dont think drinking 4 days a week nightly and smoking weed everyday is anything worth of an intervention. Smarten up and practice safe sex though, thats just stupid.
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I wouldt stay with what your friends say. They probably know what they're talking about and they're only trying to help you right?
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You got owned!
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I for one can't wait to see you go.
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i think it would be really ironic if your friends sent you to thailand to clean up your life and you went off on your own and got AIDS
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Thailand is a HUGE party place... some of my friends went there this past summer specifically because of its reputation for having crazy ass parties.
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Dude, you're like 21...you have like another 60 years of life ahead of you to party and you'll probably never get another opportunity to go to Thailand and actually do this. Maybe this will help you put a new perspective on life and actually change things around. You can party whenever you want, but a chance like this will most likely never cross your path again, especially one with all expenses paid.
Your friends probably went ahead with this without asking you because they must have known you'd say no if they asked beforehand, and if 15 individual minds thought this is what would be best for you, it probably is. I've read a few of your past blogs, and I for one think it will definitely change you for the better, or at least put you on a better path in life. If after 2 months of being with these buddhists, you still feel like nothing has changed, book another vacation to Thailand just for partying or whatever you want, but at least try this. Besides, even if you do go and party instead of doing this monk thing, your friends will find out you'll return in even more of a worse state than now.
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