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letsbefree
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Canada123 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-11 03:42:04
April 04 2008 02:47 GMT
#1




**
hehe...
LegendaryDreams
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Canada1350 Posts
April 04 2008 02:55 GMT
#2
Sorry but she basically only likes you as a friend. She has no romantic interest over you.
call me moxie
ProTech_MediC
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States498 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-04 02:59:49
April 04 2008 02:58 GMT
#3
What legendary dreams said, and I have something else to add.

You can never be "just friends" with her. In fact, I don't believe that any heterosexual male is ever "just friends" with a female. It's in our nature to want to have sex with them. Deeeep inside I think everyone knows this
MC Fighting!~
demonic_phate
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States442 Posts
April 04 2008 03:00 GMT
#4
and out of nowhere han solo jumps into the conversation
BusyP
Luddite
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States2315 Posts
April 04 2008 03:12 GMT
#5
On April 04 2008 12:00 demonic_phate wrote:
and out of nowhere han solo jumps into the conversation

Haha, yeah, it would suck if Han Solo stole your girl.
Can't believe I'm still here playing this same game
letsbefree
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
Canada123 Posts
April 04 2008 03:14 GMT
#6
LOL thanks guys, you guys are pretty awesome. Love your senses of humor
Btw LOL my name is actually Han LMAO
hehe...
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-04 03:24:02
April 04 2008 03:17 GMT
#7
On April 04 2008 12:00 demonic_phate wrote:
and out of nowhere han solo jumps into the conversation

LOL!

Anyways the reason why she is "only friends" is because that you are too nice; and you didn't want to act like that you wanted to go for a relationship when you first met. Once you're in the friendship zone is hard to get out to relationship imo...
BTW: I think that you can talk your parents out of their thinking of "No dating in high school" I know some asian parents are really strict about their child's studies, hell my parents wouldn't let me even play SC during weekends.

What made them suprised is that my neighbor who had a relationship, and still managed to get full on ACT really suprised my parents... I dunno maybe you can try and provide some samples that getting a relationship don't affect your studies.

Like maybe "secretly"(tho i don't know how its possilbe) date for a few weeks. Then see if your grades are changed, if not tell your parents that you had a relationship for the past few weeks and your grades wasn't affected.. :/
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
Orome
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
Switzerland11984 Posts
April 04 2008 03:24 GMT
#8
GODDAMNIT GUYS, stop with the stereotypical oversimplistic advice everyone on the internet seems to believe.

I'll write you some advice later if I have the time letsbefree, but basically, yes, you have a chance at her. If you want her, go get her tiger.
On a purely personal note, I'd like to show Yellow the beauty of infinitely repeating Starcraft 2 bunkers. -Boxer
Aux1
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States780 Posts
April 04 2008 03:40 GMT
#9
sorry, but you are currently mayor of the friend zone with the girl, the outlook doesnt look too good if you try to pursue a romantic relationship with her. the right time to strike would have been when she was sad and vulnerable.
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
April 04 2008 03:44 GMT
#10
On April 04 2008 12:40 Aux1 wrote:
sorry, but you are currently mayor of the friend zone with the girl, the outlook doesnt look too good if you try to pursue a romantic relationship with her. the right time to strike would have been when she was sad and vulnerable.


You can make her vulnerable by making her laugh ... I dunno about you but i think people will generally agree and are more out going when they are laughing oO.
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
Aux1
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States780 Posts
April 04 2008 03:49 GMT
#11
On April 04 2008 12:44 YanGpaN wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 04 2008 12:40 Aux1 wrote:
sorry, but you are currently mayor of the friend zone with the girl, the outlook doesnt look too good if you try to pursue a romantic relationship with her. the right time to strike would have been when she was sad and vulnerable.


You can make her vulnerable by making her laugh ... I dunno about you but i think people will generally agree and are more out going when they are laughing oO.

this doesnt make much sense to me, some girls might be attracted to humor but some arent also, and just because a girl is laughing doesnt mean she is emotionally vulnerable at all.
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-04 03:53:51
April 04 2008 03:50 GMT
#12
It all started when I met this girl, Christina. I have two classes with her right now, in grade 11. And slowly we became really good friends. However, she had a boyfriend not long ago and when they broke up she was devastated. I did my best to comfort her and now she seems pretty much ok.
I stopped reading right there. Ok, no I didn't, but I already knew what I was going to say at that point!



Sorry.

GODDAMNIT GUYS, stop with the stereotypical oversimplistic advice everyone on the internet seems to believe.
It's doable, but 99% of the time I believe it involves disappearing from their life and "reinventing" yourself, at which point you might as well just find someone new unless they're REALLY special. Best way to forget about her while still being her friend is to be with someone else.
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werd
Profile Joined January 2008
19 Posts
April 04 2008 03:52 GMT
#13
my advice:

there are a million of her, and only one of you. her loss she doesn't want to be with a cool starcraft loving guy as yourself. so move onto new prospects (better ones). if she sees you with other girls she might change her mind about you. or....

have her be your friend, then get her to hook you up with her friends. shell talk you up etc and its easy at that point.

just remember if all you are is friendly and nice, then why would she expect something else from you? you must make it clear your intentions. do this by touching (start small), and escalate till shes dying to stick her tongue down your throat.
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-04 03:53:36
April 04 2008 03:53 GMT
#14
just be a man and overcome your boners

you can forget about her when high school is over
iLjh
Profile Joined February 2008
United States160 Posts
April 04 2008 03:58 GMT
#15
this is what happens to many guys when they become close friends with girls.... it's normal dont worry about it. though i think you took the wrong approach, you should've first taken initiative to see if she had any feelings for you whatsoever.. and if not, you should have realized your boundaries. now that you've stepped over the line... your relationship may be irrepairable... but lets not hope for the worst
decafchicken
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United States20154 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-04-04 04:15:17
April 04 2008 04:11 GMT
#16
On April 04 2008 12:24 Orome wrote:
GODDAMNIT GUYS, stop with the stereotypical oversimplistic advice everyone on the internet seems to believe.

I'll write you some advice later if I have the time letsbefree, but basically, yes, you have a chance at her. If you want her, go get her tiger.

lolololol at over optimism

100% guarenteed he can't get with her

edit: what exactly is your question letsbefree?

and yea

So yeah, that's basically what we talked about. And now, i dunno what to do. I really really like her, and I don't want to forget about her. But from the way she talked, it seemed like it's the only solution. In my own opinion, I've decided to continue to be there for her as a friend, and I will always be opened to her whenever she feels that we are both ready. I really don't know if this is the best choice guys >_<, hope you can help me out here...

you can just keep crushing on her till the summer when you forget about her, or she gets a bf, etc etc.
"decided to be there as her friend" im interpreting as you think you still have a chance and are going to be her tool. And she will never feel you're both ready. unless she's very drunk and very vulnerable

p.s. her ex bf sounds like a giant tool.
how reasonable is it to eat off wood instead of your tummy?
Rev0lution
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States1805 Posts
April 04 2008 04:13 GMT
#17
your basically trying to emulate her ex-boyfriend, i think you need to find yourself first...
My dealer is my best friend, and we don't even chill.
SalvGG
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
Canada67 Posts
April 04 2008 04:30 GMT
#18
On April 04 2008 12:17 YanGpaN wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 04 2008 12:00 demonic_phate wrote:
and out of nowhere han solo jumps into the conversation

LOL!

Anyways the reason why she is "only friends" is because that you are too nice; and you didn't want to act like that you wanted to go for a relationship when you first met. Once you're in the friendship zone is hard to get out to relationship imo...
BTW: I think that you can talk your parents out of their thinking of "No dating in high school" I know some asian parents are really strict about their child's studies, hell my parents wouldn't let me even play SC during weekends.

What made them suprised is that my neighbor who had a relationship, and still managed to get full on ACT really suprised my parents... I dunno maybe you can try and provide some samples that getting a relationship don't affect your studies.

Like maybe "secretly"(tho i don't know how its possilbe) date for a few weeks. Then see if your grades are changed, if not tell your parents that you had a relationship for the past few weeks and your grades wasn't affected.. :/


I know this person and YanGPan has no experience in this regard. Yangpan is simple Relationship-crafting.
YPang
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States4024 Posts
April 04 2008 04:42 GMT
#19
On April 04 2008 13:30 SalvGG wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 04 2008 12:17 YanGpaN wrote:
On April 04 2008 12:00 demonic_phate wrote:
and out of nowhere han solo jumps into the conversation

LOL!

Anyways the reason why she is "only friends" is because that you are too nice; and you didn't want to act like that you wanted to go for a relationship when you first met. Once you're in the friendship zone is hard to get out to relationship imo...
BTW: I think that you can talk your parents out of their thinking of "No dating in high school" I know some asian parents are really strict about their child's studies, hell my parents wouldn't let me even play SC during weekends.

What made them suprised is that my neighbor who had a relationship, and still managed to get full on ACT really suprised my parents... I dunno maybe you can try and provide some samples that getting a relationship don't affect your studies.

Like maybe "secretly"(tho i don't know how its possilbe) date for a few weeks. Then see if your grades are changed, if not tell your parents that you had a relationship for the past few weeks and your grades wasn't affected.. :/


I know this person and YanGPan has no experience in this regard. Yangpan is simple Relationship-crafting.


no you don't, stfu go back to your hole..
sMi.Gladstone | BW: B high| SC2: gold T_T
Orome
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
Switzerland11984 Posts
April 04 2008 04:56 GMT
#20
On April 04 2008 12:50 Jibba wrote:
Show nested quote +
GODDAMNIT GUYS, stop with the stereotypical oversimplistic advice everyone on the internet seems to believe.
It's doable, but 99% of the time I believe it involves disappearing from their life and "reinventing" yourself, at which point you might as well just find someone new unless they're REALLY special. Best way to forget about her while still being her friend is to be with someone else.


Of course it involves reinventing yourself, but for one thing that's not as hard as you make it out to be and for another, are you really trying to tell someone who's in love (yes, I'm assuming he's really in love, I don't like spitting on others' feelings) to just drop the girl and forget about her?
On a purely personal note, I'd like to show Yellow the beauty of infinitely repeating Starcraft 2 bunkers. -Boxer
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