Girl advice, a very confusing situation - Page 2

On April 04 2008 13:56 Orome wrote:


Of course it involves reinventing yourself, but for one thing that's not as hard as you make it out to be and for another, are you really trying to tell someone who's in love (yes, I'm assuming he's really in love, I don't like spitting on others' feelings) to just drop the girl and forget about her?

On April 04 2008 14:08 decafchicken wrote:


1) Reinventing yourself as a junior in HS is easy?
2) Very few people are actually "in love" at his age. Its more than likely a crush.
3) And yes, it would be best if he could just move on.

On April 04 2008 19:22 lilsusie wrote:
No girl as an 11th grader even knows what she wants, she wants what society tells her to want. You seem better off just forgetting about her and moving on (as everyone else wrote). Especially at that age, yeah, you're stuck just being her friend because that's all she'll see you as. You're THAT guy, the one she can complain and bitch and moan to, the one she says "where are all the nice guys?!!?" to - but it'll be pretty hard for you to actually become her man in shining armor because she has already categorized you.

It's tough, but forgetting about her would be the best course to take.