EPTMy Asshole Roommate - Page 3
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HornyHerring
Papua New Guinea1059 Posts
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parkufarku
882 Posts
On March 05 2016 07:08 HornyHerring wrote: How did he get to your computer and then to your facebook? You have no passwords set anywhere? someone check his TL password quick! | ||
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Epishade
United States2267 Posts
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HornyHerring
Papua New Guinea1059 Posts
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JieXian
Malaysia4677 Posts
On March 05 2016 12:50 Epishade wrote: Man, you guys just keep trying to pin some of the blame on me. Roommate never told me a damn thing that I was bothering him. I asked him if he had any problems with anything and he said no. What more do you want me to do? Break into HIS room and see if he's writing things about me so that I'll know I'm annoying him? Jesus, I can't read minds. Yes, I should have been more careful with my computer security, but damn. Nobody is trying to blame anyone. Many people are too passive or "nice" to confront people about a problem they are having, as in saying something like "No, I really don't want your Gf to come over". If he's Asian it's a lot more likely that he has this personality. Basically it boils down to this: Think about it. Is he 100% nuts and irrational? (You said that he seemed ok in the past.) Or did something happen that made him behave this way? | ||
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Cynry
810 Posts
On March 05 2016 12:50 Epishade wrote: Man, you guys just keep trying to pin some of the blame on me. Roommate never told me a damn thing that I was bothering him. I asked him if he had any problems with anything and he said no. What more do you want me to do? Break into HIS room and see if he's writing things about me so that I'll know I'm annoying him? Jesus, I can't read minds. Yes, I should have been more careful with my computer security, but damn. I'm quite appalled about that too... I don't understand what they are doing/trying to achieve here, but I'm not sure benevolence is amongst it. How are you doing now ? Did you talk about your issue to your entourage ? Basically it boils down to this: Think about it. Is he 100% nuts and irrational? (You said that he seemed ok in the past.) Or did something happen that made him behave this way? Like, really ? That's a heavily biased question, and again, a totally irrelevant one. Most of you that posted this kind of message seem to believe for sure that his roomie is just a shy dude, that can't express himself when something bothers him. So like you, I guess ? Basically it boils down to this: if you're trying to prove a point to the OP about something you think is true, just shut up please. | ||
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Linear
60 Posts
On March 05 2016 18:49 Cynry wrote: I'm quite appalled about that too... I don't understand what they are doing/trying to achieve here, but I'm not sure benevolence is amongst it. How are you doing now ? Did you talk about your issue to your entourage ? Like, really ? That's a heavily biased question, and again, a totally irrelevant one. Most of you that posted this kind of message seem to believe for sure that his roomie is just a shy dude, that can't express himself when something bothers him. So like you, I guess ? Basically it boils down to this: if you're trying to prove a point to the OP about something you think is true, just shut up please. Oooh the burn! What makes for more interesting conversation, consoling someone about a situation in life or discussing the rationale behind the actions of his roommate? @Epishade, no one is blaming you for anything what the guy did was unreasonable/crazy but in his head it had some rational if you want a resolution that is fair for both parties (getting the other guy arrested when/if he's suffering from mental health problems is not exactly fair or helpful to him) then you want to work out why this guy is acting this way it's not like it's first meeting the guy has changed. Contact his parents and get their help to resolve the issue. | ||
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Cynry
810 Posts
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JieXian
Malaysia4677 Posts
On March 05 2016 18:49 Cynry wrote: Like, really ? That's a heavily biased question, and again, a totally irrelevant one. Most of you that posted this kind of message seem to believe for sure that his roomie is just a shy dude, that can't express himself when something bothers him. So like you, I guess ? Basically it boils down to this: if you're trying to prove a point to the OP about something you think is true, just shut up please. That was the most objective thing anybody can say about the situation. I merely listed out possibilities. You didn't say how it's biased at all and instead deflected something completely irrelevant onto me like you're so indignant that we're attacking Epi or something. And, it's not that he might be shy or can't express himself. Either you didn't even understand the point or you just wrote badly. On March 06 2016 01:30 Cynry wrote: This is a blog, man, Epishade's. The purpose of blog posts is not always to start the most interesting conversations (about which I agree with you), it's for its owner to express himself. It's fine to turn it the way you want, because free speech etc, but it's definitely not the most sensitive/empathic way to go about it. Come on again, stop treating him like he's your baby who needs your protection. He's a grown man attending college. It's different for Epishade himself can tell me to shut up if he doesn't care, and I will out of respect. My post was to correct a misunderstanding that we were "out to get him". hahahaha | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32075 Posts
On March 05 2016 22:30 Linear wrote: Oooh the burn! What makes for more interesting conversation, consoling someone about a situation in life or discussing the rationale behind the actions of his roommate? @Epishade, no one is blaming you for anything what the guy did was unreasonable/crazy but in his head it had some rational if you want a resolution that is fair for both parties (getting the other guy arrested when/if he's suffering from mental health problems is not exactly fair or helpful to him) then you want to work out why this guy is acting this way it's not like it's first meeting the guy has changed. Contact his parents and get their help to resolve the issue. what the fuck is this bullshit | ||
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Linear
60 Posts
Which part is that directed at? Either way I'm getting the vibe you will vote trump, interpret that how you want. | ||
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Cynry
810 Posts
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