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bTheBestScrewTheRest
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SamuelGreen
Sweden292 Posts
Don't worry about it though, you just need practice. The most important part is to not get crushed by failure, but keep going. | ||
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bypLy
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NeThZOR
South Africa7387 Posts
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boxerfred
Germany8360 Posts
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HaRuHi
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rotta
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JimmyJRaynor
Canada16803 Posts
when you breathe as if you are relaxed.. u start to become relaxed. learn some relaxed breathing techniques.. and slow your whole system down.. when u r relaxed there is the potential to be smooth... it is a necessary but not sufficient condition.. more work may be required. for relaxed breathing and relaxation in general i recommend Eli Bay.... google him. you will find that when you get into a nice cushy relaxed state that background "mental chatter" either goes away completely or slows down... opening up some mental headspace to be witty, original and smooth. i've had my ex-gfs reach into my chest and rip my heart out more than once. as a result, nothing bothers me when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. here is some good advice as well...by the greatest comedian who has ever lived. | ||
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parkufarku
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Ty2
United States1434 Posts
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brickrd
United States4894 Posts
On September 08 2015 17:28 NeThZOR wrote: Attractive girls are nothing special, they are just lucky for having one of the best characteristics for getting guys to want them. Just practice and don't try too hard. i'm not sure "you're nothing special" is the correct attitude to take into trying to get to know someone of the desired sex lol | ||
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ninazerg
United States7291 Posts
On September 09 2015 20:15 brickrd wrote: i'm not sure "you're nothing special" is the correct attitude to take into trying to get to know someone of the desired sex lol It is the correct attitude. | ||
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NeThZOR
South Africa7387 Posts
Yeah... Because if you think the girl is a higher being and something not equal as yourself then you will be terrified | ||
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Fuchsteufelswild
Australia2028 Posts
That said, in my experiences, I have found that there is certainly not a negative correlation between looks and personality (probably no correlation, or if there's one, it's very very slightly positive). Relates to spitefulness as a result of insecurity. Liked the blog, agree with SamuelGreen. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32076 Posts
On September 09 2015 20:15 brickrd wrote: i'm not sure "you're nothing special" is the correct attitude to take into trying to get to know someone of the desired sex lol he means conditioning yourself to treat them like you would any other human you might speak with, rather than thinking with your dick, and trying to not fail at all costs. eventually you get to the point of 'eh their loss' rather than OH MY GOD I HATE MYSELF ILL DIE A VIRGIN. rejection sucks but everyone is better for it. | ||
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jubil
United States2602 Posts
The important thing is, if the relationship ever actually gets to that flirty or romantic side, I think then it's perfectly fine to let on that you care about them and what they think of you (not in a desperate or creepy way tho of course). If you try to play aloof or "hard to get" when she's already definitely interested in you, I think you're wasting your time and hers. (just my opinion, maybe some other girls/guys have different preferences) | ||
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hymn
Bulgaria832 Posts
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Shebuha
Canada1335 Posts
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quirinus
Croatia2489 Posts
just talk to all girls/women as often as you can and it'll improve if you can't talk to really attractive girls, talk to less attractive ones so you get the hang of it first or try just to talk to attractive girls without trying to flirt, just talk about stupid things. anything as mundane as what you/she is doing at that moment. get a good female friend or two, or at least some females you can hang around and talk to often it might be uncomfortable and scary at the start, but you'll get much more used to it very quickly. though I must warn you, if you get good at talking to girls, there's still some girls that will make you feel like that (but by then, you won't really consider that such a bad thing) | ||
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