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dravernor
Netherlands6181 Posts
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musai
Canada552 Posts
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
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Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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kushm4sta
United States8878 Posts
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SoSexy
Italy3725 Posts
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
On August 23 2014 22:34 Rekrul wrote: white trash drama yea. | ||
MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
Things were back to normal for a few weeks with us. 3? weeks ago she was on her rag, so we didn't bang for like the whole week, just some fooling around. Then 2 weekends ago I had to leave from our day date/hangout thing abruptly. We made plans to hang out later that night. We both sort of fucked up our plans and she was mad at me or something. Ignored my texts and calls for that night and most of the rest of the week. Was hanging out with my buddy (her neighbor) on Labor day and when we ended up back at his house I finally saw her and talked with her, I was a bit drunk and wasn't in the mood to argue so I just said "Sorry" when basically we both were in the wrong, and I didn't even bring up her being a bitch for flaking on me and ignoring me. I think taking this non confrontational apologetic route wasn't what she wanted or expected, and probably turned her off, especially since it's not my normal mode. Then she continued to ignore me after that for the rest of the week. She responds to a text, and then later sends me some text about her roller derby shit. We setup a date for the Friday, we go eat, decide not to see the movie and go to the bar, she was acting strangely the whole night. Making odd sabotage/nitpicky comments which I didn't respond to properly for gaming/handling it like a confident guy. At the bar she was unenthusiastic and boring, I was getting tired early (was like 11p), I tell her we should go, and she doesn't want me to stay over. I respond like a 'beta' and try to play it off with shitty jokes. I take her home, we kiss pretty long, she mentions some sexual pet name intimate thing, and says she just wants to sleep alone tonight and I should come over tomorrow night after my artwalk event. I go home and text/call her the next night and get no responses. I cut my losses and chalk it up to a learning experience even though I want to call her on her bullshit, point out all her flaws, harass her for not being an adult by not formally communicating and end to this fling/budding relationship, and get some closure. think today or yesterday she unfriended me on facebook too. All I can do is hit the gym, and try to take my focus away from her by doing other things. Sucks, but I think I knew this wouldn't work out long term anyway, even though she seemed/was super into me for most of the time and abruptly just isn't now. I think it was kind of like that chick thing where you aren't really attracted to the person as much as the attention that they give you which you are attracted to. There was a lot of shit that just wasn't compatible but I mostly just kept quiet about it (because that seems to be the trend with most/all girls I've dated). Probably the worst thing I can do is desperately go after her attention. The best I can hope for is just let her get lonely and call me for a booty call one night or even just miss me enough to apologize. I'm gonna wager that whoever she is fucking/chasing after now won't work out and I'll be getting a text in about a month or so. Or maybe I will send one off one of these in a few months: ![]() In the meantime, the chick I was sort of seeing from OKC before this, still wanted to hang out even though I told her some bullshit about not wanting a relationship, and I've recently started texting with her again. She seemed pretty interested in me while we were dating. I know this probably seems like karma or I'm an asshole, but really I'm just trying to get all this shit out of my system now so it doesn't nag at me later in life if/when I have a long term/wife/family because that is not something anyone wants or deserves, and everyone should play the field a long time before they decide to settle down imho. | ||
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Czech Republic434 Posts
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MetaKnight
Canada9 Posts
btw, i love tall girls...i would do anything for a girlfriend who is 5'10... | ||
MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
On September 10 2014 08:11 MetaKnight wrote: fantastic story btw, i love tall girls...i would do anything for a girlfriend who is 5'10... How tall are you? If you go on reddit there are many SR dedicated to height /r/tall /r/tallmeettall /r/short etc. I also see often enough that tall chicks prefer taller guys, or sometimes only shorter guys too. Also dating sites | ||
MetaKnight
Canada9 Posts
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
On September 10 2014 05:54 3772 wrote: Fuck, my time. It's gone. (: On September 11 2014 07:42 MetaKnight wrote: I am 5'7 on a good day... I've seen some chicks who dig shorties, but overall when I read /r/short it sounds a lot like feminism forums where they just complain about being oppressed. Good luck | ||
Bereft
United States1007 Posts
On August 18 2014 23:26 Pandemona wrote: Like Lichter said (minus shauni part....) you're by far the best guy writing blogs i have read. Thoroughly entertaining read. Pretty much sums up what i think every American life is like and i don't even know why! Your life seems like it could work out pretty well as a sitcom btw ![]() this cracked me up. | ||
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