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Fumanchu
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Canada669 Posts
December 21 2013 16:58 GMT
#1
Sorry, I've been watching a lot of Teen Girl Squad lately.

In July, I made a blog depicting my foolish actions of inviting a girl I really didn't know that well, to move in with me. I also promised updates, which never happened. I initially did write down some stuff, but after reviewing it, it always seemed like a brag or whine blog. And really, while most of the stories were either kind of funny (like the time I purposefully squirted ketchup into her hair as a joke), or kind of troublesome (like a huge fight we had over where she gets to park her car, don't even fucking ask, it pisses me off so much just thinking of how stupid that was. I mean who gives a fuck where you have to park,and it wasn't even the winter so what the fuck is wrong with parking in front of the building? GRRRR, WHY ARE YOU YELLING AT ME???), I felt there was no real point in sharing those stories.

I mean, there are a ton of people here who's opinions I respect a lot, but if any of you were to die, I might spend a couple minutes to reflect on the fact that you're dead. Maybe. I understand some of you have much stronger bonds, but I personally don't have that with anyone here.

And without that connection, I felt like I would be wasting precious blog space. I knew, or at least I thought I knew, the correct way to handle those situations and so I never needed advice.

Anyway fast forward to today. The short of it is, we broke up. We broke up about a month ago. I wrote a much longer piece going into more details, but it's all just rationalizing fluff. I could spend a couple of days analyzing where things went sour with you guys, but really I'm just not in the mood.

That's really all there is to say. It sucks, but I'm not completely heartbroken. I think we both saw it coming a while ago, so it wasn't a sudden shock to either of us. My lease is up in May, so I have about four months that we're going to live together still. It's going to be rough, but it won't be anything I can't handle. I hope.

I'm going to start playing so much Dota 2...



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Easy doesnt fit into grownup life.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32075 Posts
December 21 2013 18:02 GMT
#2
Living together til May is playing with fire big time. if you think shit was stressful while dating, wait until one of you brings home someone else. Or you have drunken regretful sex

i'd talk to your landlord asap
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TheIlluminated
Profile Joined August 2010
Norway35 Posts
December 21 2013 18:09 GMT
#3
I suggest that if you're going to live there, make an agreement with each other about taking home people. Unresolved feelings and all that can make it a real hell these vulnerable times. If you can both uphold that it might be not be the worst.
Work Hard, Play Hard
Talin
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Montenegro10532 Posts
December 21 2013 21:02 GMT
#4
Just on time to get in on the ranked matchmaking too.
Stratos
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Czech Republic6104 Posts
December 21 2013 21:48 GMT
#5
On December 22 2013 03:02 QuanticHawk wrote:
Or you have drunken regretful sex

She cried and I liked it.
En Taro Violet
Jerubaal
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
United States7684 Posts
December 22 2013 01:49 GMT
#6
On December 22 2013 06:48 Stratos wrote:
Show nested quote +
On December 22 2013 03:02 QuanticHawk wrote:
Or you have drunken regretful sex

She cried and I liked it.


During the break up or the sex?
I'm not stupid, a marauder just shot my brain.
HCastorp
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States388 Posts
December 23 2013 05:24 GMT
#7
I faced a similar dilemma recently, but we would have had to live together for even longer, 8 months, until our lease ended. I decided it would be better to work something out with our landlord and move out. Thankfully the landlord was relatively accommodating, and after a very stressful search we were both able to find pretty good places to live. The move was a huge pain in the ass at the time, but looking back, well worth it.

I'd talk to your landlord, and your ex, and see if you can work something out. May isn't all that far away but if you know you are moving on you are better off getting started now if it doesn't involve massive financial sacrifices, and possibly even if it does.
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