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CA10824 Posts
you are a dumb teenager. end of story.
when i was 16 i thought similarly, although without the yelling at my parents for 10 minutes part. now that i'm 25 i see my parents were right, and i was dumb. you will have a similar epiphany within the next 10 years or so. you will look back at your temper tantrums and realize just exactly how immature and foolish you are being right now.
and if you're in denial about what i said, that merely furthers my point.
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Sucks that your parents just won't let you do any of that at all, but yeah, whiny teenager basically. You'll be fine. They only want what's good for you.
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You're a moron.. a lot of us grew up without parents or in broken homes.. I despise entitled brats like you.
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United States22883 Posts
Meh, I think people are forgetting it's the OP's life and it's now or never, he's not going to live forever. He just wants to live while he's alive.
Quite frankly, I was the same before. My heart was like an open highway, and like FrankerZ said I did it my way. I think you better stand tall when they're calling you out. Don't bend, don't break and don't back down.
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United States22883 Posts
Or just listen to everyone else. That might be better. You've got to hold on to what you got, ready or not.
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If have like a 4.0 and you're involved with sports, I don't see why it matters so much what you do with your free time. It's weird that you're parents are so draconian with the computer but they don't sound like bad people by any means.
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They are using the opportunity to study abroad as some kind of 'punishment?'
best parents ever
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On May 03 2013 16:25 Jibba wrote: Meh, I think people are forgetting it's the OP's life and it's now or never, he's not going to live forever. He just wants to live while he's alive.
Quite frankly, I was the same before. My heart was like an open highway, and like FrankerZ said I did it my way. I think you better stand tall when they're calling you out. Don't bend, don't break and don't back down.
A lot of TLers are probably too young to get this.
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United States10328 Posts
On May 03 2013 16:25 Jibba wrote: Meh, I think people are forgetting it's the OP's life and it's now or never, he's not going to live forever. He just wants to live while he's alive.
Quite frankly, I was the same before. My heart was like an open highway, and like FrankerZ said I did it my way. I think you better stand tall when they're calling you out. Don't bend, don't break and don't back down.
lol jibba beast mode
@OP: calm down. Yes I know video games are fun, but your parents aren't anywhere close to "the worst in the world." Try finding another hobby which doesn't involve staring at a computer all day. Alternatively, if you're so good at math, try learning some higher math.
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Someone needs a good spanking.
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Thanks a lot for all the replies. While i agree with a lot of you i still think that some of you are getting the wrong picture. For example those saying that i am spoiled: Considering i live in Switzerland, which is a very wealthy country, i'd say im the exact opposite of spoiled. I am in the minority that doesn't have a smart phone or a computer. My grade average is above most kids in my school and one guy said something about higher mathematics: Currentlly im writing my maturity paper about complex numbers, quaternions and their relation to rotation of objects in space, so i fullfil my time with many different things.
@jibba. Awesome post. Made me chuckle although i dont listen to that much bon jovi.
To those saying that i should reason with my parents and discuss the matter. In this case it's: our way or the high way which basically means "no" to everything i say. There's no reasoning involved. I asked them many times to go to a counselor or psychologist so i could prove them wrong and every time they just brushed it off so i never got the chance to see what a doctor would say.
Also my parents are people that like authority as you might've notice. My mum is a teacher of chemistry in a gymnasium and my dad used to be a very high manager at HILTI in Liechtenstein so i guess that explains their philosophy.
Thanks for the posts i read through all of them and i'd be glad if you keep on posting
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Did you try writing them a poem ?
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since she cant take my mental torture anymore (actual words lol) Lies.
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his parents are being arbitrary dicks to him
but he gotta understand its because they want the best for him
and anyway didnt he say that he's gonna be sent abroad for school
problem solved, play all the sc2 you want at school abroad
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On May 02 2013 22:44 onewaystyx wrote:Show nested quote +On May 02 2013 22:40 Daumen wrote: Sometimes Parents that are very demanding and pushing you to study pretty good, maybe youll see that later but I can definetely see your problem. No idea what you can do except wait until you are 18 and live on your own from then on out.
Edit to the people above me: Ye, "worst parents" is not adequate here at all, but hes 16, your allowed to be stupid at 16. For 16 im actually really really smart as well as grown up. I gotta cook a lot for myself and my younger sister since my parents work all the time also i gotta clean a lot of the house myself on saturdays. And im not stupid  IQ over 140 and currently writing my maturity paper (dont know what that is in english :p) about mathematics :D probably gonna study it as well  Cleaning the house, yeah !! XD
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All this "worst parents ever" blogs are somewhat getting to me. In a world where families are absolutely broken, have alcoholic, drug-abusing, violent and constantly law-breaking parents, some people have the nerve to claim that having their Internet and gaming privileges qualifies them for having bad parents. Face it, your parents are legally bound to care for you until you are 18, and provide the electricity, computer and all your necessities, and yet you complain about, "My parents still refuse to let me play any video games". Don't know about you, but think it over, and contemplate about how a parent should function, and in their position, how you should be helping the mental and physical welfare of their own child.
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@phoenixvoid
For the 50th time i live in Switzerland. Y having parents that are alcoholics and beat you sucks but realisticaly seen my parents are "bad" parents for where i live.
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On May 05 2013 02:17 onewaystyx wrote: @phoenixvoid
For the 50th time i live in Switzerland. Y having parents that are alcoholics and beat you sucks but realisticaly seen my parents are "bad" parents for where i live. Really I can understand why you are frustrated and angry because they don't keep their words and I can guess that it is not really possible for you to try to explain things to them from your point of view because they probably don't even listen but saying they are bad parents just for that... Maybe we can trade mine for yours ? I even give you all the money I have in the bank.. no kidding.
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Some of you seem to forget that just because OP is younger than 18, that doesn't mean his parents get to control every aspect of his life. He's a person too.
It sounds like he was physically assaulted by his father, and he is suffering emotional abuse as well. The former is illegal in the USA.
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