EPTOn March 15 2013 10:40 goofyballer wrote:
Don't dive in head first when you meet a girl you like. It took me awhile to learn this, after spending way too much time in college obsessing over what the particular girl I was into at the time was doing and trying to figure out her build order (are starcraft/girl analogies frowned on here? lolz), but girls can tell when you're way too into them relative to how long you've known them and unless they're head over heels crazy about you too, that's a major turn-off. Think of times in your life when a girl's been allllllll about you super fast and you were kinda like "leeet's take a step back, this is weirding me out a bit." Keep trying to meet other girls, don't make your whole life about this one and spend a bunch of time being sad about it until you know her well enough to know she's worth it.
Also, seems like lots of guys here need to ease up on the misogyny:
Chill out brosephs, women aren't as evil as you think they are :/
Don't dive in head first when you meet a girl you like. It took me awhile to learn this, after spending way too much time in college obsessing over what the particular girl I was into at the time was doing and trying to figure out her build order (are starcraft/girl analogies frowned on here? lolz), but girls can tell when you're way too into them relative to how long you've known them and unless they're head over heels crazy about you too, that's a major turn-off. Think of times in your life when a girl's been allllllll about you super fast and you were kinda like "leeet's take a step back, this is weirding me out a bit." Keep trying to meet other girls, don't make your whole life about this one and spend a bunch of time being sad about it until you know her well enough to know she's worth it.
Also, seems like lots of guys here need to ease up on the misogyny:
Chill out brosephs, women aren't as evil as you think they are :/
First - Assuming that a whore is evil was your assumption.
Second - I'm not saying women are evil. I don't believe in genderalizaitions (I just made that up... generalizations about gender!), and therefore, I'm not saying that everyone woman is a whore, or even that whore is a bad thing
Third - your piece of advice is actually spot on. I've been trying to explain to people for the past 6 months that if you put yourself in the friendzone first, then get to know her, the right girl is going to see that, and want you for all the right reasons. A majority of girl problems to me seems to be that people fall head over heels for someone they barely know. In fact, some guys that do this eventually end up being placed in the friend zone permanently afterward.
Girls aren't always whores. Whores aren't always evil, and women who actually want a lasting relationship will date the guys who are good friends first, and a better lover later.
