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niteReloaded
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Croatia5281 Posts
February 05 2013 19:19 GMT
#21
On February 06 2013 01:35 Sauwelios wrote:
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I would like you to drop the theoretic talk now, and simply answer, why do you do the stuff you do in your everyday life?

Maybe you will answer to have money. Why do you want to have money? To buy things? To have freedom? To provide for your children? Yes, all of those. But if those are your wishes (I just put some examples, yours may be different), they still all go back to feeling good. It FEELS right to take care of your kids, you would easily get physical sensations of pain if you watch your kids cry of hunger for example. All the time you follow your 'inner guidance system' which is basically your emotions.
Enduring temporary setbacks to follow your dream for example is also doing the same thing I'm saying, because giving up on a dream would feel TERRIBLE and just horribly wrong, much worse than this setback feels.
But sometimes we irrationally act on desires that we know will lead to disappointment or frustration, or sometimes doing the right thing doesn't feel good at all. This means that there can be a plurality of values that we might be motivated by, pleasure being just one of them (and not necessarily the best one). Seriously, look up psychological hedonism!

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Are you sure you can truly feel good as an abused slave or a drug addict? If the abused slave feels really good and ok, and not wanting to change anything, I doubt he's truly abused. A drug addict rarely feels truly good, he feels small reliefs, but in the moments of 'cleanness', he feels terrible about what he's doing, but he doesn't know or it feels to hard to make a real shift, so he numbs himself down.
What if he is very rich and has unlimited access to the drug and really likes taking the drug, spending his entire life doing it? Is this a good life? He surely feels really damn good being on a constant high! And yet he's chained to the drug. I doubt anyone would consider that to be a good life. The point is to show that pleasure is not sufficient for a good life.

Ok, I will read on it more to see how I feel about the whole thing.

About the drug addict, I would argue that it's the experience he needs to go thru. If he finds it fullfilling for his whole life, then it's the right thing to do for him. I wanna point out that none of us can determine what is 'good' for someone to experience, or what someone is supposed to live like. Many people strive for a 9-5 job, a family, kids and a nice car, and it's like a default version of a 'good life'. Personally (just to point out at least 1 exception) I find it boring, and I find the life so many are living a waste of opportunity.

I have started accepting re-incarnation as something that really makes sense in the last few years, and that drug addict may need to experience one lifetime like that, so then before the 'next round', he may consider, and decide if he wants to experience something new in it. But now I'm probably getting too 'alternative' and abstract for this forum.



@Barrin
I'm too tired to respond to the content of your post, I may do it later, but about the 'you helping me': It's true. One of the reasons I started this topic was because I want to put myself 'out there' more these days. I've been too reserved for most of my life, and this is actually the first time I've spoke this openly and extensively about my interests on TL, and I've been here since 2006 (if you count the banned accounts :p )

On February 06 2013 02:09 obesechicken13 wrote:
Let's do a skype chat random stranger.

edit: added random stranger

my mood changed. I have some of my own things on my mind now... but maybe I'm chickening out? ^^
All I know is that this is interesting to me, and we could easily talk, either today or tommorow or one of these days.

It would help if you have something to talk about, and not just chat for fun with a TLer?
I'm not for small talk and socialisation just for the sake of it.

I'll PM some more.
MasterOfPuppets
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Romania6942 Posts
February 05 2013 19:32 GMT
#22
BTW forgot to say, this is a cool idea and I hope it helps you and other people. Might try it at some point just for the hell of it although recently I've been preferring text over voice chat. =/
"my shaft scares me too" - strenx 2014
niteReloaded
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
Croatia5281 Posts
February 05 2013 19:51 GMT
#23
Hm, I think I wanna do it now again, if someone wants. One part of me is 'afraid', but fuckit, it can only be good and liberating.
Butterednuts
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States859 Posts
February 05 2013 20:35 GMT
#24
Why does this thread feel like the Jesus Loves Me Chatline?
Chameleons Cast No Shadows
matiK23
Profile Joined May 2011
United States963 Posts
February 05 2013 23:39 GMT
#25
Life is suffering. There is no such thing as a carefree easy going life. If you are a depressed person who attains "enlightenment" you are still depressed afterwards. The change is that "I" does not identify with the depression.
Without a paddle up shit creek.
Swede
Profile Joined June 2010
New Zealand853 Posts
February 06 2013 03:35 GMT
#26
On February 06 2013 01:35 Sauwelios wrote:
Show nested quote +
I would like you to drop the theoretic talk now, and simply answer, why do you do the stuff you do in your everyday life?

Maybe you will answer to have money. Why do you want to have money? To buy things? To have freedom? To provide for your children? Yes, all of those. But if those are your wishes (I just put some examples, yours may be different), they still all go back to feeling good. It FEELS right to take care of your kids, you would easily get physical sensations of pain if you watch your kids cry of hunger for example. All the time you follow your 'inner guidance system' which is basically your emotions.
Enduring temporary setbacks to follow your dream for example is also doing the same thing I'm saying, because giving up on a dream would feel TERRIBLE and just horribly wrong, much worse than this setback feels.
But sometimes we irrationally act on desires that we know will lead to disappointment or frustration, or sometimes doing the right thing doesn't feel good at all. This means that there can be a plurality of values that we might be motivated by, pleasure being just one of them (and not necessarily the best one). Seriously, look up psychological hedonism!

Show nested quote +
Are you sure you can truly feel good as an abused slave or a drug addict? If the abused slave feels really good and ok, and not wanting to change anything, I doubt he's truly abused. A drug addict rarely feels truly good, he feels small reliefs, but in the moments of 'cleanness', he feels terrible about what he's doing, but he doesn't know or it feels to hard to make a real shift, so he numbs himself down.
What if he is very rich and has unlimited access to the drug and really likes taking the drug, spending his entire life doing it? Is this a good life? He surely feels really damn good being on a constant high! And yet he's chained to the drug. I doubt anyone would consider that to be a good life. The point is to show that pleasure is not sufficient for a good life.


What other values might we be motivated by, and how can they not be reduced to just 'pleasure' or 'avoiding pain'?
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