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Hi guys,
Thought it had been a while so I thought I should share what’s been up (I like to write these things in times of boredom at work). I had a few blogs about breaking up with my girlfriend, going out and trying to bang girls ect.
I slowly got over that phase in the way that I guess I finally dealt with the fact I was over her and am happier alone. So that made it easier to not be a complete toss and start actually talking to girls again. It’s been a fair while since we broke up and I still go to gym (down from 95.7kg to 84.1kg), finally getting back to not being a fat bastard which is great.
I started to mellow out and focus on friends, family and myself. I met two girls I’ve been going on dates with for a few weeks now, which is pretty rad. I kind of wanted to blog just to tell the story of the date with this girl and ask some questions.
First off I just want to say, I am really not looking for a relationship at this point because I want to be my own person, do my own things and not have to feel emotionally attached to someone. To both of these girls I kind of just said, I’m having fun and not really looking for anything.
They were both cool with it, I mean our dates have been innocent just kissing and crap. I mean I’d be up to slam but other then that I haven’t really tried or been tempted to just because I like how uncomplicated things are at the moment.
So back to my story, we can ignore one of the girls so forget she was mentioned. Although I wanted to know if it was bad I was taking two different girls on dates? I don’t think it is but I wouldn’t mind being judged.
ANYWAYS, I met this girl a while back and on impulse just “sup’d” her on facebook. Before long we were texting and on the weekend I went to a small party for a friend. I wasn’t drinking so I could leave this party because it was a schlong fest and I wasn’t good enough friends with this guy to stick around.
I texted the girl asked her if she was up to hang out and she was a bit like “nah” but then decided to. I took her to the beach. I told her that, I wasn’t going to fight hobo’s for her because I have the strength of a small child and she accepted that.
We hit the beach (got lost because I thought I was to smart for the GPS) and chilled on the beach talking/walking along the beach for a few hours (was about 11:30pm), she was really into zombies, like I mean REALLY. She was massively into horror movies, loved Resident Evil, Call of Duty only for zombies ect. So we walked on the beach for a few hours and this is basically the thing that made me “awww”.
As we walked she said “This is like a movie” and I said “Well you won’t be saying that when the homeless come” (idk why im obsessed with homeless people). She then said “This may be weird to ask…… but can I hold your hand”. That was probably the cutest thing a girls said to me, I guess I was more happy about it because shes a real cutie and even though I was having fun I wasn’t exactly sure if it was more friendly then anything.
I just told her she was cute and of course she could and that it’s the cutest thing she asked. She told she was scared to ask because she didn’t know if I friendzoned her (I was like WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT). We kept walking on the beach it was about 3AM and we kept talking about zombies, games and watched the fish swim on the jetty. At 4 I was like I better take you home and shes like I don’t want to its been the best date. Apparently some guy called DOOF DOOF took her on a date a few months ago to the beach and it was shit, I asked if he was mentally retarded and she said no everyone called him that because its food backwards and he’s chubby. I felt kind of bad after that, but still what a gay name thought he was some dude with good speakers in his car or something? DJ DoofDoof?
Other then that I dropped her home and we kissed (I’m a total faggot I used the line she used on me but with a kiss) and went home excited like a little school girl. But this is what I have to ask, even though it was a pretty sick date, I mean.. I don’t want to date.. Should I just stop or should I hang out with her and see where it leads, I actually like her a little but I mean.. =( ?
Shes a virgin so that will keep things uncomplicated because she may or may not be ready and I’m not pushing to bang so it keeps things from turning into “that guy just banged me and didn’t want me and then I have DOOFDOOF or someone being gay.
I just don’t want to really like this girl because as soon as you do, everything goes to shit.
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I dunno about girls, but I'm pretty sure that "Doof Doof" may be the best/worst thing to ever happen to naming conventions.
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Sloppy Hand Jibber Seconds from DJ Doof Doof comin right up. On a more serious note, just date the girl, why not?
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So back to my story, we can ignore one of the girls so forget she was mentioned. Although I wanted to know if it was bad I was taking two different girls on dates? I don’t think it is but I wouldn’t mind being judged.
Shouldn't be dating two girls at once. Kind of a dick move, but it probably depends on the person if you stated that you don't want a relationship. I mean would you tell the girl your dating that your going out with another girl?
Other then that I dropped her home and we kissed (I’m a total faggot I used the line she used on me but with a kiss) and went home excited like a little school girl. But this is what I have to ask, even though it was a pretty sick date, I mean.. I don’t want to date.. Should I just stop or should I hang out with her and see where it leads, I actually like her a little but I mean..
Actually that was a pretty smooth move with the kiss. I mean it worked right  . My gut feeling is that you shouldn't stop hanging out, but see were it goes. I think if you really start to like her then go for it, however I bet if you asked her out tomorrow she would say yes.
How long has it been since your break up in the first paragraph?
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You've gotta risk it for the biscuit. If you enjoy her company that way, date her, if not, don't.
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On October 03 2012 14:48 Cyber_Cheese wrote:
You've gotta risk it for the biscuit. If you enjoy her company that way, date her, if not, don't.
I could really go for some biscuits right now. Especially KFC's biscuits. Those things may be pure concentrated heart attacks, but they're pretty delicious. Mmmmmm... biscuits.
And is it just me, or has there been a surge of girl blogs recently? I'm always seeing one in the newest 8 blogs listed on the sidebar.
Anyways, you should just be very honest and up-front about your thoughts and intentions. It's best to avoid any complications despite libidos screaming otherwise.
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On October 03 2012 15:01 eviltomahawk wrote:Show nested quote +On October 03 2012 14:48 Cyber_Cheese wrote:
You've gotta risk it for the biscuit. If you enjoy her company that way, date her, if not, don't. I could really go for some biscuits right now. Especially KFC's biscuits. Those things may be pure concentrated heart attacks, but they're pretty delicious. Mmmmmm... biscuits.
And is it just me, or has there been a surge of girl blogs recently? I'm always seeing one in the newest 8 blogs listed on the sidebar.Anyways, you should just be very honest and up-front about your thoughts and intentions. It's best to avoid any complications despite libidos screaming otherwise.
Yeah, seriously. Back in the day it was like a monthly deal where finally a hilarious girl blog would pop up and baller would destroy OP's hopes and dreams.
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find out how much u like her i guess
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See where it goes 100%, you don't want a relationship because you've been hurt in the previous one, and that's not the mindset you want. And eriously, where do you guys find girls who like starcraft/zombies/ other cool geek stuff :p
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On October 03 2012 18:26 Arcanefrost wrote:
See where it goes 100%, you don't want a relationship because you've been hurt in the previous one, and that's not the mindset you want. And eriously, where do you guys find girls who like starcraft/zombies/ other cool geek stuff :p
IRL i guess...
@OP --DOofDoof~ too funny. i can't decide what is the funniest use of doofdoof thus far. its between "sloppy seconds handjibber" and "guy with good sound ssytem" (doof doof doof doof ddun dun doof dun dun doof)
"Do I have to be exclusive or tell this person that we're not exclusive?" No, probably not. Ask yourself if you would be hurt if she was to give doofdoof a handjibber (lol). If you would be jealous, it means you are kind of treating her like an exclusive girl.
ah fuck i don't knwo the answer man. Just remember that i'm in my pajamas eating reese puffs and i'd like a girl to take to the beach and talk abt zombays
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DOOF DOOF LOL
Shit that's pretty sick. Sure people named him that to make fun of his tubby tubs but it sounds pretty gangster, sup ma bro DOOF?
Okay anyway for the girl - you seem like you had a good time too but you don't want to date her because the formality of it would make things complicated? Have you watched the movie "Friends with Benefits" with Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake? Yeah. It might start off as friendship because one or both of the people involved are not comfortable making things all formal and official. You know, friendship, no pressure and no need to make things cheesy, all comfortable and chill... then you realize something deep down and that's love! =D
I watched that movie because it was already on in one of the TV's in the gym and nobody was turning the channel so I kinda thought meh might as well watch it all. Never felt softer during a workout. You should watch it.
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What's the thing you like most about being single? I saw the topic get frontpaged on reddit and the top comment was sleep diagonally on a king sized bed.
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On October 03 2012 23:45 OpticalShot wrote:
DOOF DOOF LOL
Shit that's pretty sick. Sure people named him that to make fun of his tubby tubs but it sounds pretty gangster, sup ma bro DOOF?
Okay anyway for the girl - you seem like you had a good time too but you don't want to date her because the formality of it would make things complicated? Have you watched the movie "Friends with Benefits" with Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake? Yeah. It might start off as friendship because one or both of the people involved are not comfortable making things all formal and official. You know, friendship, no pressure and no need to make things cheesy, all comfortable and chill... then you realize something deep down and that's love! =D
I watched that movie because it was already on in one of the TV's in the gym and nobody was turning the channel so I kinda thought meh might as well watch it all. Never felt softer during a workout. You should watch it.
I saw the movie with my ex, its pretty fucking good bro  I will continue to hang and see whatsup I guess.
On October 04 2012 02:22 obesechicken13 wrote:
What's the thing you like most about being single? I saw the topic get frontpaged on reddit and the top comment was sleep diagonally on a king sized bed.
I guess I feel mostly scared Ill fall into the same rut I did with my ex. Get fat, do nothing and be controlled. I love doing whatever the hell I want whenever, having time to go to the gym 5 days a week and go to mountain parks and go bush walking ect. I love being able to just play Dota or SC2 for 6 hours straight. I love I can talk to any babes I want even if I fail its fine because I CAN do it. I love hanging out with all my mates whenever aswell. I dont know ObeseChicken I just dont know mannnnnnnnn
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Dude, it's 'etc' and not ect. On the first one, I thought it was a typo, then came the second one. Then the post above.
About seeing the girl besides another one, I think you don't quite have the same expectations. You better A) not see her again B) make sure she knows you don't want anything serious out of it
Or she might add you to a similar category where Mr. Doof Doof stands, in her point of view.
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