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My brother keeps having 2 dreams, for the last 7 weeks.
The first one is that girls kick him in the balls.
And whenever he does have that dream, it's always the same story line. He did something stupid (he doesn't even know what) and then, before he knows it, some girl or woman (usually someone he knows, like a friend, some girl in his class, his cousin, even his coworkers at his Subway job) "kicks him in the balls as hard as she can and he wakes up sweating like a pig, and he tries to scream by opening his mouth but no sound comes out." [HIS WORDS]
The second dream is...
His high school counselor always wears high heels and stockings, and he keeps thinking about smelling her feet, but he always gets caught and expelled.
His high school guidance counselor is a cute woman in her 30s, she is about 5'4 and maybe 130 pounds, so she isn't skinny but she isn't fat either, and she is a pretty good size, and she has dirty blonde hair and hazel eyes. Her cheeks and lips always look red like a rose. She always wears these flirty dresses and high heels with stockings, to show off her beautiful legs, feet, and toes. My brother keep wondering what it would be like to "smell and sniff and lick her feet and toes and pour expensive champagne on her creamy legs and lick it right up like caviar." [AGAIN HIS WORDS]
And then he always asks me if he's having a nightmare, or maybe something else...
Can a sexual dream ever be a nightmare?
In the first dream he's getting sexually assaulted due to girls exploiting his fetish and, in the second one, he is feeding his dirty perverted and impulsive desire to lick a woman's feet even at relatively high costs (so the thrill of the moment surpasses all the risks and fears, in fact the nervousness of possibly getting caught in the act amplifies his sexual energy).
I don't know what to tell my bro, he's only 15 so he shouldn't be having these thoughts.
He's too ashamed to tell my parents so he can't get psychiatric help or anything without their financial help, and of course he's a minor. He's never had a girlfriend (understandable) because he's so young, but I mean even me being 21 I've never had a girlfriend. He just seems so sexually frustrated and can't talk to anyone about it. He tries being fashionable and wears cologne when he goes to school or outside, and he has a little mustache creeping in already.
I don't know what to say, he's experiencing early puberty and there's so much pressure on him to succeed academically from my parents and of course peer pressure and bullying is a big part of high school life. I can tell he's constantly stressed and these dreams might just be outlets for his subconscious to explore these feelings and thoughts. He's also circumcised unlike me, because when I was born my parents didn't bother to circumcise me but they did to my bro. And he's upset sometimes that they did circumcise him. I don't feel comfortable talking about this with him.
He asked me last week why I didn't stop my parents. I said, I was young! He didn't believe it.
I know in a previous blog I said he was 14 but he literally just turned 15 like 2 weeks ago.
Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.
 
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Is it just me who doesn't see the problem?
He's 15, he's going through puberty, everyone has weird dreams and fetishes. I would just leave it alone, perhaps stress the fact that he should NOT pour alcohol on his counselor's legs and lick it up. Imagining things is perfectly fine, but make sure he understands that not all sexual fantasies can or should be realized.
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On September 26 2012 07:09 EffervescentAureola wrote:
I don't know what to tell my bro, he's only 15 so he shouldn't be having these thoughts.
Son, you obviously don't know shit about this. The age when I was at my horniest was fucking 12. And I'm not alone. To have sexual dreams when you're 15 is so vanilla it makes vanilla seem spicy.
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I really wonder whether you want to help your brother, or maybe you take some kind of pleasure sharing his secrets on a public forum? Nothing wrong with his dreams, but still think it's not your place to share them.
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You're being way too nosy. Stop.
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On September 26 2012 07:46 DRTnOOber wrote:
I really wonder whether you want to help your brother, or maybe you take some kind of pleasure sharing his secrets on a public forum? Nothing wrong with his dreams, but still think it's not your place to share them.
This.
Your brother is being normal. Tell him that. And stop sharing his dirty little secrets with the world. Maybe one day he'll join Team Liquid, hmm?
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1) Hook up with your brother's guidance counselor
2) Record it
3) Send it to him from an anonymous email account to help himself "manage his own tension"
Problem solved
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On September 26 2012 08:10 Shady Sands wrote:
1) Hook up with your brother's guidance counselor
2) Record it
3) Send it to him from an anonymous email account to help himself "manage his own tension"
Problem solved
That's Baller-level advice right there.
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Why the hell did you have to air your brothers tame dirty laundry out over tl? Kind of a dick move. That being said if you think you have to help him shady's advice is in fact baller level.
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On September 26 2012 07:46 DRTnOOber wrote:
I really wonder whether you want to help your brother, or maybe you take some kind of pleasure sharing his secrets on a public forum? Nothing wrong with his dreams, but still think it's not your place to share them.
+1
its normal. ive had dream sex before. everyone does. nothing serious.
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edit, i guess you have already figured this out: the subconscious of your bro is exploring those feelings that he restrains during his regular life.
Tell him they aren't nightmares but fantasies. Cmon you really think they are nightmares, your bro might because he's never experienced this before but you should know better that it's just puberty shifting into high gear.
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smell and sniff and lick her feet and toes and pour expensive champagne on her creamy legs and lick it right up like caviar.
I don't have a particular comment to this, just found it a highlight of the blog.
Well, this is really normal, and I'm sure your brother wouldn't appreciate knowing it was on the internet either. That said, I found pleasure in reading it.
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Just teach him ways to hide boners in class and leave him be.
(aka flex quads)
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On September 26 2012 08:44 marttorn wrote:
That said, I found pleasure in reading it.
You sick bastard. You must be going through early puberty.
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How is 15 early puberty?
I think for me, and probably most other males, it started at around 11-12.
Why is your brother blaming you for allowing him to get circumcised?
Why is that a problem?
Why do your blogs keep getting stranger and stranger?
Why am I reading all of your strange blogs?
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On September 26 2012 08:51 Archas wrote:Show nested quote +On September 26 2012 08:44 marttorn wrote:
That said, I found pleasure in reading it. You sick bastard. You must be going through early puberty.
It was the kind of pleasure only begotten by knowing the suffering of confused 15 year old boys.
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Just noticed
Can a sexual dream ever be a nightmare?
You can obviously dream that you're getting raped.
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Your brother is going through puberty and is just being very straightforward with the nature of his dreams lol. The getting kicked in the balls is unfortunate but unless you teach him to lucid dream or something, it will happen.
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A 15 year old having sexual thoughts is just wrong. I agree with the OP. ~Said no grown man ever
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Please tell me I'm not the only one that noticed his name?
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Must be a witch. Probably saw the future.
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I feel like this is what I had a while ago as a pubescent kid.... OH WAIT I STILL HAVE THESE AHHHH I'M CURSED AND DEFILED AND SHIZ! Your brother is fine, I promise. Also listen to Archas and Shady (baller level advice up in here  ).
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You write way too many strange blogs.
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On September 26 2012 12:24 Sovano wrote:
You write way too many shitty blogs.
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Why not just tell him that this shit is pretty normal?
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I laughed, I cried, I learned something about myself. 5/5.
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On September 26 2012 10:39 Xinder wrote:
Please tell me I'm not the only one that noticed his name?
Ha, I assure you that was completely unintentional and bizarrely coincidental.
Whatever you do, don't search either "Effervescent" or "Aureola" on Urban Dictionary, lol...
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On September 26 2012 08:14 AnachronisticAnarchy wrote:Show nested quote +On September 26 2012 08:10 Shady Sands wrote:
1) Hook up with your brother's guidance counselor
2) Record it
3) Send it to him from an anonymous email account to help himself "manage his own tension"
Problem solved That's Baller-level advice right there.
Now all we need is an insane-gosu analogy O.O
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On September 26 2012 09:27 vOdToasT wrote:Just noticed You can obviously dream that you're getting raped.
Are we talking dildo in my pooper, or super hot teacher makes me have sex with her or else she will fail me then I will have to go to summer school?
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I agree with most responces, it seems pretty normal and straight forward...
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well i think the quickest way to tell whether these are nightmares or not is to go hop into his bed and find out if his sheets are at all dry and crunchy. go do that op and report back with the findings
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On September 26 2012 14:58 Balgrog wrote:Show nested quote +On September 26 2012 09:27 vOdToasT wrote:Just noticed Can a sexual dream ever be a nightmare? You can obviously dream that you're getting raped. Are we talking dildo in my pooper, or super hot teacher makes me have sex with her or else she will fail me then I will have to go to summer school?
Both together
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On September 26 2012 22:17 QuanticHawk wrote:
well i think the quickest way to tell whether these are nightmares or not is to go hop into his bed and find out if his sheets are at all dry and crunchy. go do that op and report back with the findings
I second this, also, if you really want to help him, you could always go 'help him'. Just some brotherly love to release some tension.
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Way too descriptive to be real guys... and "brother"..? If it was real it would be about himself.
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On September 27 2012 00:54 Juliette wrote:Show nested quote +On September 26 2012 14:58 Balgrog wrote:On September 26 2012 09:27 vOdToasT wrote:Just noticed Can a sexual dream ever be a nightmare? You can obviously dream that you're getting raped. Are we talking dildo in my pooper, or super hot teacher makes me have sex with her or else she will fail me then I will have to go to summer school? Both together
That is NOT ok... lol
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I have my Freud dream book, let me go check.
Aah, I see, page 23.
He wants to fuck his mother and kill his father.
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On September 27 2012 02:59 zalz wrote:
I have my Freud dream book, let me go check.
Aah, I see, page 23.
He wants to fuck his mother and kill his father.
that's the outcome of most freud dreams analysis though!
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On September 27 2012 03:32 QuanticHawk wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2012 02:59 zalz wrote:
I have my Freud dream book, let me go check.
Aah, I see, page 23.
He wants to fuck his mother and kill his father. that's the outcome of most freud dreams analysis though!
That's the joke.
I find it quite disturbing that you and your little brother talk about your sexual fantasies and dicks, btw.
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On September 27 2012 03:41 kafkaesque wrote:Show nested quote +On September 27 2012 03:32 QuanticHawk wrote:On September 27 2012 02:59 zalz wrote:
I have my Freud dream book, let me go check.
Aah, I see, page 23.
He wants to fuck his mother and kill his father. that's the outcome of most freud dreams analysis though! That's the joke. I find it quite disturbing that you and your little brother talk about your sexual fantasies and dicks, btw.
They seem to have a very intimate relationship together.
If they're nightmares, tell your brother that everyone has thoughts they'd rather not share and it's perfectly normal. Can't say I've felt anything remotely close to those two things but everyone has something or other.
Or next time he wakes up in a cold sweat he should masturbate, get all his mojo out, and then hit the hay and have some normal dreams.
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He's 15... He absolutely should be having these thoughts.
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