EPTUgh... fucking girls man. why are some of them so terrible. I don't want to let this turn me into an asshole, but jesus christ, it's gonna be hard being real with someone new anytime soon.
Girlfriend broke up with me (rage blog)
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
Ugh... fucking girls man. why are some of them so terrible. I don't want to let this turn me into an asshole, but jesus christ, it's gonna be hard being real with someone new anytime soon. | ||
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14fighter
United States226 Posts
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blabber
United States4448 Posts
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IMHope
Korea (South)1241 Posts
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
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Apom
France656 Posts
On April 23 2012 05:36 iamahydralisk wrote: Yes you should have. Now that that's out of the way, is there anything to discuss ?I should've listened to everyone who told me "once a cheater, always a cheater." | ||
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Shinobi1982
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Tufas
Austria2259 Posts
Works for me.  For extra points, wrap a scarf around your head and dance. Sounds silly, looks silly, helps incredibly much. | ||
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Turo
Canada333 Posts
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Jinsho
United Kingdom3101 Posts
On April 23 2012 05:36 iamahydralisk wrote: I should've listened to everyone who told me "once a cheater, always a cheater." That's a loose guideline. People do change with time. But yes, I'd say that someone who cheats with you, will cheat on you. | ||
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DuckS
United States845 Posts
I can completely feel for you, and, relate to you. And, I can relate to you well enough, to know that you're not looking for the discretion and condolences of a bunch of people on an internet forum. Or, advice. Because, no matter how logical sounding, no matter how right me or the other responses can be, it doesn't matter. You're still in pain, and still will be in pain. Now, depending on the length of the relation/depth (mine, personally, had a lot of depth) of the relation, is for how long you'll be facing this. Time is the only answer. Fuck, it's been like 7 months since she broke it off and left me.. i'm still in pain. It's a terrible situation to be in. I mean, I can laugh and have a good time. But in those subtle moments of time when I have nothing to do but reflect, it's what surfaces. All the rights, wrongs, mistakes, and picturing her with him. It sucks. You can talk to me about it if you want. Feel free to pm me - rant, rage, cry, I don't care. | ||
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Knap4life
Slovenia333 Posts
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zimp
Hungary953 Posts
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deus.machinarum
Austria658 Posts
One thing I would really like to recommend to you: Try to get it out of your system ASAP; rage, cry, do whatever you feel like but make sure once you're done it doesn't haunt you anymore. (in case you're wondering: yeah that's what I managed to do wrong back when this happened to me *sadsad*) | ||
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ReketSomething
United States6012 Posts
On April 23 2012 05:56 iamahydralisk wrote: at least I still have dreamhack. and it was fucking awesome ^^ | ||
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dAPhREAk
Nauru12397 Posts
On April 09 2012 15:20 iamahydralisk wrote: and don't get her phone number. Had a super cute girl come into my workplace today. She was younger than me and it showed, but I still thought she was cute as fuck. Anyway, I didn't get her number because I got tied up with something else and she left... It was almost like slow-mo when she walked out the door. She looked back, right at me, and smiled, and I smiled back at her. About 3 seconds later, I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission. tl;dr, I wanted to hulk smash myself in the face | ||
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Incognoto
France10239 Posts
Don't think everyone is like that though, go see other girls. | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On April 23 2012 07:25 dAPhREAk wrote: this the same girlfriend you had when you were scoping out other girls? it is, but I don't see why that matters. the reason I didn't get that girl's number is because I valued my relationship far more. obviously my ex doesn't feel the same way, or else she wouldn't have banged two other dudes. | ||
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dAPhREAk
Nauru12397 Posts
On April 23 2012 07:40 iamahydralisk wrote: it is, but I don't see why that matters. the reason I didn't get that girl's number is because I valued my relationship far more. obviously my ex doesn't feel the same way, or else she wouldn't have banged two other dudes. thats not what you said in your blog: I wanted to run out the door and get her number, but I'd get written up if I ran out of the store without manager permission. | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On April 23 2012 07:43 dAPhREAk wrote: thats not what you said in your blog: of course I wanted the girl's number, but the reason I didn't get it is because I cared more about what I already had. like I said. | ||
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Jakkerr
Netherlands2549 Posts
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Cyber_Cheese
Australia3615 Posts
If you were taking time out to scope other ladies, perhaps it was a natural consequence that she'd lose interest in someone that wasn't fully interested in her. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States44812 Posts
On April 23 2012 06:34 Knap4life wrote: Bros before hoes. Trust your friends over girlfriends. Thors before whores. Stick with StarCraft Also, it's definitely hard to trust anyone who's known to be unfaithful in the past. Fidelity is the foundation of a successful relationship. It's gonna hurt for a while, but it's her loss, not yours | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On April 23 2012 07:44 iamahydralisk wrote: of course I wanted the girl's number, but the reason I didn't get it is because I cared more about what I already had. like I said. That's still not what you said in your other blog. I'm glad someone else pointed it out because I was about to link it. While the previous blog doesn't exactly paint the picture of you being the stellar, long distance boyfriend (as you mentioned in a different post - isn't the TL search function great?), I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you're not the cheating type. Actually, it's a shame that you never got that girl's number because your situation would at least earn you a pity date! Sorry about the breakup. If you haven't already, talk with close friends and start expelling the excess emotions. I'm sure there's a lot more rage than two paragraphs of blogs can convey. You're certainly entitled to tell your ex all that she's done to you, not to mention almost-certain ire of being dumped over text. If she won't hear you out then good riddance. Either way, pick yourself up and move on. | ||
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ClysmiC
United States2192 Posts
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infey
Canada64 Posts
2) Cheated on you 3) Broke up with you via text message 4) Problem solved | ||
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hoot00
United States77 Posts
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Bippzy
United States1466 Posts
On April 23 2012 06:15 Turo wrote: Every girl you lose is a learning experience. One day you will find a girl that has none of the traits you hate, and you will know she's the one. This. Also, tell us about the girl, how you met, if there were any signs. It makes for a good read and helps you put it into perspective. | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On April 23 2012 12:27 Bippzy wrote: This. Also, tell us about the girl, how you met, if there were any signs. It makes for a good read and helps you put it into perspective. There were definitely signs, but I didn't want to see them. I'm the type of person who doesn't give up easily, so I tried to make it work, even if it wasn't easy. | ||
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THE_DOMINATOR
United States309 Posts
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On April 23 2012 09:47 Servius_Fulvius wrote: That's still not what you said in your other blog. I'm glad someone else pointed it out because I was about to link it. While the previous blog doesn't exactly paint the picture of you being the stellar, long distance boyfriend (as you mentioned in a different post - isn't the TL search function great?), I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you're not the cheating type. Actually, it's a shame that you never got that girl's number because your situation would at least earn you a pity date! Sorry about the breakup. If you haven't already, talk with close friends and start expelling the excess emotions. I'm sure there's a lot more rage than two paragraphs of blogs can convey. You're certainly entitled to tell your ex all that she's done to you, not to mention almost-certain ire of being dumped over text. If she won't hear you out then good riddance. Either way, pick yourself up and move on. I'd never actually cheat on her. The reason that I was noticing other girls is because honestly, something in the relationship broke when my ex cheated the first time, and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't fix it for me. If it actually got to the point where there was another girl I wanted to be with, I'd just end it. | ||
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Caphe
Vietnam10817 Posts
Just get drunk with some friends and tomorrow is another brand new day! | ||
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Kalfar
England45 Posts
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TheWorldToCome
United States452 Posts
On April 23 2012 16:04 iamahydralisk wrote: I'd never actually cheat on her. The reason that I was noticing other girls is because honestly, something in the relationship broke when my ex cheated the first time, and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't fix it for me. If it actually got to the point where there was another girl I wanted to be with, I'd just end it. You didn't break up with her after she cheated on you the first time? Get some self respect man. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
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Zorkmid
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On April 23 2012 16:04 iamahydralisk wrote: I'd never actually cheat on her. The reason that I was noticing other girls is because honestly, something in the relationship broke when my ex cheated the first time, and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't fix it for me. If it actually got to the point where there was another girl I wanted to be with, I'd just end it. You know what waits until it has hold of something else before letting go? A sloth. | ||
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Syrupjuice
United States173 Posts
On April 23 2012 06:17 Jinsho wrote: That's a loose guideline. People do change with time. But yes, I'd say that someone who cheats with you, will cheat on you. Agreed, loose guideline it is. But, sometimes you gotta use your best judgement. But, for now, you just gotta keep on carrying on. Forgive, rest, heal, and move on to a better tomorrow. | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On April 23 2012 22:50 FractalsOnFire wrote: I thought you should've broken up with her ages ago. She seemed toxic. This is concert girl i assume? Same girl, yeah. From a logical standpoint, I know it wasn't the best relationship, but this still hurts like hell. We were together for about 8 months, so it's just... kinda shocking to be without her. | ||
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ninazerg
United States7291 Posts
It makes me sad that people hurt each other so much. That being said, I think a diss-rap song is in order for her. | ||
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OmniEulogy
Canada6592 Posts
sorry to hear that man | ||
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