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This seems.. really weird.. Relationship wise with your current girlfriend, you guys are both admitting to the relationship not being strong enough to stand the test of distance. Then you want to hop onto another girl as soon as possible to have another girl to hold onto. I feel kind of obligated to ask, are your relationship more of a physical one than emotional?
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Dude before you even make a move or anything just try to hang out with the German girl, its not cheating if you don't do anything. You are allowed to hang out with other girls lolol. Also just wondering how far are you and your girlfriend going to be from each other?
Edit: i like what the post above me said.
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you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....
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I'd find it hard to have a good time for the next 5 months with the girl that doesn't want you trying to get a job at the place she is moving to. Why doesn't she want you to? edit: post above me might explain it :D
"There is an unlikely/outside chance that I might get back together with the current girl further down the line." Again, why would you want to do that? Now school is more important, who knows what is more important the next time? As you are her first boyfriend, you should show her where to put the priority. But then, maybe you are fine with her being your number 1 priority and you not being her number 1 priority. But then, this might be a downward spiral, and now might be a good exit-point.
My advice: Try not to waver around, make things clear with your current girlfriend. Seeing that you are taking serious interest in another girl, this looks like splitting up is the way to go.
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On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....
I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.
She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?
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On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?
I agree with him.
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On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship?
i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?
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On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you?
How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?
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On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend?
i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward....
face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case....
before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?
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What I would do given your position is stay in the relationship, given that what you said is true and you really do love each other very much. Who knows, maybe something will come up that will allow you to stay together. And I'm assuming this is what you want most. In the case that nothing ends up happening between you and your girlfriend and the plan stays as is, you always have the opportunity to ask the German girl on a date then. You get the best of both worlds that way, imo. No need to be a player and get as many women as possible in the shortest amount of time. Take things slow, and enjoy the company of your partner while it lasts.
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On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?
I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know.
Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could).
You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.
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On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?
Yo, they already broke up, it's just not "official" yet. The german girl is his bounce, and that's perfectly normal. Stop slandering the dude and let him have some fun, eh? He's not scared of being rejected by Miss Freistaat Bayern, he's scared of being in a relationship other than with his gf of 2 years. It's a leap going from strong and steady to a new experience.
OP, go for it. Talk with your gf. Both of you need to know that your relationship isn't over in 5 months, it is over Yesterday. The instant you guys realized you wouldn't be together at some point and accepted the fact is the moment this ended. Else you would both try and make it work.
Your relationship is over. You're going to be getting a new gf in whatever place you go to in 5 months from now anyway....
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On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.
give me your address.
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On January 24 2012 07:27 PolskaGora wrote:
What I would do given your position is stay in the relationship, given that what you said is true and you really do love each other very much. Who knows, maybe something will come up that will allow you to stay together. And I'm assuming this is what you want most. In the case that nothing ends up happening between you and your girlfriend and the plan stays as is, you always have the opportunity to ask the German girl on a date then. You get the best of both worlds that way, imo. No need to be a player and get as many women as possible in the shortest amount of time. Take things slow, and enjoy the company of your partner while it lasts.
This is sort of where I'm at now. This is why I've stayed with her up until now. She has said several times that we couldn't be together after school, but I thought I might be able to change her mind, plus we just like being together here and now. A week ago, she was talking more like we'd be together, but now not so much.
And it is either her, or the german girl, not both. I'll be gone in about 5 months either way. The problem is it is hard to be with someone that I know won't be there in a few months. Would it be better "life experience" to be with another girl? I dunno. Right now I'm leaning towards sticking where I'm at, but it could get more awkward. That is why it is a tough decision.
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On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address.
lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars
stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work.
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On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.
rofl, you're a scumbag
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On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face.
He might come off the wrong way, but he does make valid points. Especially the last one:
before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me?
As much as you are tempted to break things off to go for your neighbor, I wouldn't if you have any ounce of hope you'll get back together with your current girlfriend.
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On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address.
Best girl blog ever.
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On January 24 2012 06:42 HardlyNever wrote:
I'm not gonna do the whole internet thing where the other girl is super-smoking-cream-your-pants hot,
This is my favourite bit by far.
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On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address.
Ok this is TL I know how to settle this, we don't fight. I declare a best of 5, winner takes all, loser walks away with nothing.
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I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
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On January 24 2012 07:48 samw wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. Ok this is TL I know how to settle this, we don't fight. I declare a best of 5, winner takes all, loser walks away with nothing.
does that mean, if i win, i get his current girlfriend, the german girl and my own fiancee?
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Your lust for your neighbor seems to illuminate your current relationship. You should ask yourself if you are still in your current relationship because you are committed to the girl or because it's comfortable and pleasurable for you to have her around. If the first, then ditching her seems a betrayal. If the second, then you probably should have separated a long time ago.
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This is definitely the most, 'unique' girl blog I've seen in a while. That being said, Chill definitely has the right advice, you gotta discern whether or not you want to/should break up with your gf or not, and leave the other girl out of the picture when making that decision.
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So basically, you're a manwhore and you want us to justify your actions for you. Nothing to see here, just someone trying to get what he wants by hurting others.
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On January 24 2012 07:51 Chill wrote:
I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
Chill got it right, to make the more rational decision you've got to forget about that chick. If you don't then your male instinct will take over your thoughts...
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Best advice is to make a decision quickly and commit to that decision that you made. Don't decide to stay with your current gf and then try to do something with the German woman and don't dump your gf then try for the German woman and if she rejects you try to go back to your current gf.
People wavering and not committing in these type of situations will just lead to messy end results.
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On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work.
lol.
well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me.
but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =(
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On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =(
Lol, what a troll.
Ok, you give me your address first, though.
OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!?
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On January 24 2012 08:23 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =( Lol, what a troll. Ok, you give me your address first, though. OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!?
i live in Seattle, Washington, at the intersection of N. 36th Street and the Aurora Bridge. Im directly under the north end of the Aurora Bridge.
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This is some of the funniest shit I have ever read
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What on earth TL?! Haha. Sorry OP, no advice from me here, just amazed at how this has all turned out.
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On January 24 2012 08:29 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 08:23 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
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I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either.
She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =( Lol, what a troll. Ok, you give me your address first, though. OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!? i live in Seattle, Washington, at the intersection of N. 36th Street and the Aurora Bridge. Im directly under the north end of the Aurora Bridge.
Why does your profile say japan then?
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On January 24 2012 08:34 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 08:29 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 08:23 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 08:21 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:37 Fishgle wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:
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i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. lolololol gonna buy a plane ticket to spit in his face now are ye? that'll be worth a few hundred dollars stop being a white-knight of the internet dude. You clearly have no idea how real relationships work. lol. well, actually, i was going to use his address and name to find his facebook (or other internet footprint) to find him and his current girlfriend. then, i was going to e-mail his girlfriend this blog. she can spit in his face for me. but, he is too much of a coward to give me his address. so, i guess my lulz have been ruined. =( Lol, what a troll. Ok, you give me your address first, though. OR ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A COWARD?!?!?!? i live in Seattle, Washington, at the intersection of N. 36th Street and the Aurora Bridge. Im directly under the north end of the Aurora Bridge. Why does your profile say japan then?
because you can put any country you want in there.....
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I honestly think when push comes to shove in five months the girl you're with now will change her mind and you'll have regret acting too soon. Most of all you should know this happens and probably her decisions are being irrational/illogical at the moment because of the stress/pressure/spite possibly.
Just my opinion, but I wouldn't risk cointossing something probable, for something possible.
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I'm not buying that you two are close if she doesn't even want you to move there with her, especially since it seems like you wouldn't have to sacrifice that much. I would just break it off as soon as possible and look for something better.
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Can't we all get along? As for girl advice, Chill said it best. Evaluate your relationship on its own merits, then make a decision. Letting in other variables (like German dancer girls) only clouds your judgement.
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On January 24 2012 07:51 Chill wrote:
I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
The ALL mighty as spoken listen to him please lolol
edit: this blog has given me my days worth of TL entertainment! p.s chll i <3 u
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I think a big part of the problem is I've sort of emotionally checked out of the relationship, out of necessity in some cases. Mostly because we've been back and forth on this before, and this could just be another back and forth, or maybe not. I'm going to talk to her this week, and go from there.
For all the cool kids and trolls who think her finding out about this would be such a terrible thing, I've already considered telling her I'm interested in other women. That really wouldn't be that great of an idea, actually, because that would just as likely make her want to be with me more (temporarily), then make her not want to be with me at all. She has a pretty big jealous streak, and the thought of me being with someone else might be manipulative, so I wouldn't do that.
Also, if you think she, or any other girl hasn't had frank conversations with friends or others where you are objectified and measured, you are an idiot, and know next to nothing about women. Just putting that out there.
As far as her "not being that into me" or us not being that close, sure it is a possibility. If I were reading this, and didn't know her, I would think the same thing. It could be the case here, but I don't think so. The only thing I can really say about it, without going into too much detail, is that she would view me following her out there as too big of a commitment, that she isn't ready for with me, or anyone else, as she says. Or maybe she just isn't that into me, but she isn't the kind to lie.
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I want to give a serious answer but this thread is cracking me up too much.
Here goes
@OP. This may just be me, but I've always held the belief that love triumps over all. IN THAT, if you love someone, that is the most important thing to you. By my belief at least, this girl doesn't actually truly love you.
So I'd say, give her an ultimatum. Face it, you know it's over in 5 months, why drag in on? Tell her that you love her and want to be with her (I think you do), and if she felt the same way she would agree. Don't let her bulslhit you, if she doesn't agree than it's a no.
After that, it's up to you. Personally I'd suggest getting to know the german girl a bit more before springing an offer on her or anything. But I would like to caution you that I think dealing with your current relationship is the far more important thing, at least at the moment.
Also don't listen to the idiots calling you a scumbag. There is nothing wrong with feeling attraction towards another women if your relationship is faltering. It's not like you've cheated or anything.
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On January 24 2012 09:10 HardlyNever wrote:
I've already considered telling her I'm interested in other women. That really wouldn't be that great of an idea, actually, because that would just as likely make her want to be with me more (temporarily), then make her not want to be with me at all.
On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:
Have you even ever been in a relationship?
O.o
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ROFL, dAPhREAk is so right on this.
Put simply, if you wanted your current relationship to work you would have worked out what to do. Right now you are coming to TL to try and get justification for acting like a child. Make up your own mind and then grow a spine and make a decision. If you really think your current relationship has any future then you put your efforts into making that a reality. If not, call it off and go fuck your german lady.
Blaiming this shit on your current girlfriend is so weak.
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On January 24 2012 09:37 Probulous wrote:
ROFL, dAPhREAk is so right on this.
Put simply, if you wanted your current relationship to work you would have worked out what to do. Right now you are coming to TL to try and get justification for acting like a child. Make up your own mind and then grow a spine and make a decision. If you really think your current relationship has any future then you put your efforts into making that a reality. If not, call it off and go fuck your german lady.
Blaiming this shit on your current girlfriend is so weak.
Never once did I blame anyone for anything. Nor am I looking for "justification" for anything. If you guys seriously think I would do what anyone says here, you are retarded. The first post could have been "dooooood bang the german chick," you think I would have done that?
I put this up mainly for entertainment purposes, and it has delivered. I also put it up for self-reflection and for the few meaningful, non-troll posts that have shown up, because I might read a few ideas that I haven't considered. Sp far, no go, but I still appreciate the few guys on these forums that have real experience with women and relationships.
I also got the expected virgin/white-knight/pussy-on-a-pedestal (see your post) responses that populate these forums too, and those are good for a laugh.
Keep 'em all coming. Just don't think I'm taking this too seriously. For all you know, I made this entire story up.
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It's not white-knighting or pussy on a pedestal, it is basic respect.
Finally, are you saying that this whole thing is a troll? If so, fuck you. People with actual issues come here and genuinely ask for help. You might find it funny, but others don't. So take your macho bullshit elsewhere.
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On January 24 2012 10:00 Probulous wrote:
It's not white-knighting or pussy on a pedestal, it is basic respect.
Finally, are you saying that this whole thing is a troll? If so, fuck you. People with actual issues come here and genuinely ask for help. You might find it funny, but others don't. So take your macho bullshit elsewhere.
So why do you come here then? To GENUINELY act like a douche-bag and call people that need advice "spineless" and "cowards?"
That isn't giving help.
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On January 24 2012 10:00 Probulous wrote:
It's not white-knighting or pussy on a pedestal, it is basic respect.
Finally, are you saying that this whole thing is a troll? If so, fuck you. People with actual issues come here and genuinely ask for help. You might find it funny, but others don't. So take your macho bullshit elsewhere.
Probulous, Probulous, Probulous. it is your own fault you know... you should have known better.... when somebody says it is good for their relationship that they tell their current girlfriend that they want to bang the german dancer chick next door, you should know that they are incredibly stupid, or just trolling you. at the end of the day, we can't blame HardlyNever. we can only blame ourselves for listening to his idiotic ramblings and thinking he wasn't just making stories.... I, for one, am very sad that i believed that his idiotic and slimeballish posts were true. lol.
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On January 24 2012 09:47 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 09:37 Probulous wrote:
ROFL, dAPhREAk is so right on this.
Put simply, if you wanted your current relationship to work you would have worked out what to do. Right now you are coming to TL to try and get justification for acting like a child. Make up your own mind and then grow a spine and make a decision. If you really think your current relationship has any future then you put your efforts into making that a reality. If not, call it off and go fuck your german lady.
Blaiming this shit on your current girlfriend is so weak. Never once did I blame anyone for anything. Nor am I looking for "justification" for anything. If you guys seriously think I would do what anyone says here, you are retarded. The first post could have been "dooooood bang the german chick," you think I would have done that? I put this up mainly for entertainment purposes, and it has delivered. I also put it up for self-reflection and for the few meaningful, non-troll posts that have shown up, because I might read a few ideas that I haven't considered. Sp far, no go, but I still appreciate the few guys on these forums that have real experience with women and relationships. I also got the expected virgin/white-knight/pussy-on-a-pedestal (see your post) responses that populate these forums too, and those are good for a laugh. Keep 'em all coming. Just don't think I'm taking this too seriously. For all you know, I made this entire story up.
see? total scumbag.
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HardlyNever, it's a tough problem. But since what you want is a long term relationship, and you won't get that (at least right now) with your current girlfriend, I think I'm leaning towards breaking up with her. Throw the dice and let the chips fall were they may.
I haven't experienced the situation, but it feels like a relationship with a clear expiration date will just get worse as it get's closer to that date.
It seems to me that you are pretty interested in this German girl, and if you don't go for it you will probably just ask yourself "what if?" in the future. And hey, if it doesn't work out with that girl you can still meet other girls during these 4-5 months.
Having that said though, it kind of depends on your feelings towards your girlfriend.
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loooooooooooooool this is getting good.
On January 24 2012 09:47 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 09:37 Probulous wrote:
ROFL, dAPhREAk is so right on this.
Put simply, if you wanted your current relationship to work you would have worked out what to do. Right now you are coming to TL to try and get justification for acting like a child. Make up your own mind and then grow a spine and make a decision. If you really think your current relationship has any future then you put your efforts into making that a reality. If not, call it off and go fuck your german lady.
Blaiming this shit on your current girlfriend is so weak. Never once did I blame anyone for anything. Nor am I looking for "justification" for anything. If you guys seriously think I would do what anyone says here, you are retarded. The first post could have been "dooooood bang the german chick," you think I would have done that? I put this up mainly for entertainment purposes, and it has delivered. I also put it up for self-reflection and for the few meaningful, non-troll posts that have shown up, because I might read a few ideas that I haven't considered. Sp far, no go, but I still appreciate the few guys on these forums that have real experience with women and relationships. I also got the expected virgin/white-knight/pussy-on-a-pedestal (see your post) responses that populate these forums too, and those are good for a laugh. Keep 'em all coming. Just don't think I'm taking this too seriously. For all you know, I made this entire story up.
Oic it was mostly just a joke.
Wait, how did you know that there would be "non-troll" posts showing up before you posted this? Unless.. did you post this from the future? But then you would know what you've already decided to do and wouldn't need to post this... O.O
On January 24 2012 10:03 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 10:00 Probulous wrote:
It's not white-knighting or pussy on a pedestal, it is basic respect.
Finally, are you saying that this whole thing is a troll? If so, fuck you. People with actual issues come here and genuinely ask for help. You might find it funny, but others don't. So take your macho bullshit elsewhere. So why do you come here then? To GENUINELY act like a douche-bag and call people that need advice "spineless" and "cowards?" That isn't giving help.
Wait now, hold on. I thought you just said you put this up for entertainment value and the non-troll posts that you somehow knew would show up, now you need advice again? Hmm I can't make any sense of this. Better put this into my universal translator. *tricorder sound*Ah, yes here it is:
Translation: "I just realized that I look like a dumb jerk and instead of backing down and admitting I'm wrong I'll just pretend it was allllll just a funny funny joke."
Let me give you some serious advice here Captain Hercules: First of all, none of us are impressed by what I'm sure you perceive as your amazing talents with the ladies.
Second, learn when to back down. All of us are wrong sometimes (I'm wrong all the damn time about tons of stuff) or outweighed in opinion. Sometimes you just have to back the fuck down.
Third, don't call Probulous a douche-bag, we like him a whole hell-of-a lot more than you.
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On January 24 2012 10:30 TheToast wrote:loooooooooooooool this is getting good. Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 09:47 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 09:37 Probulous wrote:
ROFL, dAPhREAk is so right on this.
Put simply, if you wanted your current relationship to work you would have worked out what to do. Right now you are coming to TL to try and get justification for acting like a child. Make up your own mind and then grow a spine and make a decision. If you really think your current relationship has any future then you put your efforts into making that a reality. If not, call it off and go fuck your german lady.
Blaiming this shit on your current girlfriend is so weak. Never once did I blame anyone for anything. Nor am I looking for "justification" for anything. If you guys seriously think I would do what anyone says here, you are retarded. The first post could have been "dooooood bang the german chick," you think I would have done that? I put this up mainly for entertainment purposes, and it has delivered. I also put it up for self-reflection and for the few meaningful, non-troll posts that have shown up, because I might read a few ideas that I haven't considered. Sp far, no go, but I still appreciate the few guys on these forums that have real experience with women and relationships. I also got the expected virgin/white-knight/pussy-on-a-pedestal (see your post) responses that populate these forums too, and those are good for a laugh. Keep 'em all coming. Just don't think I'm taking this too seriously. For all you know, I made this entire story up. Oic it was mostly just a joke. Wait, how did you know that there would be "non-troll" posts showing up before you posted this? Unless.. did you post this from the future? But then you would know what you've already decided to do and wouldn't need to post this... O.O Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 10:03 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 10:00 Probulous wrote:
It's not white-knighting or pussy on a pedestal, it is basic respect.
Finally, are you saying that this whole thing is a troll? If so, fuck you. People with actual issues come here and genuinely ask for help. You might find it funny, but others don't. So take your macho bullshit elsewhere. So why do you come here then? To GENUINELY act like a douche-bag and call people that need advice "spineless" and "cowards?" That isn't giving help. Wait now, hold on. I thought you just said you put this up for entertainment value and the non-troll posts that you somehow knew would show up, now you need advice again? Hmm I can't make any sense of this. Better put this into my universal translator. *tricorder sound*Ah, yes here it is: Translation: "I just realized that I look like a dumb jerk and instead of backing down and admitting I'm wrong I'll just pretend it was allllll just a funny funny joke." Let me give you some serious advice here Captain Hercules: First of all, none of us are impressed by what I'm sure you perceive as your amazing talents with the ladies. Second, learn when to back down. All of us are wrong sometimes (I'm wrong all the damn time about tons of stuff) or outweighed in opinion. Sometimes you just have to back the fuck down. Third, don't call Probulous a douche-bag, we like him a whole hell-of-a lot more than you.
Keeps getting better. Judging by your post count, you aren't exactly new to TL. If you don't know what kind of posts will be in a certain thread from the title alone, you just aren't too sharp. It is the internet. There are the same types of posts in almost all threads like this. I didn't think this required explanation, but apparently it does.
I didn't say I needed advice from probulus or whoever, I just asked why he came to these threads if he just acts like an ass in them, if he believes people genuinely needs advice. Either you are here to give advice or you aren't; acting like a douche and insulting the OP in any advice thread isn't helpful. I could ask you the same thing.
Also, I'm not backing down from anything, as there isn't anything to back down from. I haven't made a decision, and if you think there is anything wrong with thinking things out, than you are more of an idiot than your post implies.
Finally, I don't care who you like or don't like, including me. Never once did I try to "impress anyone with my talents with the ladies," and I wouldn't see why you would take it that way unless you were insecure about yourself, which I already assume the haters in this thread are, otherwise they wouldn't act like douchebags, honestly.
Again, this is assuming this is even real...
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Would you like a shovel?
You clearly never intended to listen to any advice given by anyone who disagreed with you. When people call you out on your behaviour you claim this whole thing is a joke. Why should anyone take you seriously? I always give genuine advice, even if it is somewhat harsh. Calling a spade a spade, or a coward a coward doesn't invalidate my point. If you didn't want advice, why post this and why get upset when people point out your stupidity? If it was meant as a joke then people have every right to give you shit.
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Just take the gamble. Worse case scenario, more SC2 time.
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LTR suck, dump your gf and do your neighboard
or...
On January 24 2012 11:08 Perseverance wrote:
Just take the gamble. Worse case scenario, more BW time.
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basically it sounds like your unhappy with the fact that you cant be with your gf for longer and id tell you just to end it with her now and explain how you feel, politely of course.
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On January 24 2012 09:10 HardlyNever wrote:
As far as her "not being that into me" or us not being that close, sure it is a possibility. If I were reading this, and didn't know her, I would think the same thing. It could be the case here, but I don't think so. The only thing I can really say about it, without going into too much detail, is that she would view me following her out there as too big of a commitment, that she isn't ready for with me, or anyone else, as she says. Or maybe she just isn't that into me, but she isn't the kind to lie.
You are biased. You shouldn't trust your own logic, because it's clouded by what you want to be true.
When someone says "I'm not ready for that kind of commitment because of (insert random BS excuse)" it actually means: "I don't love you, I'm just sticking to this relationships until I find something better, because it's convenient, so I have no reason to commit any further."
She probably wanted to break up with you before, but didn't have the guts to do it. Or the reason could be that she hadn't thought about your relationship for the long term and that when she realized that you two would have to make a big commitment soon, she realized that she didn't love you enough. Either way, it's over.
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On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure....
You sound jealous of the OP actually i think he clearly stated his situation and that their relationship is going to end in 5 months.
Quoted here
I can't decide if I should leave the current girl (it is going to end in about 5 months, no matter what I do)
As for the OP you should ask her out (after you end your relationship with your current girl-friend).
Maybe you should learn a few words in German before doing so.
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On January 24 2012 07:54 dAPhREAk wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:48 samw wrote:On January 24 2012 07:34 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:30 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:24 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:20 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:16 dAPhREAk wrote:On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... I'm not sure where you are getting this. I'm trying to make an objective decision. Did you read the whole post? I've tried basically everything to make the current relationship work, including offering to move out to where she is going. She doesn't want that. I've said if she doesn't want to be with me, to just say so. She doesn't want that either. She is the one ending it, not me. Have you even ever been in a relationship? i read your post, and i have been in many relationships. you cant have your cake and eat it too. you want to bang your german neighbor; thats perfectly fine. break up with your girlfriend and do that. dont keep your girlfriend for the next five months so you can have your "good to amazing" regular sex. do you think your current girlfriend would maintain this relationship if she knew you had written this blog? hell no. thus, i think you are a slimeball to lust after your neighbor (but too much of a coward to take the plunge) and string your current girlfriend along. then again, if your current girlfriend doesn't mind, go for it, but you arent going to be honest with her, are you? How could you have read the whole post when I said I wasn't going to cheat on my current girlfriend? i read your self-serving statement and concluded you are trying to save face.... then you wrote that you are considering asking the german on a date without breaking up with your girlfriend, and concluded you are a hypocrite and a coward.... face it, you want to break up with your gf so you can bang the german chick, but you are afraid the german chick will say no, so you want to make sure you can stay with your current gf just in case.... before you post again, just think about it this way: would i want my girlfriend to do this shit to me? I've decided you're basically an internet tough-guy, who wants to be angry at random people he doesn't know. Save face? What are you talking about? This is the INTERNET. You don't know WHO I am. Nor do I care what internet tough guys think about me. I put that there so people wouldn't suggest to do it, because I'm not going to do it (even though I could). You don't have anything constructive to add, so please go away now. I also find it funny that someone who talks so tough over the internet calls people a "coward," when I know you wouldn't say that to my face. give me your address. Ok this is TL I know how to settle this, we don't fight. I declare a best of 5, winner takes all, loser walks away with nothing. does that mean, if i win, i get his current girlfriend, the german girl and my own fiancee?
This bo5 needs to happen, winner takes the girlfriend, the german chick, the job in the other state and dAPhREAk's fiancée
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I completely understand the point dAPhREAk is trying to make. If your girlfriend read this blog post I'm pretty damn sure shit would go down. And if your girlfriend was in the same scenario as you, I'm positive you'd be at least a little upset with her.
With that said, you just have to realize what is more important to you. Hooking up with a German girl that you hardly know and aren't even sure if she's into you, or spend the last 5 months with your girlfriend of TWO YEARS that you say you love...
My advice: If you really do love that girl, try to spend every single day with her and try to make her feel the happiest you possibly can. So that when the day finally comes, she wont be strong enough to end it with you.
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Eh if you know a relationship is going to end in 5 months, why the hell continue with it? There can be a lot of missed opportunities in 5 months.
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On January 24 2012 12:49 PaqMan wrote:
I completely understand the point dAPhREAk is trying to make. If your girlfriend read this blog post I'm pretty damn sure shit would go down. And if your girlfriend was in the same scenario as you, I'm positive you'd be at least a little upset with her.
With that said, you just have to realize what is more important to you. Hooking up with a German girl that you hardly know and aren't even sure if she's into you, or spend the last 5 months with your girlfriend of TWO YEARS that you say you love...
My advice: If you really do love that girl, try to spend every single day with her and try to make her feel the happiest you possibly can. So that when the day finally comes, she wont be strong enough to end it with you.
I appreciate this response more than the stupid crap some of the other trolls have posted, because you can actually put an "opposing" (even though there isn't really anything to oppose) viewpoint forward, without looking like an idiot.
I say there is nothing to oppose, because despite my care in writing it, a lot of people have "read between the lines" something that isn't there at all. They took an honest question, and turned it into something along the lines of "how do I get with this German girl while still keeping my current gf as an option," which it isn't. And there is no reason to think that, except haters are gonna hate, and angry people just want to be angry.
The problem with your course of action is that it is the action of a sucker. And I don't mean that to be mean, because I've done something like that in the past. It is the actions of a sucker because if I devote the rest of my time to her, and she bails,and I never see here again, then I've left myself in a position were I was subservient to this girls whims, and when she was done, I was left hanging. Did I spend the rest of my time with someone I love? Ostensibly yes, but as another poster has mentioned, as it gets closer to the end of this relationship, things are getting more and more strained. Maybe strained isn't the right word. It is just getting somewhat uncomfortable. Hence, the posting of this blog in the first place.
I'll just say the situation between us is still fluid. While not long ago, she didn't want me to move out there, today she was trying to find out if someone could live with her where she was staying. She is weighing the options, as she has said, and as I've tried to relate (perhaps in my first post, I made it sound too certain, which was a mistake). From where things are, I'd say it is pretty likely she doesn't want to continue the relationship when we leave, but obviously, that could change.
I'm going to take the advice of some of the better posts, and sit down and discuss where I stand with her, within the week. As others have mentioned, I'm going to get this current relationship figured out one way or another, before I start concerning myself with the next.
That said, anytime you make a decision, in anything, I believe it is good to consider all the options and all the contingencies.
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On January 24 2012 07:51 Chill wrote:
I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision.
Chill: he's concise and accurate. He doesn't get sidetracked by half-trolling posts, or write four paragraphs which are useless, only a single line. Yet his single line is solid advice that helps you make your decision, yet doesn't make it for you.
He is: a Moderator
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HardlyNever, I think you and your gf just need to sit down and talk - just do it. Just find out exactly why she doesn't want you to go with her and how you two should proceed from here on out - I mean, you OFFERED to find a job where she's going and she rejected it. Something's up bro.
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You should try to get your girlfriend to hook up with the german girl, that way you lose, TL wins, and everyones happy
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Netherlands6142 Posts
"I'm pretty sure the German girl is into me but I haven't seen her hands yet"
this struck me as odd.. :/
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United Kingdom10823 Posts
This is slowly turning into a game of Mafia.
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If you've already decided your current relationship is going to end, why bother staying together for the next 5 months?
Wouldn't it be better for you both to begin moving on?
What you're doing now is basically having a 5-month-long goodbye. You see the relationship as dead. So does your girlfriend otherwise she would encourage you to try to find a job near her next uni. Why bother pretending it isn't over?
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The current gf is the first situation to deal with. Sorry to say it, but given how you've described things at present, I think you're both done with the relationship. This 5 month break-up seems odd to me given those circumstances.
The German girl is largely irrelevant... She could be any other attractive single girl and she's not worth fixating on at all; you know next to nothing about her, including whether she's interested. Therefore, she basically represents your other options... Something you seem like you'd be interested in exploring... Which goes back to part one: you're done with your gf.
I think you're better off ending it now and being in a better place (within yourself) when you move to another state in 5 months.
As for the people who can't read, and/or make personal insults and/or like to infer mindsets and draw conclusions that aren't reasonable.... All I can say is I know what you mean. Plenty of people who go all social-retard mode thanks to the anonymity of a computer screen.
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On January 24 2012 15:08 jrkirby wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:51 Chill wrote:
I think you should pretend the German girl doesn't exist and then make your decision. Chill: he's concise and accurate. He doesn't get sidetracked by half-trolling posts, or write four paragraphs which are useless, only a single line. Yet his single line is solid advice that helps you make your decision, yet doesn't make it for you. He is: a Moderator
Jason Statham stars in The Moderators as Chill
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Ohhh the cliche 'hot German girl next door' fantasy. I read on page 3 or something that you made all this up? Not bad not bad, and there are bits of entertainment even in a poorly constructed fantasy blog. A little less attention to detail and more elaboration on the emotional process would have made this more enjoyable for me.
Too bad you've antagonized several forum members here along the way, I don't see why that was so necessary.
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I think the german girl is really a man in disguise sent by the g/f to obs him.
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This blog is amazing, someone just posted a link to it.
I can't believe that I missed this the first time around.
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I've been debating updating this for months, mainly for funnsies and since someone decided to bump it, I figure now is as good a time as any. I'm going to give a pretty abridged version of what happened following this, since there was a lot of back and forth, and honestly I can't remember exactly what happened when.
I believe we didn't break up that close to when I originally posted this. I think we ended up breaking up (again) toward the end of the semester (late march) for like three weeks. Then we ended up getting back together, effectively, at the end of April, then we where in a limbo area for a bit. She "found out" about that German girl (in that I told her about her during one of our "breaks") and was 100% cool with it. She even (and I'm not making this up) toyed with the idea of having a threesome with her. Unfortunately, I have no idea how you set that up with anyone, much less your neighbor (do you just say "hey my sort of gf and I want to get you in on some 3 way action?"). I'm reasonably experienced with girls, but that is honestly outside my realm of experience. Then we were "officially" back together until the end of summer, where we broke up again, but ended up sleeping together again after that. At the end of summer, we both moved out of that town, me going back to our home state and her moving out west as planned. We kinda sorta were still "together" but not really for about another month after that. Then she started seeing someone else, and I started seeing someone else like a week after that, and that is more or less where we are at this point. We still talk semi-regularly ( I talked to her like 3 days ago at the time of this writing) and we don't really know what will happen in the future for either of us. I'm not banking on anything and I'm kind of hoping we don't get back together to be honest. At the bare minimum she will be out where she is for another year and half at least, and quite possibly longer.
Last, the german girl. Sigh... the german girl. So during all that (what I listed above) we kind of exchanged hellos and what not. I didn't really want to make anything happen while me and the other girl were still figuring things out. So I don't end up actually talking to her until THE DAY WE ARE BOTH MOVING OUT. Turns out we have A LOT in common. This is the first time I ever felt like I missed a really good opportunity (in case you forgot, this girl was hot, and actually even hotter than I thought when I had time to actually talk to her). She did have a boyfriend at some point, but they were not really together anymore, but when exactly that occurred on the time-line I laid out above, I'm not really sure. I had to go before I could get the details on that, and it turns out she was moving back to Germany in another month or so (this was back at the end of July).
At the end of it all, do I regret anything? It is hard to say. Me and the German girl did hit it off in the brief time we talked, but I also had good times with my then current girl friend in the follow up, and we are still decent friends. Either way, I don't think I would have gotten a long term relationship with the German girl, so I probably would have "broken even" in the long run, I just would have had a different experience over that time. I might have lost my friendship with the other girl though, so it is hard to say. Since I moved back to my home state some interesting things have happened with girls, but that is a different girl blog  .
I tried to keep this as short as I could without leaving anything out, but it looks like I went on a little long anyhow. Either way, was fun times  .
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dAPhREAk says(this is not Praetorial, this is Phreak talkin')
there is so much bullshit in your post, you must be a politician. I still think you're a coward, and you just proved it.
Praetorial:
Since he's banned from your blogs
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On January 24 2012 07:10 HardlyNever wrote:Show nested quote +On January 24 2012 07:03 dAPhREAk wrote:
you kind of sound like a slimeball to me. you should break up with your girlfriend so that she doesn't have to be with you anymore. thats the best thing you can do for her. as for the german, after you break up with your girlfriend, go for her if you want, but if you are just going to string her along like you are doing your current girlfriend then you should leave her alone too.
females are not objects for you to toy with at your pleasure.... Have you even ever been in a relationship?
Maybe HardlyNever is making up fictional problems so people on the internet will believe he's of importance in real life.
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On December 31 2012 14:30 Praetorial wrote:dAPhREAk says(this is not Praetorial, this is Phreak talkin') Show nested quote +
there is so much bullshit in your post, you must be a politician. I still think you're a coward, and you just proved it.
Praetorial: Since he's banned from your blogs
Pretty funny that someone who has to talk through trolls calls someone a "coward."
I updated the blog for the people that care, but of course Daphreak and his crew of bottom feeders need to troll it up. I'm done here.
Edit: I know someone having a chance with multiple girls reads like fiction to guys like you.
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