EPTDrunk Driving, The day i learned im an asshole? - Page 2
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PassiveAce
United States18076 Posts
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Pawsom
United States928 Posts
On January 02 2012 23:57 unit wrote: well the case i was mentioning was my alcoholic dad who if he goes too long w/o a beer he gets a bit erratic Q.Q at the very least hes managed to somehow do it every day for the past 24-5 years without a single accident or ticket O.O the one time he got pulled over he was sober and they tested him because he appeared as though he was driving drunk O.O as for my dad's reaction time its normally quite quick to the point where his drunk reaction time is only slightly slower than the average person's reaction time (i was in the car w/him reacting to a deer...damn near instant brake timing from when it got on the road...) but he uses left foot braking xD "gives his left foot something to do in these automatics" as for how it feels, im sorry i wouldnt know as i have the intention to never drive drunk myself (unless cops put together a simulation thing for ppl letting them drive a course drunk/sober and showing them the difference) and it is possible that my dad is just more careful...but with the fact that he actually can react to stuff (which is amazing tbh) i have no argument to use against him personally :/ How about the fact that hes going to jail and paying $10,000 if he gets pulled over for something as insignifcant as a broken tailight and the cop smells alchohol on his breath? | ||
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unit
United States2621 Posts
On January 03 2012 00:17 Pawsom wrote: How about the fact that hes going to jail and paying $10,000 if he gets pulled over for something as insignifcant as a broken tailight and the cop smells alchohol on his breath? tried it.....he keeps his car rather well maintained...only way there would be a broken taillight would be if someone else crashed into him....which granted, he'd be fucked...but its rather hard to convince people of stuff logically when their own thought process regarding it is irrational...in other words addiction | ||
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endy
Switzerland8970 Posts
The thing is, you can't be sure of that, maybe if they had reached your home, you or your sister would have noticed the driver was totally drunk and could have stopped them. | ||
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Ringall
Finland177 Posts
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Pawsom
United States928 Posts
On January 03 2012 00:20 unit wrote: tried it.....he keeps his car rather well maintained...only way there would be a broken taillight would be if someone else crashed into him....which granted, he'd be fucked...but its rather hard to convince people of stuff logically when their own thought process regarding it is irrational...in other words addiction You're in as bad as denial as he is | ||
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Telcontar
United Kingdom16710 Posts
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Renegade_cro
Croatia11 Posts
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DeekZ
Australia235 Posts
On January 02 2012 23:50 theonemephisto wrote: Yea you're an asshole. I agree with everything you said, except that there are certain things that you don't say to people in certain situations. You should have shelved your own feelings and supported her rather than saying things that probably made it worse. Disagree completely.. I don't think he's an asshole at all, this girl put herself, everyone in the car, the guys sister and everyone that was/would be on the road with her that night in extreme risk. Maybe you can actually see yourself being able to hold back, or maybe you just can't fully imagine the situation but I sure can't imagine not telling her how fucking stupid she was. It's tragic that this had to happen but she brought all this down on herself, and even worse she brought it down on other people. | ||
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drgoats
United States310 Posts
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Kuja
United States1759 Posts
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Trizz
Netherlands1323 Posts
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theonemephisto
United States409 Posts
On January 03 2012 03:16 DeekZ wrote: Disagree completely.. I don't think he's an asshole at all, this girl put herself, everyone in the car, the guys sister and everyone that was/would be on the road with her that night in extreme risk. Maybe you can actually see yourself being able to hold back, or maybe you just can't fully imagine the situation but I sure can't imagine not telling her how fucking stupid she was. It's tragic that this had to happen but she brought all this down on herself, and even worse she brought it down on other people. And as I said, I agree with all of that. But when your friend just died, that's not what you want to hear, and hearing that is only going to make it worse for you. Tell her that in a week or a month, but to tell her that right after the accident while she's still mourning is just cruel. If you can't put stuff on the back-burner to comfort and support someone who has just lost a friend, then you should go away. Just because you don't feel bad for your sister's friends doesn't mean that she doesn't. And you should be able to at least have sympathy for her loss and pain. | ||
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iSometric
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Djzapz
Canada10681 Posts
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darkscream
Canada2310 Posts
so you're kind of an asshole for not just being immediately nice to your sister, yeah | ||
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PanN
United States2828 Posts
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Grettin
42414 Posts
Glad your sis weren't in the car. | ||
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OmniEulogy
Canada6600 Posts
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Zariel
Australia1312 Posts
Being drunk off your face and attempting to drive is pretty dumb. No matter the situation. | ||
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