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Geordie
United Kingdom653 Posts
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tests
United States160 Posts
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SnetteL
Belgium473 Posts
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Deleted User 3420
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Sephy90
United States1785 Posts
On August 14 2011 06:29 tests wrote: Find new friends. There are plenty of people out there in the world...and it is not worth hanging out with people as shallow as those. It sucks that you have known these people for 10 years, but if they were truly your "friends" they would not treat you like an asshole for something as arbitrary as a new person. Yup! Although you may feel like shit, hang in there when in the end this just shows who your true friends are even if you have none left. You don't want to be associating yourself with them and it goes to show how shitty you're feeling right now. If you feel you need to isolate yourself some more, go ahead but you have to know that you need to move on and find new friends. I've felt quite abandoned before and it only just made me extremely emotionally numb and well it sucks BADLY as it left me more depressed than I was before. Hang in there yo and stay strong! Please feel free to send me a PM if you'd like! | ||
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KhAmun
United States1005 Posts
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Baby_Seal
United States360 Posts
Either way, it sounds like they're just shitty friends all-around. I'm sorry you're lonely, but trying to interact with them is going to be like bashing your head against a brick wall. The sooner you let them go, the better. Also, be wary if they suddenly have a change of heart and start trying to be friendly again. I'm wondering if one of them is a group "leader" and is guiding them into rejecting you, since they'll be friendly when you interact with individual members alone. Group-think and group behavior can be pretty toxic. | ||
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Geordie
United Kingdom653 Posts
On August 14 2011 06:49 travis wrote: How old are you? Only 15. Also to the people in the thread make new friends, thats only going to be possible when I really go back to school as I have never really spoke to people outside of school apart from these " friends " Although in school I am on good terms with all the guys since others and myself think I am aa funny guy. ( girls dont really like me at all since me and all of the guys who are in my class basically annoy the girls like typical immature boys and take the piss, haha ) | ||
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Geordie
United Kingdom653 Posts
On August 14 2011 07:01 Baby_Seal wrote: Have they ever told you why they're shunning you this way? Getting blocked by all of them seems like it could be deliberate, since on facebook (for example), people usually build up long friends lists including people that aren't really friends at all. Either way, it sounds like they're just shitty friends all-around. I'm sorry you're lonely, but trying to interact with them is going to be like bashing your head against a brick wall. The sooner you let them go, the better. Also, be wary if they suddenly have a change of heart and start trying to be friendly again. I'm wondering if one of them is a group "leader" and is guiding them into rejecting you, since they'll be friendly when you interact with individual members alone. Group-think and group behavior can be pretty toxic. I think the thing that started it off was when I was very good friends with owen and we were basically glued together a guy said we were like brothers or something and for whatever reason he got really embarrassed even though I just laughed it off and said we were as a joke. I dunno man, I think the group are a bit wierd in the way if you ask any of them if they like another guy in the group they just go " err I dunno derp " | ||
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Nivoh
Norway259 Posts
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BrTarolg
United Kingdom3579 Posts
Yeah, it kinda sucks You could probably learn how to do it around the age of 18 onwards. Its kinda tough before then unless you learn fast as its essentially an exercise in social manipulation When people grow up it tends not to happen as much and people can just be friends and get along with each other without all the bs | ||
Heyoka
Katowice25012 Posts
Fight the good fight brother and press on. And by that I mean just hang out with people who are cool and ignore them if they do stupid shit like that. | ||
Seeker
Where dat snitch at?37120 Posts
Screw them. Make new friends. Don't beat yourself over this kind of stuff. | ||
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Golden Ghost
Netherlands1041 Posts
Anyway good luck with it. | ||
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Kalingingsong
Canada633 Posts
or u can pick up some new interests etc. expose ur self to some new activities [they might seem boring at first but become interesting afterwards] | ||
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gameguard
Korea (South)2132 Posts
As you grow older, you will make many friends, but probably most of them will be acquaintances rather than true friends. Be cool with everyone but dont take it too hard if some of them end up being retarded. | ||
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Hamster
United Kingdom156 Posts
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Xxio
Canada5565 Posts
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ssi.bal-listic
United States568 Posts
hope everything works out well | ||
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ligas
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