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Date someone who makes more than you? - Page 2
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Rinrun
Canada3509 Posts
Now if only I could find one... | ||
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Maero
349 Posts
On April 01 2011 05:22 JingleHell wrote: But then, I have what's probably a slight ego problem, and couldn't care less what anyone says or thinks. Pretty sure that's the opposite of a problem :p On topic, of course! I love when people spend money on me :D | ||
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Zlasher
United States9129 Posts
It's not that a guy wouldn't date a girl that makes more, but a long term relationship tends to fail if the woman makes more for several reasons. It's very much one sided the other way. | ||
tofucake
Hyrule19053 Posts
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Zlasher
United States9129 Posts
On April 01 2011 05:33 tofucake wrote: It's really only social stigmas which make this "unacceptable". In reality, if you're in love and you (together) can afford to live how you want, who cares who makes more? who cares at first? nobody really, but tension builds up. | ||
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N3rV[Green]
United States1935 Posts
Who the fuck cares about money? Are you happy together, and enjoy one another's company? good to go dude. | ||
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
On April 01 2011 05:46 Zlasher wrote: who cares at first? nobody really, but tension builds up. tension might build up between people that don't actually care about each other or something. If people are fixated enough to care which gender makes more money then I'm at a loss for words and wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway. My girlfriend have talked about it a few times that what if she ended up being the one making a lot more money, since she has the opportunity to. It wouldn't change anything cause it's not like my/her money or something, it's our money. As long as both people are contributing there shouldn't be a problem in any solid relationship | ||
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JingleHell
United States11308 Posts
On April 01 2011 06:03 Divinek wrote: tension might build up between people that don't actually care about each other or something. If people are fixated enough to care which gender makes more money then I'm at a loss for words and wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway. My girlfriend have talked about it a few times that what if she ended up being the one making a lot more money, since she has the opportunity to. It wouldn't change anything cause it's not like my/her money or something, it's our money. As long as both people are contributing there shouldn't be a problem in any solid relationship ^This. If either partner in a theoretically serious relationship isn't seeing it this way, the relationship is doomed for other reasons. Even when my wife was on unemployment, and that plus my disability barely paid the bills, it was never a problem. If you're in a serious, committed relationship with someone you love, you can make pretty much any weird situation work. It comes down to expectations and societal traits, combined with your understanding of them. In our case, the best thing for us is for my wife to work and me to take care of our son at home. Thus, I'm doing the best job possible providing for my family that way. As such, there is no other "manly" decision to be made. Any other thought is ego. Mind you, in a less serious relationship, that societal stuff will come into play a lot more. | ||
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Kutsuki
United States29 Posts
I think women would prefer to have a higher income man. They want to be pampered as much as we want to but unfortunately it's on us to attract them. It's also harder to tease a woman who makes significantly more money than you because if she does, she probably made correct decisions in her life to get that far. Hard to say you're better than her in that case. What can you say when she says I make more money than you? I'd be like dam you got me. What can I say? | ||
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