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A blog about a girl... Part 6 - Page 2
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GHOSTCLAW
United States17042 Posts
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Gruv
United Kingdom379 Posts
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qdenser
Canada133 Posts
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-KarmA
United States353 Posts
On March 09 2011 17:03 AyeH wrote: telling her love that you love her this early in a relationship is a sign of insecurity. girls can see that too. not all, but most girls yes. you definitely jumped the gun on that one and to be honest, you won't know if you love her until you've been through more than 2 dates. infatuation doesn't mean you love her. if you love her, 10 months or more from now, you will buckle down with her and help her through the toughest struggles in her life and not waiver. that is love. http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove/59_relationship_expert.html http://www.tressugar.com/Do-Tell-When-Too-Soon-Say-I-Love-You-1053886 read that^^ but i will say that your writing skills are good. you make the story enjoyable to read. Thanks for the effort. But i wasnt really asking for advice here. Like i said there was alot more going on between everything i wrote. The point is i said it because it felt right, not out of insecurity. Thanks for the input | ||
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shinwa
Sweden225 Posts
I am a hopeless romantic and don't give a damn about the stupid "rules of love", you should always make sure you show your loved ones your true feelings. That my 2 cents at least. Love this story by the way! | ||
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BaltA
Norway849 Posts
That sounds so damn romantic! you go boy! | ||
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
On March 09 2011 22:30 MOARpylons wrote: Thanks for the effort. But i wasnt really asking for advice here. Like i said there was alot more going on between everything i wrote. The point is i said it because it felt right, not out of insecurity. Thanks for the input it felt right because you are infatuated with her... | ||
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Lyzon
United Kingdom440 Posts
On March 10 2011 03:36 AyeH wrote: it felt right because you are infatuated with her... no matter what hes feeling for her, he and her are happy (up till end of p6) so who are we to judge :D keep the chapters cominn mann | ||
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ch33psh33p
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On March 10 2011 03:36 AyeH wrote: it felt right because you are infatuated with her... As much as it hurts to say this, he is entirely right. Sooner or later, that infatuation may or may not become love, but right now where your story is at, its 100% infatuation. | ||
Souma
2nd Worst City in CA8938 Posts
I'll agree that in most cases, early on it is usually feelings of infatuation and not love, but there is not a single one of you who can disprove that on the off-chance, it might just be love, and I believe that in rare cases there is such things as "love at first sight." You're trying to be realistic, but in reality, we just don't know and can never know until much, much later, if even. The story isn't over yet, anyway, so just hold onto your pants.  | ||
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Iceman331
United States1306 Posts
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
it would've been more appropriate if he had said "i really like you" but it's already said and done. and i agree with iceman331. it's going to be hard for the guy to forget about the fact that one of his good friends had sex with "ashley" and that the "ashley" he had heard about in high school was the ashley that he is dating now. the whole kid thing (knowing that his friend is the father of the kid) is going to be a pain in the ass too. good luck with ashley and the kid. i guess it's important to remember that you aren't just dating ashley, you are dating the kid too (as weird as that may sound). sooner or later, you'll have to become that father figure to him because that's what ashley will want. just thought i'd put it out there bluntly because when people are infatuated with someone/something, they overlook the negatives that a bystander would not. | ||
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-KarmA
United States353 Posts
On March 10 2011 06:19 AyeH wrote: it can only be love if one's definition of love is infatuation.. his true love will be tested after a few years of dating her. i don't think he'll be writing stories for that long though. it would've been more appropriate if he had said "i really like you" but it's already said and done. and i agree with iceman331. it's going to be hard for the guy to forget about the fact that one of his good friends had sex with "ashley" and that the "ashley" he had heard about in high school was the ashley that he is dating now. the whole kid thing (knowing that his friend is the father of the kid) is going to be a pain in the ass too. good luck with ashley and the kid. i guess it's important to remember that you aren't just dating ashley, you are dating the kid too (as weird as that may sound). sooner or later, you'll have to become that father figure to him because that's what ashley will want. just thought i'd put it out there bluntly because when people are infatuated with someone/something, they overlook the negatives that a bystander would not. Look man, I dont want to sound like a total asshole but who exactly are you? I didnt ask for Dr. Phil to coach me on my life. Its my story and ill do what i please. That being said. I understand that dating a single mother can be stressful, Ive lived it over the past couple weeks. I completely understand what im doing and getting myself into here. I know this isnt going to be like dating some random chick with no attachments. And if you read this part of the story youll find that we werent that good of friends. Besides that Im not going to dwell on who fucked who back in high school. Thats childish. Whether you believe in love at first sight or not, dont just come into my blog and start dictating over me about my personal feelings, about my actions, telling me that im just infatuated. I really see what youre trying to do here. And thanks for caring. But I didnt ask for advice. This is my life - my story and ill write it how i want. | ||
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Zim23
United States1681 Posts
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
On March 10 2011 08:36 MOARpylons wrote: Look man, I dont want to sound like a total asshole but who exactly are you? I didnt ask for Dr. Phil to coach me on my life. Its my story and ill do what i please. That being said. I understand that dating a single mother can be stressful, Ive lived it over the past couple weeks. I completely understand what im doing and getting myself into here. I know this isnt going to be like dating some random chick with no attachments. And if you read this part of the story youll find that we werent that good of friends. Besides that Im not going to dwell on who fucked who back in high school. Thats childish. Whether you believe in love at first sight or not, dont just come into my blog and start dictating over me about my personal feelings, about my actions, telling me that im just infatuated. I really see what youre trying to do here. And thanks for caring. But I didnt ask for advice. This is my life - my story and ill write it how i want. Haha, no need to get your feelings hurt over the issue. I'm just saying you aren't really in love. I just wouldn't want people to read your stories and think it's totally fine just to throw around the word "love" like you did. From your stories, I can already tell you aren't very experienced in dating and spilling out "I love you" is a very stupid thing on the second date. Tell people out of TL in your real life what you said and they'd say the exact same thing I did. You put this on the blogs for people to comment on and read and what not, and that's what I'm doing. If you have a problem with that, just ignore my comments. It's not like I'm saying your story sucks or that you are in a hopeless situation. I'm just giving you advice because you seem very inexperienced. P.S. Just from the way you tell your story and talk about her, it sounds like infatuation. Just think about it, how could you fall in love with a person you've only known for so little? | ||
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-KarmA
United States353 Posts
On March 10 2011 09:46 AyeH wrote: Haha, no need to get your feelings hurt over the issue. I'm just saying you aren't really in love. I just wouldn't want people to read your stories and think it's totally fine just to throw around the word "love" like you did. From your stories, I can already tell you aren't very experienced in dating and spilling out "I love you" is a very stupid thing on the second date. Tell people out of TL in your real life what you said and they'd say the exact same thing I did. You put this on the blogs for people to comment on and read and what not, and that's what I'm doing. If you have a problem with that, just ignore my comments. It's not like I'm saying your story sucks or that you are in a hopeless situation. I'm just giving you advice because you seem very inexperienced. P.S. Just from the way you tell your story and talk about her, it sounds like infatuation. Just think about it, how could you fall in love with a person you've only known for so little? My feelings are fine. Im just saying I didnt ask for advice, no matter how "inexperienced" i sound to you. But of course you really dont know me or what was said or done between these entries, there was quite a bit. I put these out here to express my feelings and weave a story. I didnt know someone like you would have to pick it apart and try to give me advice that i didnt ask for. Thanks but please stop. Leave constructive criticism on the story or compliments. But no more "Advice" Thank you | ||
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AyeH
United States534 Posts
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arb
Noobville17919 Posts
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ghrur
United States3785 Posts
On March 10 2011 10:42 arb wrote: FUCK MORE *MOAR Great story.  Keep writing! | ||
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-KarmA
United States353 Posts
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