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Noxie
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States2227 Posts
February 07 2011 12:09 GMT
#21
Always found in class.. its about just starting up chat before professor comes in or what not. Just casually start a conversation, if it's there. its there.
evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
February 07 2011 12:09 GMT
#22
The worst mindset is to "go out and try to score something". This is awful and insincere and if it succeed you'll find yourself with a girl that you don't really know what to do with and if you fail you will rage and think "gah those girls always friendzone me". Bottom line is do your best (w/o overextending) but expect nothing, love isn't something like "cause and effect" where you can put in a lot of efforts and a lot of rewards will come right out. A lot of times it's not the case at all. If you insist on forcing something to happen with lots of efforts, the outcome is very ugly and painful, I've been there.

So just be kind and gentle in your approach, and if things don't go well you will just accept your losses but fuck man, ur a man so suck it up, move on, and go to gym.
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
Xxio
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada5565 Posts
February 07 2011 12:18 GMT
#23
Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward
KTY
Liquid`Zephyr
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
United States996 Posts
February 07 2011 13:10 GMT
#24
On February 07 2011 21:18 Xxio wrote:
Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward

i've been working this approach for a long time with some great success. would recommend to other people
Team LiquidPoorUser
fabulously
Profile Joined November 2010
Norway724 Posts
February 07 2011 13:46 GMT
#25
On February 07 2011 21:18 Xxio wrote:
Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward


And if that fails, say something that IS awkward and see her find you you incredible adorable! Awkward approches are sometimes soooo cute. Depends though, I guess, whether or not there are some sparks in the first place
Welcome back ROOT-gaming - you were never forgotten <3
BluzMan
Profile Blog Joined April 2006
Russian Federation4235 Posts
February 07 2011 14:45 GMT
#26
On February 07 2011 20:12 Kittenlisk wrote:
According to the wisdom of games...

Give her a cabbage.

Watch carefully for her facial expression after this, if it's a smile you're on the right track! Give her another cabbage the next day from here on out to build up your reputation.

If she frowns come back the next day with a different item, such as a egg, cake, chicken, wool or flower.

Repeat until the correct item is found.

In the event that she refuses all gifts she's probably not a major character, and you should try someone else out.

Hope that helps!


Golden!
You want 20 good men, but you need a bad pussy.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32054 Posts
February 07 2011 15:21 GMT
#27
give me $5 and ill lend you my acct for the day and you can rock my big bad post count and pretend youre as cool as me
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clickrush
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Switzerland3257 Posts
February 07 2011 15:22 GMT
#28
On February 07 2011 17:52 flyinfart wrote:
So, amazingly enough, used to be pretty good at finding girls that were slutty but not completely retarded. Now, I'm 20 and am aware of STIs and the fact that slutty girls my age probably have something I don't want. Anyways, for the past two years I've been on a part self and part socially inflicted hiatus with several changes to my circle of friends and sobriety from drug use. So I've been thinking about expanding my horizon with a chick from my precal class who is very definitely a ravet, but seems cool enough. The problem is, my entire approach to flirting is obsolete. And now that I think about it, a gaming community is the last place any intelligent person should be asking about girl problems, but here I am. Hopefully the beer and spellcheck are balancing eachother our.

Any suggestions? What would tl do???


young men between 18-22 should check out more mature (talking about +4 or maybe even +8 years or so) women. If you like to believe me: the girls at your age arent worth it most of the time if you want to expand your horizon either physically or mentally. I dont know why this is the case.

maybe its just because you have to learn a ton before you understand how some things work. and its alot easyer to learn from the experienced ones.

this suggestion is based on my own experience and those of a handfull of ppl I know/friends so its very subjective but honest so you might consider it at least.

And most importantly: be honest and respectfull to yourself and your surroundings.
oGsMC: Zealot defense, Stalker attack, Sentry forcefieldu forcefieldu, Marauder die die
MangoTango
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
United States3670 Posts
February 07 2011 15:36 GMT
#29
On February 07 2011 17:58 Essentia wrote:
With a name like "flyinfart" how could you not be a lady's man?


Oh god my keyboard. My cereal is all over it now.

Goddamnit.
"One fish, two fish, red fish, BLUE TANK!" - Artosis
Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
February 07 2011 15:38 GMT
#30
Study with her then show her your "hot wheels collection that's located in your bed".

Works every time
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
ninini
Profile Joined June 2010
Sweden1204 Posts
February 07 2011 16:11 GMT
#31
On February 07 2011 21:18 Xxio wrote:
Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward


Do you like Starcraft?....
FireBlast!
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United Kingdom5251 Posts
February 07 2011 16:20 GMT
#32
On February 07 2011 21:09 evanthebouncy! wrote:
The worst mindset is to "go out and try to score something". This is awful and insincere and if it succeed you'll find yourself with a girl that you don't really know what to do with and if you fail you will rage and think "gah those girls always friendzone me". Bottom line is do your best (w/o overextending) but expect nothing, love isn't something like "cause and effect" where you can put in a lot of efforts and a lot of rewards will come right out. A lot of times it's not the case at all. If you insist on forcing something to happen with lots of efforts, the outcome is very ugly and painful, I've been there.

So just be kind and gentle in your approach, and if things don't go well you will just accept your losses but fuck man, ur a man so suck it up, move on, and go to gym.


sounds like laddering
Victoria Concordia Crescit
MoreFaSho
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States1427 Posts
February 07 2011 16:23 GMT
#33
"Don't be a fool, wrap your tool" -V.W.
I always try to shield slam face, just to make sure it doesnt work
Addishuns
Profile Joined December 2010
United States19 Posts
February 07 2011 16:29 GMT
#34
“a gaming community is the last place any intelligent person should be asking about girl problems“

Implying isn't good for you.
Deleted User 61629
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
1664 Posts
February 07 2011 16:48 GMT
#35
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Darkchylde
Profile Joined January 2010
United States473 Posts
February 07 2011 19:43 GMT
#36
I like the Harvest Moon approach.

Just be confident in whatever approach you choose and don't forget to make eye contract and smile. It can be a simple Hi or Hello at the beginning of class or if you need to you can mask your awkwardness by asking her a question related to the class or homework. Don't think too much about it and just do it. Even if you fail, just see it as experience, learn from it, and move on to other girls.
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