EPTAny suggestions? What would tl do???
Asking a girl out
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flyinfart
United States95 Posts
Any suggestions? What would tl do??? | ||
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Essentia
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Dooba
Croatia588 Posts
Start talking to the girl and see if it clicks. If you do seem to find subjects you like to talk about or you just get along well in casual talk, slide in a "wanna go for a drink?" and that's about it. And do it sooner than later. More fish in the sea so go find out where you're at with this one. | ||
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Terranator
Canada286 Posts
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BlueStar
Bulgaria1166 Posts
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Kamais_Ookin
Canada4218 Posts
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Rainmaker5
United States1027 Posts
On February 07 2011 17:59 Terranator wrote: You're in college right? Just invite her to a party and have some drinks, don't over-think it and make moves. What's a "ravet" by the way? guessing raver | ||
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OmniEulogy
Canada6592 Posts
no no, ravet, like a rivet, but for girls. + Show Spoiler + this is the definition for rivet for those of you who didn't get it... "Before being installed a rivet consists of a smooth cylindrical shaft with a head on one end." | ||
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AcrossFiveJulys
United States3612 Posts
On February 07 2011 18:39 OmniEulogy wrote: no no, ravet, like a rivet, but for girls. + Show Spoiler + this is the definition for rivet for those of you who didn't get it... "Before being installed a rivet consists of a smooth cylindrical shaft with a head on one end." Also, for those still not getting it, ravet sounds a lot like raven... | ||
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Zim23
United States1681 Posts
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
On February 07 2011 17:58 Essentia wrote: With a name like "flyinfart" how could you not be a lady's man? ROFL Anyway, what's your current flirtation flow chart? | ||
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wussleeQ
United States3130 Posts
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CooDu
Australia899 Posts
10 years, never been happier =D | ||
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Wolf
Korea (South)3290 Posts
...It never is. | ||
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Kittenlisk
Australia34 Posts
Give her a cabbage. Watch carefully for her facial expression after this, if it's a smile you're on the right track! Give her another cabbage the next day from here on out to build up your reputation. If she frowns come back the next day with a different item, such as a egg, cake, chicken, wool or flower. Repeat until the correct item is found. In the event that she refuses all gifts she's probably not a major character, and you should try someone else out. Hope that helps! | ||
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Klockan3
Sweden2866 Posts
On February 07 2011 20:12 Kittenlisk wrote: According to the wisdom of games... Give her a cabbage. Watch carefully for her facial expression after this, if it's a smile you're on the right track! Give her another cabbage the next day from here on out to build up your reputation. If she frowns come back the next day with a different item, such as a egg, cake, chicken, wool or flower. Repeat until the correct item is found. In the event that she refuses all gifts she's probably not a major character, and you should try someone else out. Hope that helps! Best advice imo, would fix everyones girl problems. | ||
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m3rciless
United States1476 Posts
On February 07 2011 20:12 Kittenlisk wrote: According to the wisdom of games... Give her a cabbage. Watch carefully for her facial expression after this, if it's a smile you're on the right track! Give her another cabbage the next day from here on out to build up your reputation. If she frowns come back the next day with a different item, such as a egg, cake, chicken, wool or flower. Repeat until the correct item is found. In the event that she refuses all gifts she's probably not a major character, and you should try someone else out. Hope that helps! SCIENCE! | ||
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judytuna
United States217 Posts
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
On February 07 2011 19:50 CooDu wrote: Or get the first girl you can and marry her like I did. 10 years, never been happier =D This might sound extreme but there are a lot of wisdom in here (mom told me this, which is actually quite true, she said "don't pick, just get someone pretty okay and hug her tight"). Now I have a gf (I think I know what I'm talking about) and how I met here isn't really flirting and such. I just kept interacting with her in a normal way with some extra special-ness and it'll "just happen". It'll get to a point where you know/understand about each other so much and enjoying each other's company so much that it is impossible to not develop that relationship further. So my advise is to act normal and just try to interact with her in a meaingful way, don't worry about showing romantic interest or anything like that, if you really like her, it'll shine through. And chances are if she likes you (which is nothing you can force), she'll show the same, and the two hands will just clap together and ur good. Worse come to the worse she doesn't like you too much, but you havn't lost your cool since all you did is being a nice guy. | ||
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The Slothien
Finland30 Posts
Best post in any girl thread i've seen, deep respect Dooba got it pretty much right, just talk to her casually and remember eye contact. | ||
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Noxie
United States2227 Posts
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evanthebouncy!
United States12796 Posts
So just be kind and gentle in your approach, and if things don't go well you will just accept your losses but fuck man, ur a man so suck it up, move on, and go to gym.  | ||
Xxio
Canada5565 Posts
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Liquid`Zephyr
United States996 Posts
On February 07 2011 21:18 Xxio wrote: Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward i've been working this approach for a long time with some great success. would recommend to other people | ||
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fabulously
Norway724 Posts
On February 07 2011 21:18 Xxio wrote: Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward And if that fails, say something that IS awkward and see her find you you incredible adorable! Awkward approches are sometimes soooo cute. Depends though, I guess, whether or not there are some sparks in the first place | ||
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BluzMan
Russian Federation4235 Posts
On February 07 2011 20:12 Kittenlisk wrote: According to the wisdom of games... Give her a cabbage. Watch carefully for her facial expression after this, if it's a smile you're on the right track! Give her another cabbage the next day from here on out to build up your reputation. If she frowns come back the next day with a different item, such as a egg, cake, chicken, wool or flower. Repeat until the correct item is found. In the event that she refuses all gifts she's probably not a major character, and you should try someone else out. Hope that helps! Golden! | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32044 Posts
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clickrush
Switzerland3257 Posts
On February 07 2011 17:52 flyinfart wrote: So, amazingly enough, used to be pretty good at finding girls that were slutty but not completely retarded. Now, I'm 20 and am aware of STIs and the fact that slutty girls my age probably have something I don't want. Anyways, for the past two years I've been on a part self and part socially inflicted hiatus with several changes to my circle of friends and sobriety from drug use. So I've been thinking about expanding my horizon with a chick from my precal class who is very definitely a ravet, but seems cool enough. The problem is, my entire approach to flirting is obsolete. And now that I think about it, a gaming community is the last place any intelligent person should be asking about girl problems, but here I am. Hopefully the beer and spellcheck are balancing eachother our. Any suggestions? What would tl do??? young men between 18-22 should check out more mature (talking about +4 or maybe even +8 years or so) women. If you like to believe me: the girls at your age arent worth it most of the time if you want to expand your horizon either physically or mentally. I dont know why this is the case. maybe its just because you have to learn a ton before you understand how some things work. and its alot easyer to learn from the experienced ones. this suggestion is based on my own experience and those of a handfull of ppl I know/friends so its very subjective but honest so you might consider it at least. And most importantly: be honest and respectfull to yourself and your surroundings. | ||
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MangoTango
United States3670 Posts
On February 07 2011 17:58 Essentia wrote: With a name like "flyinfart" how could you not be a lady's man? Oh god my keyboard. My cereal is all over it now. Goddamnit. | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
Works every time | ||
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ninini
Sweden1204 Posts
On February 07 2011 21:18 Xxio wrote: Just walk up to her and say something that isn't awkward Do you like Starcraft?.... | ||
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FireBlast!
United Kingdom5251 Posts
On February 07 2011 21:09 evanthebouncy! wrote: The worst mindset is to "go out and try to score something". This is awful and insincere and if it succeed you'll find yourself with a girl that you don't really know what to do with and if you fail you will rage and think "gah those girls always friendzone me". Bottom line is do your best (w/o overextending) but expect nothing, love isn't something like "cause and effect" where you can put in a lot of efforts and a lot of rewards will come right out. A lot of times it's not the case at all. If you insist on forcing something to happen with lots of efforts, the outcome is very ugly and painful, I've been there. So just be kind and gentle in your approach, and if things don't go well you will just accept your losses but fuck man, ur a man so suck it up, move on, and go to gym. sounds like laddering | ||
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MoreFaSho
United States1427 Posts
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Addishuns
United States19 Posts
Implying isn't good for you. | ||
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Darkchylde
United States473 Posts
Just be confident in whatever approach you choose and don't forget to make eye contract and smile. It can be a simple Hi or Hello at the beginning of class or if you need to you can mask your awkwardness by asking her a question related to the class or homework. Don't think too much about it and just do it. Even if you fail, just see it as experience, learn from it, and move on to other girls. | ||
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